SEX and MARRIAGE

Dream about marriage & sex interpreted for a friend

3-5-20-HES GOOD HUSBAND I SAY WE WILL DO SEX

John, my good husband, & I are standing around outside by the small bridge near the creek. He is facing away from the creek toward me, is wearing a white t-shirt, his hair curly honey blonde.

(BRIDGE, SMALL: A TRANSITION, A CHANGE.

CREEK: CARRIES THE GRACE OF GOD OR GOOD FORTUNE

FACING AWAY, FROM CREEK: HE DOES NOT SEE THIS GRACE COMING, NOT AWARE.

CURLY HAIR: WORRIED {IT’LL CURL YOUR HAIR}

HONEY BLONDE HAIR: HE HAS SWEET THOUGHTS ABOUT ME.

LOOKING AT ME: THINKING ABOUT ME.

WHITE T-SHIRT: HE WANTS MARRIAGE. THE WHITE IS OVER HIS HEART.)

This is like in real life, I’ve never had sex with John but a change has come over me. I tell him, as I have thought it out,

(CHANGE: THIS EXPLAINS THE BRIDGE OR CHANGE, IT’S ABOUT SEX.

I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME A SIGN ABOUT WHEN TO START UP AGAIN & THE TIME IS COMING SOON.)

“It seems that you aren’t happy & neither am I.”

To myself I have thought about my revulsion to have sex with him – he doesn’t have any appeal to me. But I’m going to force myself to desire him – how bad could it be? I need sex & it might as well be my husband. We could both be happy if I make myself do it.

So I tell him I am going to allow him to do sex to me. He is just listening, he’s passive.

(PASSIVE: AMENABLE, COOPERATIVE, SUBMISSIVE–TO ME IN THIS SITUATION.)

I am wearing a white hat, the kind sailors wear, only the rim of it is wider than sailor’s. It’s pushed back on my forehead; I seem to be adjusting it. I don’t see any of the hair on my head, it’s under my hat.

(UNDER MY HAT: THIS IS A SECRET TO HIM, NOT TO ME. MY THOUGHTS {HAIR} ABOUT IT ARE SECRET.

HAT, WHITE: MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MINDED

FOREHEAD, PUSHED BACK ON: EXPOSING MY THOUGHTS OR DECISION.)

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SYMBOLS IN THE DREAM OF 3-5-20

BRIDGE, SMALL: A TRANSITION, A CHANGE. A bridge takes us from one place to another, not necessarily to a physical place but mental, emotional or spiritual place. It could also be any venue, any change, from one thing to another, like one job or project leading to another.

CREEK: CARRIES THE GRACE OF GOD OR GOOD FORTUNE. Water is often grace because we need water so badly, we couldn’t live without it, ditto for the Grace of God.

FACING AWAY, FROM CREEK: HE DOES NOT SEE THIS GRACE COMING, NOT AWARE. This grace is something that will make him happy but he’s not aware it’s coming.

CURLY HAIR: WORRIED {IT’LL CURL YOUR HAIR.} Hair has to do with the mind or brain, as hair is coming ‘out of the head.’ It represents what comes out of our head, brain or mind. Hair getting ‘curled’ is like a person cringing or retreating into themselves through stress—the opposite being free flowing & relaxed. Curly hair is not relaxed.

HONEY BLONDE HAIR: HE HAS SWEET THOUGHTS ABOUT ME. Honey is sweet.

LOOKING AT ME: THINKING ABOUT ME. You are usually thinking about what you are looking at.

WHITE T-SHIRT: HE WANTS MARRIAGE. THE WHITE IS OVER HIS HEART. White often represents marriage. It can mean other things, but you interpret according to what is the dream about? The dream is about a romantic relationship so this indicates marriage.

CHANGE: THIS EXPLAINS THE BRIDGE OR CHANGE, IT’S ABOUT SEX. From no sex (what he was worried about) to having sex.

I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME A SIGN ABOUT WHEN TO START UP AGAIN & THE TIME IS COMING SOON. God or our unconscious often speaks to us through our dreams. {Nightmares are usually from demons or demonic energies, or else our fears–could also be warnings from the Heavenly realm—I have had frightening warnings from God to stop doing something, & if not, God would ‘kill me.’ I obeyed & it was the right thing to do, which God knew would lead to dire consequences—but I was unaware. God wanted no refusal on my part & stated her Will in no uncertain terms.}

PASSIVE: AMENABLE, COOPERATIVE, SUBMISSIVE–TO ME IN THIS SITUATION. Again, passive can be interpreted in other ways, always look to the content & meaning of the dream to apply the symbols.

UNDER MY HAT: THIS IS A SECRET TO HIM, NOT TO ME. MY THOUGHTS {HAIR} ABOUT IT ARE SECRET. Since people can’t see under your hat, it’s hidden. And what is under your hat is your brain or mind, so your thoughts are secret.

HAT, WHITE: MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MINDED

FOREHEAD, PUSHED BACK ON: EXPOSING MY THOUGHTS OR DECISION. Again, a white hat can mean other things but in the context of this dream it means this.

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ROCKY AFFAIR WILL TURN GOOD

DREAM REVIEWS ROCKY RELATIONSHIP—PREDICTS POSITIVE

OUTCOME

dream interpreted for a friend

3-3-20-ELVIS-EVIL KAHELL

First dream was about Elvis & it was joyful. There was a stage. We were taking turns performing, Elvis was on stage, I was on stage, for a while two people were on this stage that were ‘filling in’ for us. Their stage was all lustrous mint green, padded as if blankets underneath.

(STAGE, PADDED: THIS WAS YOUR BED, ON WHICH YOU & HE PERFORMED. THE DESCRIPTIONS ARE YOUR OWN SHEETS IN REAL LIFE BEING MINT GREEN, LUSTROUS. THESE ‘FILL INS’ ARE WHEN YOU TWO WERE ‘AT PEACE’ WHICH WERE ‘IN BETWEEN’ THE UPS & DOWN. THE TIMES WHEN THE STAGE IS IN REDS, BLUES & BLACKS IS WHEN YOU WERE ON & OFF WITH YOUR LOVER DON. HALF THE TIME HE WAS MISERABLE AS HE WASN’T SURE IF YOU LOVED HIM.

ELVIS: THIS IS THE LOVER DON. WHY IS HE ELVIS? BECAUSE YOU WERE MADLY IN LOVE WITH ELVIS AS A CHILD, AGE 10-12, & THIS WAS/IS A ‘CRAZY LOVE’ ALSO. WHEN YOU DREAM OF CELEBRITIES THAT YOU LOVED, IT’S USUALLY SOMEONE DIFFERENT THAT YOU RELATED TO–IN DREAMS IT’S A VOCABULARY OF SYMBOLS. MEN WILL DREAM OF SEXY FEMALE STARS BUT THEY MIGHT REPRESENT WOMEN THEY KNOW. IN THIS DREAM ELVIS IS THE GOOD SIDE OF DON WHILE KAHELL THE BAD SIDE, THE DR. JEKYL & MR. HYDE.)

The stages always had soft cushions. For Elvis & me they were glittery—reds, blacks, dark blues maybe, but sparkly like that ghoulish guy with mask that jumped into the boxing ring, covered in all sparkle/sequins in dark colors. The floors of the stage are not wood, they are padded with cloth on top, puffy & beautiful. We were HAPPY most of the time.

(YOU WERE HAPPY WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER, OTHERWISE YOU COULD NOT HAVE STOOD STAYING TOGETHER, AS IT WAS ROCKY. IN OTHER WORDS, YOU BORE THE BAD TIMES WISHING TO RETURN TO THE GOOD TIMES.)

But El had one problem that made him miserable, he thought I didn’t love him, but I did. There are many performances, he seems to ‘go away’ thinking I don’t love him then comes back super-joyful when he finds out that I do. Of course I love him, it’s ridiculous to think I don’t.

(HE WAS UN RIGHTEOUSLY UNCERTAIN OF YOUR LOVE. HE’S INCREDIBLY INSECURE, TROUBLED FROM INNER CONFLICTS.)

The stage is set in a room & it’s to the side, against the wall (just like the bed in my apt), not real big but about 15’long & maybe 8’ wide & seems to be trimmed all around with a band of sequins if El or I is performing.

(THE SEQUINS REPRESENT THE GLAMOUR & DRAMA OF WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER, ‘PERFORMING’ OR ACTING ON THE STAGE OF LIFE. THERE WERE GOOD & BAD TIMES, BUT IT WAS ALWAYS DRAMA.)

The highlight of this is when he thinks I don’t love him & how happy he is to return & find that I do.

(PERHAPS THAT’S WHAT HE LIVED FOR. HE TREATED YOU BADLY; MOST WOMEN WOULD HAVE GIVEN UP. BUT IT ALWAYS THRILLED HIM WHEN YOU RECEIVED HIM BACK, A RELIEF, A TRIUMPH. HIS BAD BEHAVIOR PUSHED YOU AWAY & HE KNEW IT; HE FEARED LOSING YOU. HIS TRUE LOVE ALWAYS BROUGHT HIM BACK & YOU HAD JOYFUL REUNIONS.)

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KAHELL THE EVIL ONE

Long ago I had a bf named Kahell, & he’s back, & he’s here with me, but in the scenes he has another female who is a fool & an idiot.

(THIS FOOL, IDIOT COULD BE HIS PRESENT GF OR YOURSELF IN THE PAST. EITHER WAY, SHE WILL BE GONE, BOTH OF THEM; THE OTHER GF & THE FOOLISH YOU—YOU HAVE CHANGED.)

Kahell was everything bad—a coke addict, criminal, greedy, selfish con man, the lowest of the low. Hard to think about him he was so evil & I was involved. His presence is repulsive.

(KAHELL: THIS IS THE SAME MAN YOU LOVED WHO LOVED YOU, AT HIS WORST, HIS DARK SIDE.)

First I see us at the old farm house. This female with him is short & slightly plump, like shortish arms & legs & filled out. She seems immature & egotistical.

(AGAIN, THIS IS PROBABLY TWO DIFFERENT WOMEN UNDER THE SAME BANNER, THE FEMALE HE EXPLOITS RIGHT NOW, & YOUR FOOLISH SELF IN THE PAST, WHEN YOU ACTED IN AN IMMATURE & EGOTISTICAL MANNER.)

Her egotism seems focused on praising Kahell. He’s naked here with us in the kitchen. She says how well built he is, he’s 6’2”, has muscles, not sure about his penis, it’s there but I don’t agree with his so-called ‘beauty,’ he repulses me. I see him sort of ‘emerging’ from the side of the table I’m sitting, like reaching out for something, like a person playing basketball & reaching for the ball, his body on say a 75 degree angle.

(THIS IS WHEN DON, THE LOVER, BECOMES THE ‘HYDE’ OF JEKYLL & HYDE. HE’S EVERYTHING BAD, HE’S REPULSIVE.

GF, SHORT, PLUMP IMMATURE: THIS MIGHT BE HIS REAL OTHER GF WHO HE DRUGS WITH, ACCORDING TO THIS SHE’S A FOOL & AN IDIOT, BUT SO WAS I. IT SEEMS LIKE SHE ACCEPTS HIS DARK SIDE, THE WORST OF HIM, & PRAISES HIM—SO DID I. HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE BELIES ‘AVERAGE GIRL’ ON THE INTERIOR PLANE. IT COULD APPLY TO YOU WHEN YOU REVERTED TO THE FLESH.

YOU ARE NOT REPULSED BY ANYTHING PHYSICAL, BUT HIS CHARACTER & ACTIONS. ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE SYMBOLISM IN PHYSICAL FORMS.)

We are all three around for a long time. There’s something about after a while he wants to know if we’re gong to be friendly, affectionate, maybe make love. I tell him I do need affection, but I cannot deal with him, be with him while he’s with his gf. He thinks it’s alright, but I don’t.

(BEING THE LOWLIFE THAT HE IS, HE WANTS TO HAVE THE OTHER GIRL & YOU, BUT YOU REFUSE. IF HE’S WITH HER, HE CANNOT BE WITH YOU. THIS IS A CHANGE FROM WHAT WENT ON BEFORE, AS YOU EXPECTED HIM TO BREAK UP ANY TIME, BUT IT’S BEEN DRAGGING ON TOO LONG. HERE YOU ARE NO LONGER THE ‘FOOL-IDIOT’ SHE IS.

HIS REACHING LIKE PLAYING BASKETBALL, AWAY FROM MY TABLE, IS HE IS ‘PLAYING GAMES’ WITH ME, AS HE STRETCHES OR LEANS AWAY FROM ME, HE’S NOT BEING SERIOUS.)

She at one point is standing in the room bragging about her ‘prowess’ with him – that no one can take him from her – he’s standing past her. I seem to be ‘hovering’ above, & I say,

“How dare you!”

(THE HIGHER PART OF YOU KNOWS SHE’S WRONG BECAUSE WHEN HE COMES TO HIS SENSES YOU ARE GOING TO COMMAND HIM. SHE’S BEING PRESUMPTUOUS.)

The next scene is we’re in my apt in B’klyn. I despise this couple, but they are living with me. I wish I could make them leave, but how?

(COUPLE, YOU DESPISE THEM: YOU DESPISE THIS COUPLE BEING TOGETHER, YOU WISH THEY WOULD BREAK UP. BEING WITH YOU, LIVING OFF YOU, IS THEY ARE IN YOUR HEAD LIVING OFF YOUR ENERGY. YOU WANT TO GET THEM—AS A COUPLE—OUT OF YOUR MIND. THEY ARE ‘LIVING RENT FREE IN YOUR HEAD.’

APT, B’KLYN IS A PLACE OF PENANCE, CHANGE & REVELATION.)

On one wall is a hanging shoe holder – I used to have one. In it are about 20 pairs of shoes of mine like new. Next to the shoes are greeting cards looking the same way.

(SHOES: THESE ARE THE LESSONS IN MY LIFE. ‘WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES’ & THE ‘GIFT OF THE GURU SANDALS’ BOTH APPLY. THE FIRST IS ‘EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER.’ THE SECOND IS A GURU IS ONE WHO TEACHES OR ENLIGHTENS YOU. THIS IS SAYING I HAVE LEARNED MANY LESSONS OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP.

GREETING CARDS, LIKE SHOES: GREETING CARDS COMMEMORATE HOLIDAYS, SEASONS, EVENTS, & SO THIS UNDERSCORES HOW THE PASSAGE OF TIME, WITH ITS CHANGES, DRAMAS & EVENTS, ‘WE LIVE & WE LEARN.’)

Hard to recall what happens here just as I wish & hope they would leave – why are they here. They are living off me.

(EXPLAINED PREVIOUSLY)

Finally one day they gather their belongings & exit out the door. After he’s past the door I recall he has the key! I need the key back. I understand he is secretly planning to use the key to come back, so I am not safe!

(KEY, HE STILL HAS THE KEY: THIS HAS A TWOFOLD MEANING PROBABLY, BECAUSE THE RELATIONSHIP GOES BOTH WAYS. HE HAS THE KEY TO GET BACK INTO YOUR MIND & HEART – YOU HAVE A FEAR OF HIS EVIL NATURE, HIS DARK SIDE RETURNING.

HE ALSO HAS INTENTIONS OF RETURNING TO BE WITH YOU, IN REAL LIFE.

THIS ALLUDES TO THE FACT THAT THE OTHER FEMALE WILL DEPART, BECAUSE IT IS ‘THEY’ WHO LEAVE & ONLY HE HAS THE KEY, NOT HER & YOU KNOW HE IS SECRETLY PLANNING TO RETURN, BUT IT DOES NOT MENTION HER.

‘THEY’ LEAVING IS ALSO THE FOOLISH YOU DISAPPEARING WITH HIM.)

Next scene I am outside, riding in a car where three people are in front, the brother of an ex bf of mine is driving, Kahell is on my right. I tell Kahell I want my key back. He’s wearing a dark {charcoal black} pin-striped suit, black with lighter very thin stripes.

(INTERESTING, UNUSUAL SYMBOLS.

THE BOY DRIVING IS ONE WHO HAS BEEN IN JAIL FOR A FAIRLY LONG TIME {IN REAL LIFE}; THIS MEANS HE’S OUT. THE ‘BROTHER’ IS ACTUALLY THE MAIN PRINCIPAL– DON – WHOSE ALTER EGO IS KAHELL.

THIS SAYS DON HAS BEEN RELEASED FROM PRISON. WHAT IS THE PRISON? THE PRISON OF HIS MIND, HIS HEART, WHICH WAS TAKEN OVER BY DRUGS & THIS OTHER WOMAN, NOW HE IS FREE.

PIN-STRIPED SUIT, BLACK WITH THIN LIGHT VERTICAL LINES:

NOW THE EVIL SELF, KAHELL, IS IMPRISONED OR UNDER LOCK & KEY. {PIN STRIPED DARK SUIT, ESPECIALLY WITH VERTICAL STRIPES IS LIKE THE BARS OF A CAGE, MEANS BEING IMPRISONED.} THE ‘DRIVER’ OR ACTIVE SELF, ONE IN CHARGE, IS NOW THE ‘GOOD SELF’ COME BACK; HIS BAD SELF PUT AWAY. THE GOOD SELF IS OBEDIENT & GIVES YOU YOUR KEY – NO CONSPIRACIES, HE WILL NOT INVADE YOU WITHOUT PERMISSION, HE WILL WAIT FOR YOU TO OPEN THE DOOR, WHICH SHOWS RESPECT.

THE BAD SELF DOES NOT WANT TO RETURN THE KEY FOR WHAT REASON? MAYBE HE NO LONGER HAS IT, NO LONGER HAS THE ABILITY TO TORMENT YOU. MAYBE SINCE HE’S ‘PUT DOWN’ HE HASN’T GOT THE ABILITY TO ACT IN ANY WAY, HAS TO JUST SIT IN HIS CELL OR ‘STAY DEAD.’ HIS INTENTIONS WOULD STILL BE EVIL BUT HE’S POWERLESS TO ACT.)

Surprisingly, the brother takes out a key – my key – gives it back to me—I didn’t even know he had it. Kahell doesn’t want to return my key.

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SYMBOLS IN THE 3-3-20 DREAM, ELVIS & KAHELL

DREAM PREDICTS ROCKY RELATIONSHIP WILL HAVE POSITIVE OUTCOME

STAGE, PADDED:

THIS WAS YOUR BED, ON WHICH YOU & HE PERFORMED. THE DESCRIPTIONS ARE YOUR OWN SHEETS IN REAL LIFE BEING MINT GREEN, LUSTROUS. THESE ‘FILL INS’ ARE WHEN YOU TWO WERE ‘AT PEACE’ WHICH WERE ‘IN BETWEEN’ THE UPS & DOWN. THE TIMES WHEN THE STAGE IS IN REDS, BLUES & BLACKS IS WHEN YOU WERE ON & OFF WITH YOUR LOVER DON. HALF THE TIME HE WAS MISERABLE AS HE WASN’T SURE IF YOU LOVED HIM.

BOTH ELVIS & KAHELL ARE DON, YOUR LOVER, ELVIS THE GOOD SIDE & KAHELL THE BAD, LIKE DR. JEKYL & MR. HYDE. IT’S OUR PRIMITIVE, HUMAN NATURE THAT CAN BE CORRUPT VS OUR DIVINE NATURE. THE EVIL SIDE OF OURSELVES CONTAINS ALL THE BAD TRAITS BY WHICH WE HURT OTHERS.

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SEQUINS

REPRESENT THE GLAMOUR & DRAMA OF WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER, ‘PERFORMING’ OR ACTING ON THE STAGE OF LIFE. THERE WERE GOOD & BAD TIMES, BUT IT WAS ALWAYS DRAMA.

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FOOL, IDIOT:

SOMEONE THINKING IN THE FLESH. IN THIS CASE HIS PRESENT FEMALE WHO ALLOWS HERSELF TO BE USED, & IN THE PAST, YOURSELF WHO PUT UP WITH HIS ABUSE.

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BASKETBALL:

REFERS TO HIS ‘PLAYING GAMES’, NOT BEING SERIOUS, MANIPULATING YOU.

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GIRL FRIEND, SHORT, PLUMP:

GF, SHORT, PLUMP IMMATURE: THIS MIGHT BE HIS REAL OTHER GF WHO HE DRUGS WITH, ACCORDING TO THIS SHE’S A FOOL & AN IDIOT, BUT SO WAS I. IT SEEMS LIKE SHE ACCEPTS HIS DARK SIDE, THE WORST OF HIM, & PRAISES HIM—SO DID I. HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE BELIES ‘AVERAGE GIRL’ ON THE INTERIOR PLANE. IT COULD APPLY TO YOU WHEN YOU REVERTED TO THE FLESH.

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HOVERING, ABOVE HER:

THE HIGHER PART OF YOU KNOWS SHE’S WRONG BECAUSE WHEN HE COMES TO HIS SENSES YOU ARE GOING TO COMMAND HIM. SHE’S BEING PRESUMPTUOUS.

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APT, B’KLYN:

IS A PLACE OF PENANCE, CHANGE, REVELATION, GREAT SPIRITUAL EVENTS.

THE PLACE WHERE THE DREAM PRESENTS ITS SCENES GIVES BIG CLUES. WHAT DID THIS PLACE MEAN TO YOU? WHAT HAPPENED THERE? THE SAME IS HAPPENING AGAIN.

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SHOES:

THESE ARE THE LESSONS IN MY LIFE. ‘WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES’ & THE ‘GIFT OF THE GURU SANDALS’ BOTH APPLY. THE FIRST IS ‘EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER.’ THE SECOND IS A GURU IS ONE WHO TEACHES OR ENLIGHTENS YOU. THIS IS SAYING I HAVE LEARNED MANY LESSONS OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP.

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KEY:

HE STILL HAS THE KEY: HE HAS THE KEY TO GET BACK INTO YOUR MIND & HEART – YOU HAVE A FEAR OF HIS EVIL NATURE, HIS DARK SIDE RETURNING.

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BROTHER, DRIVING:

IN THIS DREAM THE BRO IS A PERSON WHO IN REAL LIFE IS HERE WHICH MEANS HE GOT OUT OF JAIL. BUT AGAIN, THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE BRO, IT’S ABOUT THE SAME PERSON, DON, WHO’S APPEARED AS A ‘GOOD GUY ELVIS’ & ‘BAD GUY KAHELL.’

NOW HE BECOMES ‘THE ONE RELEASED FROM A PRISON.’ TO SAY HE’S HERE DRIVING, MEANS THE FREED-UP DON IS NOW IN CHARGE. I’M IN THE CAR WITH KAHELL TO THE RIGHT OF ME, I’M IN THE MIDDLE, IS TO SAY DON HAS BEEN LIBERATED FROM THE PRISON HE WAS IN –THE EVIL MENTAL STATE HE WAS IN BEFORE.

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PIN STRIPED SUIT:

KAHELL, THE EVIL ONE, IS TO THE RIGHT IN THIS CAR BUT HE’S WEARING A CHARCOAL BLACK VERTICALLY STRIPLED SUIT. THIS MEANS HE IS CAGED AS THE VERTICAL STRIPLES SAY SO, LIKE THE BARS OF A CAGE OR PRISON. THE GOOD GUY IS IN CHARGE OR ‘DRIVING’ WHILE THE BAD GUY IS SUBDUED.

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HE PROPOSES MARRIAGE

Dream interpreted for a friend. Too see Rasa’s book on dreams, ‘Theater of the Mind,’ check Lulu & Amazon.

2-3-20-HE PROPOSES MARRIAGE-THE REAL DEAL-NO MORE HANKY-PANKY

There’s this young man I really like, but he’s with another woman. I stand around just looking at him all the time, from here or there, looking, looking. Finally I ‘give up’ as he’s paying attention only to her; I walk away & am sitting somewhere.

(I GOT TIRED OF WAITING FOR Xxx to quit the female he’s with & walked away.)

Then he leaves that female & he comes over to me.

( THIS IS A MENTAL STATE WHICH PREDICTS A PHYSICAL CHANGE IN THE FUTURE.)

He sits down on some kind of a ledge to my left a few feet from me, about 3 or 4’ above me, stretched out in a sense so I can see his body from head to toe. He’s wearing some kind of outfit that is form-fitting, clinging & there seem to be shades of green, dark & light. His body is shapely like the drawings, paintings I have which I often share on my site—(can’t think of the artist’s name, much of it spiritually/religiously inspired.)

He’s young, dark hair, nice features; the features are so beautiful they are almost feminine, like he could pass for a female if made up properly – almost.

{He reminds me of someone – who? Perhaps that coachman in ‘Upstairs-Downstairs who was so handsome a maid fell in love with him but those around him influenced by his female employer made him reject the maid. He ignored her – she hanged herself as she had ‘no one else.’ Except that guy was blonde, this one is dark.}

(THIS WAS MY LOT WHEN I WAS OBSESSIVELY ‘IN LOVE’ WITH Xxx. WHEN HE IGNORED, REJECTED ME, WOULD NOT SPEAK TO ME FOR A LONG TIME, I HAD ANXIETY ATTACKS WHICH LED TO HEART ATTACKS – IN A SENSE I DIED, BUT CAME BACK AGAIN AFTER LEAVING THIS WORLD – I REVIVED & RETURNED. AND I GOT OVER THE OBSESSION.)

Then he says something that shocks me. He says,

“DO YOU WANT A DATE WITH ME?”

As I said, I’m so shocked I’m SPEECHLESS & instead of saying yes I squeeze or pinch his ANKLE, which is right in front of me. That is my answer & he knows its yes. He then says,

“BUT ON OUR FIRST DATE, WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO TOUCH EACH OTHER.”

At that, I want to ask him if he’s a Muslim – like they have strange customs, old fashioned, & I already broke the rule by touching his ankle. But I don’t dare ask, as if he’s Muslim it might raise some conflict or disagreement.

There was a SENSE that he’s actually asking me to marry him. But we must follow antiquated rules. No ‘touching’ as we court, & then this leads to marriage. And after marriage we can ‘touch’ which is a code word for sex.

(MEANING:

YESTERDAY Xxx PUT SOMETHING ON HIS BLOG THAT INDICATED HE KNEW GOD WAS DEALING WITH HIM, ENDING HIS PRESENT SITUATION / LIFE TO MOVE HIM FORWARD TO ANOTHER.

THAT LIFE THAT’S ENDING IS WITH THE OTHER WOMAN. HERE HE’S PRESENTING TO ME HE HAS DISCERNED THE WILL OF GOD, THAT GOD WANTS HIM TO BE WITH ME.

HE IS SAYING THAT IT’S APPROPRIATE WE NOT HAVE SEX, WE MUST END THAT SEX-ONLY AFFAIR–HE MUST PROPOSE MARRIAGE, I MUST SAY YES, THEN OLD-FASHIONED COURTSHIP, THEN WE FORM OUR BOND. IN OTHER WORDS, HE HAS SEEN THE LIGHT OR THE TRUTH & HE’S COMPLIANT WITH IT.

THE MEANING OF THE DREAM IS SAYING I WANTED HIM A LOT, BUT HE DALLIED WITH ANOTHER. I LEFT HIM & ONLY WHEN HE LOST ME, HE CAME & PROPOSED. AND HE AGREES TO A TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE, THAT IS, NOT USING ME FOR SEX—PROPOSAL, COURTSHIP, THEN MARRIAGE WITH SEX………………………………

QUESTIONS: HIS APPEARANCE, THE VOLUPTUOUS BODY, HIS BODY REVEALED NOT IN NORMAL CLOTHES BUT CLINGING ONES IN GREENS. SITTING IN FRONT OF ME A FEW FEET HIGHER TO MY LEFT. I SQUEEZE HIS ANKLE. ALL SYMBOLS THAT MEAN SOMETHING BUT WHAT?

(1) HIS APPEARANCE: THE BEAUTY–COULD HAVE A DOUBLE, TRIPLE MEANING. FIRST HE IS PHYSICALLY HANDSOME, TO AN EXTREME DEGREE.

SECOND, ‘HANDSOME IS AS HANDSOME DOES,’ HIS BEHAVIOR TO ME ISN’T UGLY ANY MORE, HE’S TURNED OVER A NEW LEAF & HAS SPIRITUAL BEAUTY, HE’S COME CLOSER TO GOD & TRUTH, HE’S ASCENDED.

THIRD, HE REMINDS ME OF THE MALE IN THE TV SERIES WHO BROKE THE MAID’S HEART & SHE DIED OF IT. THIS ALL POINTS TO ONE INDIVIDUAL.

(2) THEN, HIS VOLUPTUOUS, SHAPELY BODY, ALL OF IT REVEALED, ALL OF IT BEFORE ME. THIS MEANS HE’S NO LONGER HIDDEN, HIDING. HE IS OFFERING ME ALL OF HIMSELF, NOT PART OF HIMSELF; THERE’S NO MORE OF HIM TO GIVE. HE IS NOT GIVING SOME OF HIMSELF TO THE OTHER WIFE, SOME TO ME, HE’S FINALLY LEAVING HER & GIVING ALL TO ME.

(3) CLINGING CLOTHES IN GREENS. THIS IS LIFE REVEALED. ‘HERE IT IS—ALL OF IT.’

(4) SITTING HIGHER THAN ME, TO MY LEFT BEFORE ME. COMING FROM A HIGHER PLACE THAN HE WAS BEFORE – COMING FROM ‘HEAVEN’ SO TO SPEAK OR HIS ‘ASCENDED, IMPROVED SPIRITUAL STATE.’ HE IS SAYING ‘I ACCEPT YOUR TERMS, THE TERMS OF RELATIONSHIP BEFORE SEX—YOU WERE RIGHT. DO YOU WANT ME?’

(5) SQUEEZING OR PINCHING HIS ANKLE INSTEAD OF SPEAKING – I’M SPEECHLESS. ANKLE COULD REPRESENT PENIS. IT SEEMS FAR-FETCHED BUT A ‘THIRD LEG’ IS WHEN A MAN HAS A LARGE PENIS YOU SAY ‘HE HAS THREE LEGS.’ THIS MIGHT BE A HINT OR WITTICISM ‘YES, I WANT YOUR PENIS—YOUR PENIS IS SO BIG IT HANGS ALL THE WAY TO YOUR ANKLE.’ IT’S A JOKE YET IT’S TRUE IN A HUMOROUS WAY & I SAY YES IN THAT WAY………………………………BEING SPEECHLESS IS WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS YOU REALLY WANTED BUT LOST HOPE—YOU’RE SPEECHLESS………….THIS DREAM IS AN ANSWER TO PRAYER ABOUT THE POST ON HIS BLOG – THIS IS WHAT IT MEANS. HE’S TALKING TO YOU, HE’S PROPOSING MARRIAGE, THE REAL DEAL. NO MORE HANKY—PANKY.)

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WOMEN’S FEELINGS ON SEXUALITY

WOMEN /MEN THINK DIFFERENTLY RE. SEX

There is an entire book in the difference in male/female view of sexuality.
The predominant vision of it is presented by “the old men” of Patriarchy.
I am at the forefront of “the old women” of Matriarchy.
I herald the time – coming soon – when women will rule the family and the world once again, and men will be their workers, drones, slaves and sex objects – complete role reversal to what was 10,000 years ago and the prior record of 200,000 years from archaeology.
But I do not degrade men the way the old men have taught young men to degrade, denigrate women. In these shrines I present how to worship God through the bodies of both male and female.
Matriarchy is NOT a reversal of Patriarchy, as many assume.
Women are Mothers, they care about people.
Yes, it is a deep and complicated issue, and I am full of passion on it.And no, there are not many women on board. And no, they are just learning to see sex another way, I am helping them. They are still repressed, prudish and brainwashed. They need sexual liberation.
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OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE "BLOW AND HUMP" - THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISSAPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.

OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.

WHAT WOMEN WANT IN SEX – Guru Rasa Von Werder

Women want something men are slow to give: Touch, caress, gentle kissing, oral and manual stimulation, massage, overall tenderness and caring touches before, during and after sex that might be called “romantic.”
“Romance” by my definition is caring mixed with sex, or love and sex together. The reason women are not getting this is because the old men are teaching the young how to “make love” which is not love at all.
They begin with the premise is that women are not to be loved, they are to be used. Hear them in the scriptures and the pulpits of old. Obviously, today priests are not telling the audience that men should beat women, but once this was routine. All bible belters know how St. Paul towed the Orthodox line and women were not to preach but commanded to obey their husbands. What kind of sex would this portend, where the male dominates? – Selfish sex, based solely on his orgasm.
Then again, in most recent time, the Sainted Pope John Paul II said some twisted things regarding sex, to wit, that husbands must not lust for their wives, that sex is for procreation only. I love the man dearly and he went straight to Heaven, no Purgatory, but he was wrong on this issue, wronged because he was brainwashed as we all were.
Slowly we are coming out of the fog, the delusion, regarding the dirtiness and danger of sex. We are waking back up to the reality that sex is sacred, blessed, as holy as any act we can infuse with the energy of love.
After beating us up in the pulpit and destroying the love of men for women, they continue to assault as in pornography. Here women are then degraded, made to be less than animals, by one or more men beating off on their faces, penetrating them not even in the sacred yoni, but now, the anus predominates. Men are teaching boys/men that women are no better than homosexuals, if their anus is good enough for screwing, so are the anuses of men.
What happened here? What is the political ramification?
It so happens that Patriarchs subdued the earth – first women, then all of mankind and animals – through terror, the terror of physical violence and murder. After that it became psychological death.
You kill a person by stripping away their identity and self worth – this was done at great labor to women, (and later to any men that stood in the way of Patriarchs). Obviously, they couldn’t do it completely, they could not turn women into zombies, but they succeeded in confusing the issues; lots of deluded, dazed females walking about the earth, obeying men either from brainwashing or fear of retribution, even death.
As I say in “How to Make Love to a Woman” lesson One, that you cannot make love to a woman unless you love them. Patriarchs turned love making into fucking, using and exploiting.
They tell men what women are for. They explain who women are. Men are first, women second. Women obey men. Men obey men (men in office, men in government, men in military.) The subjugation of men to men begins at home, as 25% of all boys, by military statistics, are molested by their own Dads. Factor in grandfathers, uncles, priests, Boy Scout leaders, choir directors, employers and others, and what then is the percentile?
The result of abusing boys from the cradle is stealing them from the embraces of Mother, confusing them as to who is their care giver and security. Obviously, Mother’s touch is gentle and non-sexual. Men envied that – it gives Mother Influence over the young. They then indoctrinated their own touch, which is often painful. Penises are like knives going into the anuses and vaginas of little children. This is Patriarchy – this is an important part of their plan to dominate the earth by corrupting, damaging the young from the time they cannot defend themselves.
What is the result of this molestation? Confused males who don’t know what they are. Are they gay or straight? Bisexual? Are women to be loved or hated? Their instinct tells them to worship women, adore women old enough to be their mother and beyond; Patriarchy tells them to hold women in contempt fuck young women and get them pregnant so we can have more cannon fodder.
The teachings of the old women are the exact opposite of the old men. Women teach males compassion, empathy, kindness and love. This is the greatest danger to Patriarchy, based on brutality, domination, selfishness and greed. Buddhism and Christianity, true religion, are the enemies of Patriarchy. These scriptures have ancient Mother God origins, as did all religions on earth.
As I said, the teachings of the old women are like so:

1 Respect, love, venerate women and worship God as a benevolent, maternal God, not a warlike one.

2 Care about the feelings of a woman. That means courtesy, respect, – do not use them and walk away. The “fuck’m n duck’m” might be an instinct encouraged by other males. Granted, males do have instincts different than women’s, (such as to impregnate many) but these instincts have to be guided toward good.

3 When you have sex with a female, don’t act like she’s a stranger next day. This is a complaint I get from college girls, and my own Beloved has done this to me. I shall never forget that after a Friday night of blissful love, I sat in the club next day, waiting for him to appear. There he was, at the end of the bar, getting his drink. He turned, saw me, gave me a blank look and walked away. He then chatted with another female in the patio for twenty minutes, not having given me even one. At the end of the night he asked me out – I was so hurt I walked away.
The college girls say to me,
“You have sex with a guy and the next day in class he acts like he doesn’t know you.”

4 After you have sex, do not exit as fast as possible. This is particularly hurtful to a woman. My Beloved once left the premises while I was in the bathroom cleaning up – without saying goodbye. I come out of the bathroom, he is gone. All that he said and did then had no relevance? It seemed so. God told me different, that in his heart was true love. But his ratchet behavior was a lack of culture and programming by women. He was schooled in the demon world of Patriarchs.
Another time he promised to spend hours with me. We spoke lovingly for a half hour, then we had sex. I went to the kitchen for a moment. Coming back to the bedroom, he was already on the phone seeking a ride out. This is love? Yes, I know love is in his heart, but on the outside, his ways are all wrong. Why? Lack of schooling.
Males today, unless they are of the wealthy class, do not know how to help a woman with her coat, or hold the door for her, or speak to her pleasantly without being rude, crude or offensive: Patriarchy. They learn crudeness from peers and the mainstream media which features lack of caring and violence.

What the old women need to teach young males is how to love women. That is the beginning, that is Matriarchy.

I told my Lover that he would reach Enlightenment by loving me. This is Shaktiism. The man receives from the God-women her Anointing, her Divine Power, as he applies his tenderness to her. It’s not about his physical spurt, – no spurt until the woman is satisfied. He has to attend to her in any way she wants until she is well pleased. This may take fifteen minutes or an our or two or three. Dr. Stanley Bass, who writes about his method called “Karezza Sex” does his thing to his female four hours at a time, three times a week. The man is almost 100 years old and his sex methods and raw-food diet have kept him healthy, happy, horny and lucid all this time. He wrote his last book age 97, when most men are dead or demented. Twelve hours a week in the bed with his woman anoints him to be powerful.

I told my lover he would reach Enlightenment by being with me; he would see God face to face eventually, which would take a number of years. He agreed, but that very night, schooled by Patriarchy, was the night he called someone for a ride as soon as I left the room. Because of this I have not spoken to him for six weeks and will not do so until he returns on bended knee. When males are tutored wrong, it’s a lot of trouble to erase their bad habits and teach them new ones.

Guru Rasa Von Werder…Jan. 4, 2015

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: OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: HONOR MOTHER GOD AND HER SEX

: WHEN A CHILD IS DEPRIVED OF MOTHER INTIMACY WE HAVE PANDEMIC “ATTACHMENT DISORDER” – WHICH MEANS SUBSTANCE ABUSE, SUICIDE, HOMICIDE, ANXIETY, DEPRESSION & SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION

: SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: HONOR MOTHER GOD AND HER SEX

: SHAKTIISM IS 22,000 YEARS OLD. ALL PATRIARCHAL RELIGIONS ORIGINATED FROM MOTHER GOD WORSHIP. THEY WERE APPROPRIATED TO MALE INTERESTS.

: WE’LL REGAIN A HEALTHY VIEW OF SEX WITH MATRIARCHY–THAT SEX IS BLESSED AND SACRED

: OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.

: HONOR MOTHER GOD AND HER SEX

: HONOR MOTHER GOD AND HER SEX

: ALL RELIGIONS CAME FROM WOMEN AND MOTHER GOD. MEN WERE TAUGHT TO PLEASE WOMEN. THEY OBTAINED DIVINE ENERGY, PEACE, SHAKTI OR GOD ENERGY THROUGH RESPECT AND DEVOTION, EVEN WORSHIP OF WOMEN.

: WE ARE NOW MOVING BACK INTO MATRIARCHY, THE CULTURE OF LIFE; KALI YUGA (PATRIARCHY) IS ENDING

: SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: ALL RELIGIONS CAME FROM WOMEN AND MOTHER GOD. MEN WERE TAUGHT TO PLEASE WOMEN. THEY OBTAINED DIVINE ENERGY, PEACE, SHAKTI OR GOD ENERGY THROUGH RESPECT AND DEVOTION, EVEN WORSHIP OF WOMEN.

: SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: SEX IS SACRED WHEN YOU MAKE IT SO

: HONOR MOTHER GOD AND HER SEX

: SHAKTIISM IS 22,000 YEARS OLD. ALL PATRIARCHAL RELIGIONS ORIGINATED FROM MOTHER GOD WORSHIP. THEY WERE APPROPRIATED TO MALE INTERESTS.

: HONOR MOTHER GOD AND HER SEX

: OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.

: WHEN YOU ENGAGE IN SEX, THINK OF THE GOD WHO CREATED IT AND THANK HER FOR IT. GRATITUDE FOR SEX IS RIGHTEOUS.

: MATRIARCHY WILL BRING BACK SACREDNESS OF SEX

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SHRINE TO E MANUEL – WORSHIP GOD THROUGH HIS BODY

Guru Rasa has added to her collection of hats that of photographer. She is taking pictures of the most amazing looking men she can find, and this is one of them. Book being planned now is “America’s Most Beautiful Men.”

A DISCIPLE’S TESTIMONY – HE TRIED OTHER GURUS BUT NONE WORKED LIKE GURU RASA. SO HE IS FOR THE TRUE POWER OF GOD IN RASA.
GURU RASA’S COMMENTS IN CAPS

: BEAUTIFUL E MANUEL

i have stated my journey and seem a lot of different scenarios of spirituality from last many years. i have seen, met and interacted with many nice people and few of them were really expert. In the start, i wanted a ” True Spiritual Teacher ” then i found that only a ” Guru ” can help me and a true guru is not an ordinary spiritual teacher, but one who has attained union with God and is therefore qualified to lead others to that goal. The guru as “dispeller of darkness” (gu, “darkness,” and ru, “that which dispels.”)

RASA SAYS:
THE DARKNESS I DISPEL IS ONE OF THE CONNECTION WITH LOWER ENERGIES AND LOWER THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. I ASSIST THE DISCIPLE TO RISE THROUGH THE CHAKRAS, TO BE BORN AGAIN, AND BEGIN THE ASCENT INTO THE SAHASRARA.

SEE WHAT GOD CREATED IN THE BEAUTY OF E MANUEL

WOMEN WANT SOMETHING IN SEX THAT MEN ARE SLOW TO GIVE

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OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

WE NEED TO SEE ONE ANOTHER WITH RESPECT IN SPITE OF OUR FAULTS – GOD IS IN US

The role of the guru is to help his disciples find liberation in God through a very personal spiritual bond formed between guru and disciple, a union of loyal spiritual endeavor on the part of the disciple and divine blessings by the Guru.

RASA SAYS:
YOU MUST INVITE ME INTO YOUR HEART. CLEAR YOUR HEART OF OTHER ATTACHMENTS, INVITE ME IN. A LINK IS FORMED, A BOND. THE MORE DEVOTION YOU SHOW ME, THE MORE OBEDIENCE TO MY TEACHINGS AND BLESSINGS, THE MORE POWER YOU GET. BECOME LUKEWARM, THE POWER MIGHT WANE. FORGET ME, THE POWER DIMINISHES. REPUDIATE ME, THE POWER STOPS.
I HAD ONE DISCIPLE COME UNDER THE SWAY OF A BLACK-MAGIC WOMAN. SHE PERSUADED HIM TO UN –INSTALL ME FROM HIS HEART. I HAD A DREAM HE HAD LEFT GOD AND WAS ON IS WAY TO HELL. I CALLED HIM AND ASKED HIM WHAT HE HAD DONE. HE CONFESSED. I ASKED HIM TO INSTALL ME AGAIN AND HE WAS REUNITED WITH GOD, HIS LIFE SAVED.
THE WOMAN WHO BEGUILED HIM WAS JEALOUS OF MY POWER, WANTED TO BE INFLUENTIAL LIKE ME, BUT SHE DID NOT HAVE THE ANOINTING. I AM TARGETED BY NUMEROUS JEALOUS WOMAN WHO WANT TO FILL MY SHOES BUT THEY CANNOT.

i want to be an ideal devotee, the perfect disciple. i met ” Rasa Von Werder ” and found her a real, true Guru. At this stage , i understand that we can love a Guru, but we cannot possess a Guru. The Guru breaks the pattern of possessing love. Whenever we seem dictating terms or becoming possessive, He/she will do the complete opposite – tighten the screw or loosen the screw, as it is needed.

RASA SAYS:
THERE IS A PROBLEM WITH MEN, THAT SOME OF THEM WANT TO POSSESS ME PHYSICALLY AS A MAN-TO-WOMAN THING. NO MAN CAN POSSESS ME UNLESS I WANT HIM TO, UNLESS I CHOOSE HIM. THE MEN I HAVE SEX WITH AND MY FUTURE HUSBAND ARE NOT THE SAME AS DISCIPLES, ALTHOUGH SOME OF THEM MIGHT BECOME DISCIPLES AND MY HUSBAND WILL BE MY DISCIPLE, I DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH DISCIPLES ORDINARILY. UNLESS I TELL A DISCIPLE I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM HE SHOULD REFRAIN FROM CHASING ME AS A MAN TO A WOMAN, AS THAT WILL PUSH ME AWAY RATHER THAN DRAW ME TO HIM.
IT MEANS HE IS LOOKING AT ME IN THE EYES OF THE FLESH.
THE DISCIPLE MUST LOOK TO ME AS GOD-ON-EARTH, THE SAME AS IF HE SAW JESUS ON EARTH IN A WOMAN’S BODY.

At the same time, a Guru is not doing anything. It is just happening through Him / Her. It is happening through the Big Mind. There is no pre-conceived plan of action. Actions are spontaneous.

RASA SAYS:
THE ANOINTING HAPPENS AUTOMATICALLY. DO NOT ASK ME TO PRAY. ASK ME TO ANSWER YOUR PRAYER. I AM GOD ON EARTH, THE SAME AS JESUS.

I understand that we should not change Guru-disciple relationship into just another relationship, like father, brother, sister, wife or close friend. It’s not like any other relationship except the relationship with Mother and its more than 1000 times. Otherwise, we will get into the same type of possessive attitude. Guru is all wisdom and love. Guru is that principle which is wisdom and love, and that is awakened in each one who has stepped onto the path.

RASA SAYS:
THE GURU IS GOD ON EARTH, NOT YOUR RELATIVE IN THE FLESH. IT IS A DIVINE RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS NOT LIMITED TO THE PHYSICAL. MOST RELATIVES ARE NOT GOD ON EARTH, THEY ARE NOT ENLIGHTENED OR SELF REALIZED, THEIR LOVE, WISDOM AND POWER ARE LIMITED, SOME PARENTS AND RELATIVES ARE HELL-BENT, THEIR EARTHLY PRESENCE CANNOT SAVE OTHERS. SOME RELATIVES LEAD US TO HELL, NOT TO HEAVEN. BEWARE OF ATTACHMENT TO RELATIVES, EVEN YOUR OWN PARENTS, WHEN THEY ARE NOT OF GOD.

i found Guru Rasa to be a person, a Guru who has no gap between life and wisdom and love, and my purpose of becoming a disciple is to bridge that gap. People have different reasons to be with a Guru but i think mine are: to have my wishes fulfilled and because it is more pleasurable (ed: do you mean happiness?). When everything looks more painful to me and i come for comfort to be a good disciple of my Guru. i want to evolve and become Enlightened. i want to know higher Knowledge. i have my goals and my vision, i want to share . I want to just obey, serve and give comfort to the Guru. i should be with the Guru because i belong to Her.

There is no choice. So the necessity for a guru cannot be avoided, because no one is so wise as to know everything about the past, present and future. All problems are new when they come. So, we require a superior to guide us. The teacher should not be one at variance with his knowledge. He or She should be the one who is not different from that which he teaches. Nowadays, we have learned people, professors, scholars who are supposed to be repositories of knowledge, but their life is different from what they preach. Knowledge becomes meaningful when it is lived, and not merely taught, or heard or read about. This knowledge cannot be obtained through mere study for oneself. It requires the grace of a Guru and Guru Rasa Von Werder is one of the best gurus. i surrender myself to the Her wholly and solely, and i hope that She takes on the responsibility of looking after the welfare of the soul of Her devoted disciple.

RASA SAYS:
A GURU IS A PERSON WHO HAS TRANSCENDED PHYSICAL KNOWLEDGE, THEY HAVE ASCENDED IN TO THE HIGHEST REACHES. SOME GURUS, LIKE MYSELF, HAVE RISEN INTO THE SAHASRARA, THE HIGHEST LEVEL, AND THEY HAVE SEEN GOD FACE TO FACE AND FOUND THAT GOD IS THEMSELVES. THEY HAVE LOOKED INTO THE SPIRITUAL MIRROR.
HAVING A DEGREE, EVEN ONE OR MORE DOCTOR DEGREES, IN THE KNOWLEDGE OF LIFE ON EARTH, DOES NOT TRANSLATE INTO SPIRITUAL SALVATION. ONLY RISING THROUGH THE CHAKRAS MEANS EVOLUTION.
WHEN YOU JOIN WITH YOUR GURU, THE GURU LENDS YOU THEIR POWER SO YOU CAN ASCEND THROUGH YOUR CHAKRAS AND FIND YOURSELF, SO YOU CAN BE LIKE THE GURU, WHO HAS FOUND GOD WITHIN HERSELF AND WORSHIPS HERSELF AS GOD.
THIS IS NOT BLASPHEMY, THIS IS TAUGHT BY THE GREAT BUDDHISTS AND YOGIS FROM THOUSANDS OF YEARS.
GOD IS WITHIN, WHEN WE REACH ENLIGHTENMENT WE CONNECT WITH THE GOD WITHIN US.

i feel inside me that the relationship is deeper than all other relations like man and wife, friends or father and son. The wife can live without the husband, and the husband without wife, but with the true guru and disciple, who share a pure love, the notion of duality disappears and a unity takes place. This is not the same type of love that exists between family members, but something much greater and longer lasting. The relationship is neither rational nor emotional, but of a psychic nature. The spiritual interaction between a guru and disciple takes place without any disturbance to the mind and the guru’s presence is always felt. The moment the disciple thinks of the guru, his mind quiets down and communion takes place. The main duty of the guru is to help remove the darkness of avidya (ignorance) by guiding the evolution of the spiritual aspirant. Guru teaches all kinds of physical, psychic and spiritual planes, and helps the disciple to follow the correct path. The duty of the disciple is to serve and obey the guru and to learn from his teachings, gain from his knowledge and so become self-purified.

RASA SAYS: THE GURU IS SENT TO YOU BY GOD, AS GOD, GOD APPEARS IN THE FLESH WHEN YOU FIND A GURU – IF THE GURU IS LIVING. IT IS EXTREMELY RARE TO FIND A GURU ON EARTH, IN THE BODY OF A PERSON. BUT IF YOU ARE SINCERE, IT CAN HAPPEN. BE GRATEFUL. MOST OF MY GURUS WERE DEAD, BUT I DID HAVE TWO THAT WERE LIVING. ONE HAPPENED WAY EARLY IN MY CAREER, IN THE 70’S, THE OTHER WAS LATE IN MY SPIRITUAL CAREER, IN THE 2000’S. BOTH WERE FEMALES, AND THERE WERE STRONG DIFFICULTIES WITH THEM (JEALOUSY FROM THE FIRST, AND GREED, AND THE SECOND, MISUNDERSTANDINGS).
HOWEVER, I LOOKED BEYOND THE FLESH AND TO THE GOD THAT WAS INSIDE THE GURU AND I EVOLVED FROM THEM.

i suggest that a guru is necessary for those people who want to follow the spiritual path and it is important that the relationship is formed correctly. When the guru’s guidance is of a pure nature, the disciple will never fail, unless he leaves the guru due to lack of interest. He may also get discouraged and leave, not understanding the true nature of the guru’s help. The guru watches, instructs and warns his followers in many different ways and on different levels of consciousness. With pure love and constant awareness of his disciples, he is always guiding them.

RASA SAYS:
I DO NOT USUALLY GET PHYSICALLY INVOLVED WITH MY DISCIPLES, BECAUSE THAT WOULD TAKE AWAY FROM MY WORK. I AM A TEACHER. I TEACH BY EXAMPLE AND THROUGH WRITINGS. IF I GOT PHYSICALLY INVOLVED WITH MY DISCPLES IT WOULD EAT UP MY TIME AND ENERGY FOR THE WORK. AFTER ALL, EARTHLY PROBLEMS ARE MULTITUDINOUS, THEY NEVER END. I CANNOT GET INVOLVED.
THE DISCIPLE MUST UNDERSTAND THIS AND LOOK UPON ME LIKE A SAINT IN HEAVEN, TO WHOM HE/SHE PRAYS. THE SAINT DOES GREAT THINGS, BUT SHE IS NOT ON THE EARTH GETTING INVOLVED WITH YOUR PROBLEMS.

Even if the guru is far away, it does not matter. A mother continues caring for her child even if he is on the other side of the world. In the same way the guru’s guidance is both present and necessary at all times.

RASA SAYS:
MOTHER/CHILD RELATIONSHIPS HAVE TO BE PHYSICAL AS WELL AS EMOTIONAL (with small children), AND A HUSBAND/WIFE HAVE TO BE TOGETHER TO MAKE IT WORK (in most cases). BUT THE GURU/DISCIPLE DO NOT HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY PRESENT FOR IT TO WORK; IN FACT, PHYSICAL PRESENCE CAN GUM UP THE WORKS, CAN CONFUSE THE ISSUES, WHEN THE DISCIPLE STARTS LOOKING ON THE GURU IN A PHYSICAL WAY OR THE GURU GETS TOO PHYSICALLY ATTACHED TO THE DISCIPLE.

: GOD CREATES BEAUTY, HARMONY AND LOVE. SEX IS SACRED. WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX.

: WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY AND ALL CREATED THINGS

: WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY AND ALL CREATED THINGS

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY AND ALL CREATED THINGS

: GOD CREATES BEAUTY, HARMONY AND LOVE. SEX IS SACRED. WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX.

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY AND ALL CREATED THINGS

: BEAUTIFUL E MANUEL – HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015!

: WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY AND ALL CREATED THINGS

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: IN THE DAYS OF MATRIARCHY SEX WAS OPEN AND FREE. PEOPLE HAD FUN WITH IT, AND THEY SAW IT AS BLESSED, HOLY AND SACRED.

: IN THE DAYS OF MATRIARCHY SEX WAS OPEN AND FREE. PEOPLE HAD FUN WITH IT, AND THEY SAW IT AS BLESSED, HOLY AND SACRED.

: WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY AND ALL CREATED THINGS

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: GOD CREATES BEAUTY, HARMONY AND LOVE. SEX IS SACRED. WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX.

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: SEE WHAT GOD CREATED IN THE BEAUTY OF E MANUEL

i am so proud to be Her disciple and She is here to help and to bring the Power, Anointing, Healing, Transformation, Bliss, Blessings, Protection from God Almighty. Her special role has been the Empowerment of Women. i feel so honor that She appeared in my life, i feel a fortunate human being who has God call to me for “the Kingdom of God” – to all great things. i feel more spiritually special and capable. i believe that Rasa is from God and of God, and has the Power of God. i never put any requirements on Her, i dont want to serve her in person (ed: unless she asks?), dont want to live with her nor seek her for physical presence. i respect the Power that is in Guru Rasa, who is from God, not an ordinary person. She is so special, i have to learn many more things on this spiritual journey. My Christmas gift is my submission to Guru Rasa. i want to receive Guru Rasa Power her Anointing as Her disciple. i love Her, my time and attention for Her. i have to read more Her teachings are on the websites and blogs.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone!…..John Alia

RASA SAYS:
THANK YOU JOHN, AND TO ALL MY DISCIPLES, FRIENDS AND ASSOCIATES, LOTS OF LOVE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015!
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Chanelling about Love for New Year

William Bond channels for Rasa on her love affair
Channeling

First of all, this relationship is your creation, in you learning how to use your God-like power. There can be no failure in this, even if he asserts his own freewill in a negative way and rejects you, there will be many others who will be willing to take his place.

E MANUEL IS A SPECIAL TREAT FOR CHRISTMAS 2014

BEAUTY OF E MANUEL

Yes, he is hooked by drugs and his friends, but he can also be addicted to you, or more correctly, your happiness. His friends are no help to him because if he tells them about his experiences with you, they will disparage it and mock him. (Do not throw your pearls before swine, as they will trample them in the mud).

You are unique because you are more uninhibited than most people and in this state of “letting it go”, you are able to find more happiness and pleasure than most people. (This is why so many people take drugs as this is they only way they can let go, but you do not have to use drugs to do this). This is why you became a star-performer. Great performers, (whether they are entertainers, preachers or politicians) are people who greatly enjoy being the centre of attention and performing, – because the audience feeds off the enjoyment of the performer. So when you were a stripper, the audience thought they were there to see you in the nude. But you added far more to this, because you enjoyed what you were doing and they were unknowingly feeding off your great enjoyment.

OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

This is still happening when you go downtown, because you have few inhibitions to being able to enjoy yourself, people around you are feeding off you, when you are happy. So you freely give your gift of happiness and enjoyment to those who are able to receive it.

This then is why your boyfriend can become addicted to you. He and his friends use drugs to find happiness, but he can also find greater happiness being with you. More than that, when you are blissfully happy and you give him your attention, it is to him, like someone shining a spotlight of happiness onto him.

MODEL: E MANUEL

OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

The same is also true when you are in communication with MotherGod. When you are ONE with MotherGod is his presence, then can feel the God-like energy coming through you. So if he was to worship you while you are in this state of mind, then you can truly say he is worshiping a Goddess. As he can feel the spiritual energy come through you.

The barrier between you and him on a deeper level is not drugs, his friends or fear of the unknown, but his own negative thinking. This is also true of many previous young men whom you have attempted to help. It was their negative thoughts that got in the way. Their negative thoughts tell them that happiness is impossible for them and they do not deserve it. So your gift of happiness goes against everything their negative thinking is telling them.

about the slideshow: hit a picture, hit go, and it will open up before you. Enjoy!

: NEW BOOK “AMERICA’S MOST BEAUTIFUL MEN” WILL BE OUT SOON

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: NEW BOOK “AMERICA’S MOST BEAUTIFUL MEN” WILL BE OUT SOON

: MERRY CHRISTMAS!

: E MANUEL SENT FOR CHRISTMAS

: OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

: NEW BOOK “AMERICA’S MOST BEAUTIFUL MEN” WILL BE OUT SOON

: GOD CREATES BEAUTY, HARMONY AND LOVE. SEX IS SACRED. WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX.

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: PATRIARCHY DEFINED SEX AS DIRTY, IMMORAL AND SUBJECT TO THEIR RULES. THEN THEY CAPITALYZED ON THE PROHIBITIONS BY MARKETING SEX FOR MONEY.

: NEW BOOK “AMERICA’S MOST BEAUTIFUL MEN” WILL BE OUT SOON

: NEW BOOK “AMERICA’S MOST BEAUTIFUL MEN” WILL BE OUT SOON

: Here Rasa Von Werder presents to you her Christmas gift, E Manuel, who is one of the most beautiful men on the planet. After a three-year pursuit for his beauty, E Manuel finally consented. Here he is for your enjoyment. I wish you all the Merriest Christmas for 2014 and all happiness.

: GOD CREATES BEAUTY, HARMONY AND LOVE. SEX IS SACRED. WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX.

: GOD CREATES BEAUTY, HARMONY AND LOVE. SEX IS SACRED. WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX.

So to overcome his negative thinking you have to provide him with a step-ladder. Rather than expecting him to leap up to your heights, in one giant leap of faith. He finds the contrast between your very powerful positive thoughts and his negative thinking far too great. Sometimes you come on far too strong for him and he cannot deal with it. So this is why he says or does hurtful things, to dim your happy positive feelings. They sometimes become too strong for him to cope with.

So it would help to tone things down a bit and only slowly introduce him to your greater power. It will help to teach in a way that is easier for him to understand. Although you have gone far beyond femdom, he will find femdom relationships far easier to understand, and easier to relate to, than your spiritual teachings.
So it would be far easier for him if you fit more into mundane popular culture, he is use to, rather than your connection to MotherGod. And only introduce the spiritual later on, bit by bit.

So telling him about your femdom experiences and you wanting a slave will be a lot easier for him to understand. It will also be a lot easier for his friends to understand as well, when he tells them. So although they might warn him against you and make jokes about it, they will be more supportive, as it fits more into their negative thinking about themselves and the world in general. I know you would prefer it if they understood your loving spiritual nature, but it will still be casting pearls before swine. What they choose to think, has nothing to do with you. (Not that you ever allowed what others think, slow you down).

Another advantage of femdom is that he becomes your slave and you make the rules and can make outrageous demands of him. So you are free to have relationships with other men, but he has to remain faithful to you. And that is perfectly acceptable in the femdom world. You can even have your own harem of men, if you want to.

Because of his negative thinking, he can, like some of your previous young men, sabotage the relationship. (He has already tried to do this). So your positive thinking has to be strong and consistent enough, to overcome this. He can only sabotage the relationship in times, when you are thinking negative thoughts. When you keep thinking positively, then it is impossible for him to impose this negativity onto you and sabotage the relationship. (Though he does have freewill, he has no understanding of how to use it and so is at the mercy of the thoughts of those around him).

Your relationship will be based on your joy and happiness. When you are happy, then he is happy and if you are not happy then neither will he be. So he will find himself wanting to keep you happy at all times, so he can also be happy. Even though you do not need him, or anyone else to make you happy, as you are able to do this through your own resources. But in learning to keep you happy, he learns how to love, in much the same way a mother learns about love, in making her children happy.

It is unlikely that you will be content in teaching just one man. Once you have successfully taught him, you will want to do the same for other men. So to do this you will have to teach him how to be happy through his own resources and not depend on you for happiness. So in the end you will have to teach him meditation, to pray and how to let go and let MotherGod.
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KALI KILLS MEN! <> TO STOP THEIR PATRIARCHY

EXPLANATION OF MALE EXTINCTION THROUGH THE IMAGE OF KALI:

I NEVER UNDERSTOOD KALI, & IN STUDYING HER READ A LOT OF LONG-WINDED STUFF THAT BASICALLY EXPLAINED SHE IS THE GODDESS OF “CREATION & DESTRUCTION.” THAT DID NOT SATISFY ME BECAUSE HER IMAGE IS PURE DESTRUCTION, NO CREATION, & THERE ARE NUMEROUS OTHER IMAGES OF MOTHER GOD THAT BESPEAK CREATION.

HERE IS THE CLUE: DURGA TURNED HERSELF INTO KALI DURING THE BATTLE WITH THE GREATEST DEMON WHO EVER LIVED (SYMBOL OF PATRIARCHY, NAMED MAHISHASURA)…..AT ONE POINT IN HER BATTLE WITH THE DEMONS THIS ONE DEMON SPURTS BLOOD WHEN SHE SPEARS HIM. THE PROBLEM IS EVERY DROP OF BLOOD SPRINGS FORTH A NEW DEMON!

AT THIS POINT DURGA, (WHO IS ONE IMAGE OF MOTHER GOD AS WARRIOR AGAINST GREAT EVIL) TURNS HERSELF INTO KALI, THE FEROCIOUS IMAGE WE KNOW OF. IN THIS FORM SHE LAPS UP THE BLOOD OF THIS DEMON SO NO MORE CAN SPRING FORTH.

CONSIDER HER IMAGE WITH A LONG TONGUE, SALIVATING, GARLANDS OF SKULLS AROUND HER WAIST, STANDING ON SOMEONE KILLING HIM, HOLDING A SWORD HAVING CHOPPED OFF SOMEONE’S HEAD.

WHAT WAS SHOWN ME IS THIS IS THE IMAGE OF MALE EXTINCTION.

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

: KALI COMES OUT OF DURGA TO KILL MEN: MALE EXTINCTION

CONSIDER: EACH DROP OF BLOOD COMING OUT OF THE MALE IS LIKE HIS SPERM. EXTINCTION IS HAPPENING LIKE SO: THE Y CHROMOSOME CANNOT REPAIR ITSELF. (WHEN THIS BEGAN I HAVE YET TO DISCOVER). HOWEVER, THE SPERM COUNTS OF MALES DETERIORATING RAPIDLY IS A RECENT OCCURRENCE (THEY BEGAN REALIZING IT’S EXTENT IN 1992). IT IS BY THE SPERM COUNT DIMINISHING UNTIL THEY CANNOT REPLICATE THEMSELVES ANY MORE THAT MALE EXTINCTION OCCURS. IN OTHER WORDS, MALES ARE CREATED WHEN THE Y CHROMOSOME IS PASSED ON, WITHOUT THE CHROMOSOME, MALES STOP BEING BORN. THE Y CHROMOSOME IS PASSED ON FROM THE MALE. (HOWEVER, THIS DOES NOT PREVENT FEMALES FROM REPRODUCING! THE HUMAN RACE WILL NOT GO EXTINCT.)

FIGURES PROVE THAT IN 1950 THERE WERE ONE MILLION SPERM COUNTS PER ML – OF MALES STUDIED ACROSS THE GLOBE. THIS FELL TO 75 MIL IN 1970 AND 50 MIL IN 1990 – WITHIN 40 YEARS, MALE SPERM HAS DECREASED BY HALF.

DR. BRYAN SYKES SAID THAT BY WAY OF NATURAL OCCURRENCE, THERE WILL BE MUTATIONS OF THE MALE SPERM – REGULARLY – (DUE TO THE BREAKDOWN OF THE Y CHROMOSOME) – AND AS THIS CONTINUES, HE PREDICTS MALE EXTINCTION AROUND 100,000 YEARS, GIVE OR TAKE 25,000.

THE IMAGE OF KALI SPEAKS TO ME THAT MOTHER GOD (OR NATURE AS BRYAN SYKES CALLS IT) IS REMOVING MEN – THIS IS HER WAY OF STOPPING THEM – AN EFFECTIVE MEANS TO BE SURE.

WHAT GAVE ME THE SECOND HINT WAS THE DILEMMA OF MORE AND MORE DEMONS BEING BORN FROM THE BLOOD OF THE DEMON AS IT SPATTERED. THIS I TOOK TO BE THAT NO MATTER WHAT MOTHER GOD DID TO STOP PATRIARCHY, AS MORE AND MORE MALES ARE BORN IT CONTINUES. IT IS MALES WHO STAND FOR PATRIARCHY, MALES WHO MAKE WAR AGAINST MOTHER GOD AND WOMEN. REMOVING MALES IS THE END OF THE PROBLEM. EVERYTHING ELSE HAS BEEN TRIED – AS EXEMPLIFIED BY HER BATTLES.

A THIRD HINT WHAT THIS MYTH IS ABOUT IS “KALI YUGA” – AN EVIL AGE WHOSE ONLY MERCY IS THAT IT’S SHORT. SO KALI YUGA IS THE AGE OF PATRIARCHY, THE AGE MOTHER GOD STOPS THROUGH KALI.

I WILL DO MORE RESEARCH ON THIS IN THE NEXT DAYS, THIS IS THE BEGINNING.

RASA VON WERDER…..5 16 14

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LESBIANS LAUGH AT MEN<> WOMAN POWER ARISES<>!

BUILD UP SELF ESTEEM OF GIRLS

WOMEN’S GAYNESS IS A PART OF FEMALE EMPOWERMENT. THEY SCOFF AT MEN, MAKE THEM FEEL UNIMPORTANT. THERE ARE, AFTER ALL, ALTERNATIVES TO BEING AT THE MERCY OF MALES, WITH THEIR INFERIOR BRAIN, CRIMINAL, VIOLENT TENDENCIES, DYSFUNCTIONALITY & DISABILITY TO GET ALONG WITH OTHERS. MEN CAN BE ATROCIOUS, OBNOXIOUS, DISGUSTING, AND PITIFUL. ONE SOLUTION IS GET RID OF THEM FROM YOUR LIFE – LOVE WOMEN. I ENVY THOSE THAT CAN DO THAT, I AM FOR THE TIME BEING, DOOMED TO HETEROSEXUALITY. BUT I AM PUTTING UP WITH LESS BULLSHYT FROM MEN. (Comment from Rasa, the rest of this article by someone else. The pics are from a fantastic young woman called “Female Supremacy Now 2”)

How can we expect girls to grow up wanting to be great if they’re surrounded by media that celebrate princesses and skinniness? Girls need to know they are more than their body shape and their sex lives.
5. Feed them a healthy diet of feminist films and books
Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness anyway. Good modern options include Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld and The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert, The Heat, and (going back some) Thelma and Louise.

That growing numbers of girls suffer from issues of self-esteem during adolescence – ones that can be carried over into adulthood – is not up for debate. What is debatable is what should be done about this. Sheryl Sandberg, the chief operating officer of Facebook and author of the bestselling feminist-ish book Lean In, has come up with her own typically high-powered and certainly well-intentioned solution: to ban the word “bossy”. “When a little boy asserts himself, he’s called a ‘leader’. Yet when a little girl does the same, she risks being branded ‘bossy’,” she writes.

You want girls to stop feeling bad about being bossy/commanding? Give them a couple of books to read about or by fabulously bossy women and watch them run. Give the little girls Roald Dahl’s Matilda and Kay Thompson’s Eloise. Start the teenagers off with Gail Collins’ When Everything Changed, so they can get excited about all the cool women in the 20th century who made the world what it is today. Then move on to seminal, smart and angry texts such as Backlash by Susan Faludi and Naomi Wolf’s The Beauty Myth. They’ll soon learn that not only is feminism more than just hairy armpits and radicalism, but that hairy armpits and radicalism are awesome. Undo the thinking behind “bossy” rather than the word itself.
2. Get impressive kickass women to talk to them

It will come as a massive surprise to no one to learn that I was called bossy quite a lot as a kid, and still am (although I wouldn’t have to be bossy if people would just bloody well do as I say). Yet it’s never bothered me, mainly because I grew up idolising Miss Piggy and Lucy van Pelt from Peanuts, and never saw bossiness as anything other than a wholly commendable quality. But for those unacquainted with the mighty pig, Sandberg has made a video featuring herself, Condoleezza Rice, Beyoncé and others, arguing that the word “bossy” should be “banned” (in the self-censoring sense, one suspects, as opposed to the, you know, legal one) because it’s a way of telling confident girls to shut up.

Insults are often gendered – in adulthood at least as much as in childhood. Former Secretary of State Madeleine Albright writes about this most pleasingly in her memoir, pointing out that: “If women leaders had acted the way Arafat and Barak did during Camp David, they would have been dismissed as menopausal.” Hillary Clinton was accused of being bossy by none other than Germaine Greer. Most high-profile women have to cope with being called a five-letter word on a regular basis that begins with B, but sure ain’t “bossy”. This is unacceptable, and stupid, and it’s great to have these kinds of gender-specific hypocrisies exposed – but that is different from a ban-worthy hate speech.

WOMEN ARE LEAVING BEHIND THE NOTION THAT THEY MUST HAVE MEN. CONSIDER THE WORLD’S TOP GENETICIST, DR. BRYAN SYKES, INFORMING US THAT THE Y CHROMOSOME IS CRUMBLING WITH NO CHANCE OF REPAIR, HUMAN MALES ARE GOING EXTINCT. THEY WERE A GENETIC EVOLUTION EXPERIMENT THAT DID NOT WORK. INDEED, LOOK WHAT MEN HAVE WROUGHT. GOOD BYE MEN, HELLO WOMEN AND TWO MOTHER PARENTING.

But let’s stick with the kids, seeing as they’re the subject of this campaign and probably more in need of defense than Hillary Clinton. Even if “bossy” could be banned, I’m not certain it would make the kind of difference Sandberg is aiming for here. I was a fan of Lean In when it was published because it is a smart manifesto for a very small demographic, which is more beneficial than a not-very-useful book aimed at everybody. In Lean In, Sandberg aimed to help women like her – educated, wealthy, desirous of being a CEO – achieve their dream. And again, with this campaign, she’s aiming to help little girls who were like her: confident but hurt by the label “bossy”. Yet, in dealing with children and teenagers, she could shoot a little higher here.

I have been giving talks at girls’ secondary schools on a regular basis and have made the obvious if too often overlooked discovery that if you really want to know what adolescent girls need, you should go talk to some adolescent girls rather than rely on memories of yourself at their age. Not once have any of the kids complained to me about being called “bossy”, but they have plenty of other issues. So after talking at several dozen schools, this is what I reckon could be done to improve adolescent girls’ self-esteem:
1. Make feminism part of the national curriculum

When I went to a talk by Kate Adie when I was 13, she showed me that there were more jobs for women in journalism than being the pretty lady who reads the weather. Girls need to see they have more options than they know about.
3. Nutrition should be part of the national curriculum

IT'S A POLITICAL STANCE; WOMEN LOVING WOMEN IS A STEP TOWARD FEMALE EMPOWERMENT, MALE DISEMPOWERMENT. THEIR ENTIRE WORLD FOCUSES ON THE ABIITY TO OBTAIN WOMEN, THEIR WARS, THEIR VIOLENCE, STEALING, KILLING & DESTROYING ALL BASED ON WANTING THE BIGGEST HAREMS, THE EASIEST WAY OF GETTING TO THE WOMEN. BUT FOR WOMEN, THE WORLD IS A FAR DIFFERENT PLACE.

IT’S A POLITICAL STANCE; WOMEN LOVING WOMEN IS A STEP TOWARD FEMALE EMPOWERMENT, MALE DISEMPOWERMENT. THEIR ENTIRE WORLD FOCUSES ON THE ABILITY TO OBTAIN WOMEN; THEIR WARS, THEIR VIOLENCE, STEALING, KILLING & DESTROYING ALL BASED ON WANTING THE BIGGEST HAREMS, THE EASIEST WAY OF GETTING TO THE WOMEN. BUT FOR WOMEN, THE WORLD IS A FAR DIFFERENT PLACE.

Feeding oneself well is a sign of self-respect, so it’s no surprise so many girls don’t. No wonder, really, considering how many stupid messages about dieting they are pummeled with daily from celebrity interviews and the media. Disordered eating is a sign of unhappiness, and then more unhappiness comes from disordered eating. Break the cycle.
4. Ban all newspapers and magazines from the school that talk about diets, celebrity body shapes and sex lives, and Kate Middleton

Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness anyway. Good modern options include Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld and The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert, The Heat, and (going back some) Thelma and Louise. Keep Miss Piggy on loop.

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HOW MALES DESTROY OTHER MALES & THE PLANET

SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION (and many other maladies) ARISE FROM PATRIARCHAL PRACTICES

By Guru Rasa Von Werder, 3 26 14
My comments based on the studies of Dr. James W. Prescott, Dr. John Bowlby, Dr. Ashley Montagu, Dr. Dale Glaebach and others.

A GOOD MOTHER IS ALL, THE SOURCE OF LIFE, THE SYMBOL OF GOD ON EARTH

(1) NO Separation from Mother through infancy, up to age six years old, is best for the infant. Pre school is BAD, child must be with a LOVING Mother, have intimacy with her. Intimacy means close physical contact, an infant should have skin-to-skin contact and ROCKING as the Mother CARRIES it.
Child needs sensual/sensory/physical contact with the Mother/ or other Maternal figures (not males due to lack of maternal instinct) in order to grow up normal/natural/ full functional in mental, emotional, physical ways.

(2) Patriarchs DISTURB the relationship between Mother and child in some cases physically, in other cases, mentally. In the ancient days of Rome, Greece and Sparta, boys were removed from their mothers at age seven to twelve to dwell with males – for supposed MENTORING. What males actually did was truncate the BOND between mother and boy and create a SEXUAL BOND with an older man. Why would this be? Not only for the sex pleasure of the man, but to divert the NATURAL LOVE the boy has for Mom and older women onto MEN AND OLDER MEN. When this occurs, the boys are then INFLUENCED, MENTORED and DIRECTED by men into their culture – Patriarchy – the war mentality, the Culture of Death, and of course DEPRIVING them of Mother Love, woman love, Matriarchy, the Culture of Peace, the Culture of Life. This is how the good in boys is STIFLED and directed into EVIL and misery for the boys and for everyone else that is affected by males – This of course includes their female partners, as well as the rest of the planet.

CHILDREN NEED LOTS OF PHYSICAL, SENSIBLE CONTACT WITH MOM UP TO SIX YEARS OF AGE. BREASTFEEDING HELPS.

The great Dr. James W. Prescott site:
http://www.violence.de/

EMPIRICAL PROOF: love-hunger is stronger than food-hunger.
http://www.violence.de/tv/rockabye.html

THE ORIGINS OF PEACE AND VIOLENCE
Deprivation of Physical Affection as a Main Cause of Depression, Aggression and Drug Abuse
INTRODUCTION SCIENCE POLITICS LINKS
It is generally known (back to medieval or ancient times) that deprivation of sensory stimuli like voice and vision in the early phases of human life will cause irreversible mental retardation in the child. Also the prevention of child play will cause intellectual deficits in the adult. But eyes, ears and the nose are not the only human sensory systems.

Additionally there are the two body sensor systems, the “somatosensors”. One is the vestibular sensor for maintaining orientation and upright walk. The other one is the skin, for sensing touch.

: INTIMACY WITH MOM COUNTS FOR FUTURE SEXUAL STABILITY AND AFFECTION. WITHOUT INTIMACY MIN. 2.5 YEARS, PEOPLE SUFFER DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, TENDENCY TO VIOLENCE, SUICIDE AND HOMICIDE. EARLY YEARS FILLED WITH STABILITY AND LOVE GIVE GOOD SECURITY IN LATER LIFE.

RASA SAYS:
Notice what he just said: “The other one is the skin, for sensing touch.”
He is explaining here how the infant child must have all these stimulations including THE SKIN, FOR SENSING TOUCH.
This is one of the greatest defects, I observe, in the males when they make love. They have no idea how to touch or be touched, they are as if zombies or mechanical machines, with a penis, intent on getting it sucked, or masturbating and then humping. They seem to draw a blank on the art of touch, as if they never heard of such a thing. This is a symptom of their deficiency in love, that they have not been tutored properly or touched enough by their Moms – and this lack of touch, intimacy is CAUSED BY PATRIARCHY………………………………………………………………………………………….

MOTHER BONDING IS ESSENTIAL FOR PEACE

Through the work of James W. Prescott, Ph.D. and various others until the mid 1970s it was established that these previously neglected senses are of overwhelming importance for the development of social abilities for adult life. Their deprivation in childhood is a major cause for adult violence.

RASA SAYS: Notice what he just said. Deprivation of this touching, loving, intimacy with Mom is the major cause of adult violence. And of course, as we all know, most violence is caused by males. …………………………………………………………………….. …………………………….

James W. Prescott, Ph.D., was a health scientist administrator at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), one of the Institutes of the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) from 1966 to 1980. He created and directed the Developmental Behavioral Biology Program at the NICHD where he initiated NICHD supported research programs that documented how the failure of “Mother Love” in infant monkeys adversely affected the biological development of their brains. These astonishing abnormal brain changes underlie the behaviors of depression, impulse dyscontrol and violence that result from mother-infant separations.

RASA SAYS: People – especially males we notice, are actually BRAIN DAMAGED – THEY HAVE “ASTONISHING ABNORMAL BRAIN CHANGES” which causes misery for themselves and those who relate to them – all caused by the Patriarchal mother-infant separation! ………………………………………………………………………………………

: CHILDREN NEED TREMENDOUS HANDS-ON CLOSENESS TO MOM OR SURROGATE MOM, IN ORDER TO DEVELOP PROPERLY, TO BE STRONG IN ADULTHOOD

CULTURES THAT PUNISH INFANTS OR REPRESS SEXUALITY ARE VIOLENT

These behavioral effects were confirmed in his studies on primitive cultures including the effects of sensory deprivation of human sexual pleasure and affection during adolescence.

RASA SAYS: Recently was watching “Preacher’s Daughter” reality TV series. The entire show is based on the Patriarchal parent trying to prevent his daughter from partying and the possibility of having sex. This corresponds to the global Patriarchal taboo against female sexual freedom – in a study they dug down to the root of fundamentalism and discovered that what it means is CONTROL OF WOMEN (and this of course is firstly sexual control.) Patriarchy and sexuality means the following:

(1) Control women to prevent them from having sex with anyone but a husband, so that the husband is tops over the female and knows the children are his. Make all sex for women outside the marriage taboo.

(2) This of course, does not apply to men. They can have sex with anyone – (although it is not written except in Muslim circles) – about a third of Patriarchal males have sex with their children! One half of females, and a quarter of all boys are molested by their own Dads!

(3) This repression of female sexuality and female sex during teen years is part of the “double standard.” Males are sanctioned but rarely regarding sex during their teens – they can’t get pregnant and in the old days, it was hard to hold them accountable for pregnancies.

Dr. James W. Prescott, who studied numerous indigenous tribes, took note that those who kept Patriarchal standards were VIOLENT, but those who did not, were PEACEFUL.
Look at America today – with it’s “Preacher’s Daughter” mentality. We are the most warmongering country on earth, and we have one of the most extensive prison systems, mostly housing men. Not saying other countries would not be as violent if they had the power. I would not like to see the Muslims or Chinese having as much power as America – things could be worse. ………………………………………………………..

The results of these scientific studies do not support the many traditional religious and cultural values throughout the world, which deny the importance of “Mothering” and of youth affectional sexual relationships for peaceful and loving behaviors.

RASA SAYS: Did you notice? He said fukk these religions which deny the importance of the mother and sexual love between youth. ……………………………………………………………

The continuation of this research was obstructed and eventually cancelled by the NICHD. Even the existence and results of these NICHD supported research programs was consciously omitted in a recent NIH publication.

RASA SAYS: Of course they cancelled the studies, because they got what they wanted – they learned that what they are doing breeds violence, and that’s all they had to know. Keep doing it, to stay in the war mentality, keep breeding the boys for war, as cannon fodder – but don’t tell anyone about it, just keep the studies under our hat. We want it this way – the more violent, dysfunctional the boys are the better. God forbid, boys become loving? Gee whiz, they would love women, settle down, and never go to war! The world would go to Heaven in a handbasket, no more trillions for the obscenely rich, no more slaves, no more lower class for menial work! Satan’s kingdom would be truncated and obscured, it would all be over for us! ………………………………………………………………………

On this web site, you can read the whole story. Here you can read a short history of Dr. Prescott’s research and the full text of the groundbreaking article “Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence”, watch the complete Time Life video documentary Rock A Bye Baby, browse the comprehensive archive of scientific papers and visit related websites from our list of selected links.

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We need your support: Putting new papers online costs time and money. We are also planning to build this site into a portal on the subjects of attachment parenting, pleasure deprivation, sexuality and touch.

RASA SAYS: I am doing whatever I can to promote the work of Dr. Prescott. I published a book which houses a lot of his teachings,
“Breastfeeding is Love Making Between Mother and Child,”
and I speak of him online constantly. ……………………………………………………………………….

EMPIRICAL PROOF: love-hunger is stronger than food-hunger.
http://www.violence.de/tv/rockabye.html

James W. Prescott (born c. 1930) is an American developmental psychologist,[1] whose research focused on the origins of violence, particularly as it relates to a lack of mother-child bonding.

Prescott was a health scientist administrator at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), one of the Institutes of the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) from 1966 to 1980. He created and directed the Developmental Behavioral Biology Program at the NICHD where he initiated NICHD-supported research programs to study the relationship between mother-child bonding and the development of social abilities in adult life. Inspired by Harry Harlow’s famous experiments on rhesus monkeys, which established a link between neurotic behavior and isolation from a care-giving mother, Prescott further proposed that a key component to development comes from the somesthetic processes (body touch) and vestibular-cerebellar processes (body movement) induced by mother-child interactions, and that deprivation of this stimulation causes brain abnormalities. By analogy to the neurotic behavior in monkeys, he suggested that these developmental abnormalities are a major cause of adult violence amongst humans.

Prescott also served as assistant head of the Psychology Branch of the Office of Naval Research (1963 to 1966) and as president of the Maryland Psychological Association (1970 to 1971). In 1973 he was one of the signers of the Humanist Manifesto.

CIRCUMCISION is PARTIAL CASTRATION!, THE DEMONIC
SURGICAL ABUSE OF OUR INFANT BOYS
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XmX6RdRNoqk

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William Bond & Rasa Von Werder on SEX TODAY

ROOT OF SEX PROBLEMS – WHY MEN ARE NOT PLEASING WOMEN

Rasa Von Werder and William Bond discuss SEX and how women are led astray, men are led astray, that women MUST BE DOMINANT with men if they want good sex.

SHOULD WOMEN BE DOMINANT? HOW DOMINANT, WHEN DOMINANT? HOW AGGRESSIVE? WHEN YES, WHEN NO? WE HAVE TO WORK IT ALL OUT – NOTHING IS EASY.

Rasa says:
IT’S AMAZING TO ME THAT WOMEN WHO PRETEND TO BE SEMI-VIRGINS PONTIFICATE ON THE WAYS OF SEX……..THEY CLAIM NO EXPERIENCE BUT ARE EXPERTS.
I HAVE ADMITTED THAT I HAVE HAD SEX WITH MANY MALES AND AM NOW HAVING MORE……..I AM GAINING EXPERIENCE AS TO THEIR BEHAVIOR, WHEN I SPEAK, IT IS FROM EXPERIENCE……..ALTHOUGH HARDLY ANY OF THEM HAS A CLUE HOW TO PLEASE A WOMAN – MOST OF THEM DON’T CARE, JUST WANT TO EXIT AFTER THEY ORGASM. THAT’S WHY I AM ATTEMPTING TO TEACH THROUGH THE WEBSITE, AS THEY HAVE TO LEARN WAY IN ADVANCE, BEFORE SEX, THE PRELIMINARIES TO EVEN BEGIN TO MAKE LOVE.
THEY START WATCHING PORN AGE 11 AVERAGE – THAT IS WHERE THEY GET THEIR SEX EDUCATION.

AT ROOT OF THE SEXUAL PROBLEM – WHY MEN ARE NOT PLEASING WOMEN – IS WHAT I AM BEGINNING TO EXPLAIN ON THE WEBSITE. THEY DO NOT RESPECT WOMEN, WOMEN DO NOT DEMAND RESPECT, THEY DO NOT LOOK UP TO OR APPRECIATE WOMEN – THEY DO NOT THINK THEY SHOULD PLEASE WOMEN – IT IS NOT MANDATORY, IT IS NOT A NECESSITY……..THEY LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN, THEY FOOL THEM TO SEE WHAT THEY CAN GET, THEY PUSH THEIR WAY INTO WOMEN’S LIVES JUST TO ORGASM, THEN THEY LEAVE. SOMETIMES THEY STAY WITH A WOMAN, BUT IT ISN’T ALWAYS LOVE, AS YOU KNOW. AS I SAID IN AN ARTICLE, WHEN MEN LEARN TO LOVE, RESPECT, LOOK UP TO WOMEN, AND WHEN WOMEN LEARN TO LOOK UP TO WOMEN, THEN MEN WILL TREAT THEM IN PROPER WAYS INCLUDING SEXUAL WAYS.

: ANNIE OAKLEY SANG, “YOU CAN’T GET A MAN WITH A GUN” – BUT IN A WORLD WHERE WOMEN ARE BECOMING DOMINANT, HOW DO THEY GET HIM? BY WIELDING POWER, THE WAY MEN USED TO

William Bond says:

According to what Priscilla (a dominatrix author) tells me, women are led astray by reading romantic fiction in the same way men are misinformed by porn. In romantic stories the hero is an expert in knowing how to love a woman and women who read this stuff, can’t understand why their husbands or lovers are not the same.

Priscilla had a submissive husband and was free to have a string of lovers, mostly younger than herself, so she could teach them how to please her. She says that men need very clear, simple and direct instructions. There is no point in trying to hint at what you want, or hope he can work it out for himself. Trying to suggest things, only confuse most men. You need to tell them precisely what you want.

It sounds to me, if the man is in charge the women never gets what she wants. The only way a woman can get what she wants, sexually, is if she is a dominant woman. Men don’t respect women because we live in a patriarchal society. Men only respect bossy women and have a contempt for submissive women, it is as simple as that.

RASA SAYS:

WOW. Words to the wise. I am trying to apply these words to my experience.
I mostly relate to young males, from 18 to 30. These boys are college students or models. It’s a differing experience with each.

DOWNTOWN WITH STUDENTS–BEEN GOING 6 YEARS, DANCING, DATING, YOUNG MALES LOVE OLDER WOMEN BUT THEY ARE SCARED–THEY MUST GET OVER IT, OLD WOMEN ARE DESIGNATED THEIR TEACHERS, MENTORS, TO USHER THEM INTO THE CULTURE OF LIFE (MATRIARCHY)

The college students are seen in the context of a night club downtown. They surround me, want to dance with me, hold me, sometimes act sexy. But God help me if I get aggressive, like kissing their arm muscle, they back away in fear (at times), even withdrawing completely and not wanting to come near me again. They are SCARED. (They want sex, they are scared when a woman is aggressive, certainly this woman, not sure how they react with college girls—they seem not scared with them.) Of course, the ones that are extremely DRUNK are not scared and sometimes do more groping than I want – in front of everyone. (Everyone surrounds me at the club, male and female students – they love me and most of them want to dance with me.) They almost never ask me to have sex – it does happen – but it is generally a student who is not with a group, a stag or loner, seeking a female. (Most of the other students appear there in groups. These are hard to penetrate as far as a relationship, it’s a group mentality, and they stick together, shielding each other from infiltration.)

Maybe it’s good to define what is meant by “domination” and “submission” in the course of these relationships.

From what Priscilla is saying here, it seems to me, have to be direct and strong to the man in what you want, not like a drill sergeant, but in a factual way, say like,
“Would you like to make love?”
(Is that a good or bad thing to say? Only experience proves it out. I have had this statement backfire – A LOT. It seems guys want to get horny before they MAKE A DECISION for sex. It’s not an intellectual or a logical consideration. Maybe you have to paw them first, give them a hardon—then they say yes. Without a hardon, they say no, because their body doesn’t impel them. They follow their body. Not very intelligent, is it.)
Or,
“Could you center your tongue on my clitoris and not travel all over the place? This is the clitoris, I am touching it.”
Being passive would mean DOING NOTHING or chattering about irrelevant things, not saying what you want, too scared to say or do something that makes him know you want to have sex, or if you do sex, too timid to tell him how to do it.
As far as telling the guy how to do sex, that is a real problem.
If you have to explain in the middle of a sex act,
“do this – do that – don’t do this or that”
it becomes mechanical and fake, while the flow of love energy should be relaxed, not dictatorial. I can picture many situations where it would curtail the flow of what a man is doing – turn him off.
It is not an easy situation, it bears much explanation and practice in real life – like any art or skill, there are many facets. There is the facet of emotion, underneath creating a painting or making love. There is the facet of skill, by which one renders a masterpiece of art or turns on another person through love.
We need DETAILS, we need instruction that goes on and on, in many different ways, from all angles, in all situations.
I intend to use this site as a place of teaching men how to make love, and so far, I have spoken mostly about their attitude – that they must love and respect women, and women must feel the same way about themselves to receive it. But soon I am going to go past that and explain point for point, how to approach the female and give her pleasure.
There is no one easy or simple answer. This is a thing with many nuances, perspectives, ways of seeing and doing. One must go into situations, explaining the dating game, the phone game, the camcorder game, the restaurant game, the being in the house alone game, etc., etc. And then, DO I KNOW ALL THE ANSWERS? Certainly not! I can only share what I do know, what I have experienced my opinions, feelings and thoughts, and the channeling to Mother God, asking her to help.

WILLIAM BOND SAYS:

I think it is hard for strong women in a patriarchal society, because if a man approaches her and she then tells him what she wants, and he is not use to this and so backs off. It is because he is in a situation where doesn’t know what to do, as he has no experience of being with a woman like this. Whereas if a man has had experience of previously meeting assertive women, then it makes things a lot easier, as he then knows what to expect.

As for giving a man instructions during the sex-act – Yes it can be off-putting, so perhaps it is something that can be discussed afterwards, so the man then knows what to do next time they have sex. If the man’s ego is hurt by this, then this shows that the man is more interested in his own ego than wanting to give the woman what she wants. The point is that men are not going to know how to please women unless women tell them what they want. Men are not mind-readers. They only way they are going to learn is if they are told by women exactly what they like and don’t like.

RASA SAYS:
GOOD REMARKS, WM. I AM SO EAGER TO BUILD THIS WEBSITE. IT IS MY NEXT STEP IN DOING WHAT MUST BE DONE TO HELP HUMANITY. NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD VEER INTO SEX, BUT HERE I AM!

Embodiment of God

A presentation of the University of Mother God Church

SEX and MARRIAGE

Dream about marriage & sex interpreted for a friend

3-5-20-HES GOOD HUSBAND I SAY WE WILL DO SEX

John, my good husband, & I are standing around outside by the small bridge near the creek. He is facing away from the creek toward me, is wearing a white t-shirt, his hair curly honey blonde.

(BRIDGE, SMALL: A TRANSITION, A CHANGE.

CREEK: CARRIES THE GRACE OF GOD OR GOOD FORTUNE

FACING AWAY, FROM CREEK: HE DOES NOT SEE THIS GRACE COMING, NOT AWARE.

CURLY HAIR: WORRIED {IT’LL CURL YOUR HAIR}

HONEY BLONDE HAIR: HE HAS SWEET THOUGHTS ABOUT ME.

LOOKING AT ME: THINKING ABOUT ME.

WHITE T-SHIRT: HE WANTS MARRIAGE. THE WHITE IS OVER HIS HEART.)

This is like in real life, I’ve never had sex with John but a change has come over me. I tell him, as I have thought it out,

(CHANGE: THIS EXPLAINS THE BRIDGE OR CHANGE, IT’S ABOUT SEX.

I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME A SIGN ABOUT WHEN TO START UP AGAIN & THE TIME IS COMING SOON.)

“It seems that you aren’t happy & neither am I.”

To myself I have thought about my revulsion to have sex with him – he doesn’t have any appeal to me. But I’m going to force myself to desire him – how bad could it be? I need sex & it might as well be my husband. We could both be happy if I make myself do it.

So I tell him I am going to allow him to do sex to me. He is just listening, he’s passive.

(PASSIVE: AMENABLE, COOPERATIVE, SUBMISSIVE–TO ME IN THIS SITUATION.)

I am wearing a white hat, the kind sailors wear, only the rim of it is wider than sailor’s. It’s pushed back on my forehead; I seem to be adjusting it. I don’t see any of the hair on my head, it’s under my hat.

(UNDER MY HAT: THIS IS A SECRET TO HIM, NOT TO ME. MY THOUGHTS {HAIR} ABOUT IT ARE SECRET.

HAT, WHITE: MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MINDED

FOREHEAD, PUSHED BACK ON: EXPOSING MY THOUGHTS OR DECISION.)

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SYMBOLS IN THE DREAM OF 3-5-20

BRIDGE, SMALL: A TRANSITION, A CHANGE. A bridge takes us from one place to another, not necessarily to a physical place but mental, emotional or spiritual place. It could also be any venue, any change, from one thing to another, like one job or project leading to another.

CREEK: CARRIES THE GRACE OF GOD OR GOOD FORTUNE. Water is often grace because we need water so badly, we couldn’t live without it, ditto for the Grace of God.

FACING AWAY, FROM CREEK: HE DOES NOT SEE THIS GRACE COMING, NOT AWARE. This grace is something that will make him happy but he’s not aware it’s coming.

HONEY BLONDE HAIR: HE HAS SWEET THOUGHTS ABOUT ME. Honey is sweet.

LOOKING AT ME: THINKING ABOUT ME. You are usually thinking about what you are looking at.

WHITE T-SHIRT: HE WANTS MARRIAGE. THE WHITE IS OVER HIS HEART. White often represents marriage. It can mean other things, but you interpret according to what is the dream about? The dream is about a romantic relationship so this indicates marriage.

CHANGE: THIS EXPLAINS THE BRIDGE OR CHANGE, IT’S ABOUT SEX. From no sex (what he was worried about) to having sex.

PASSIVE: AMENABLE, COOPERATIVE, SUBMISSIVE–TO ME IN THIS SITUATION. Again, passive can be interpreted in other ways, always look to the content & meaning of the dream to apply the symbols.

UNDER MY HAT: THIS IS A SECRET TO HIM, NOT TO ME. MY THOUGHTS {HAIR} ABOUT IT ARE SECRET. Since people can’t see under your hat, it’s hidden. And what is under your hat is your brain or mind, so your thoughts are secret.

HAT, WHITE: MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE MINDED

FOREHEAD, PUSHED BACK ON: EXPOSING MY THOUGHTS OR DECISION. Again, a white hat can mean other things but in the context of this dream it means this.

ROCKY AFFAIR WILL TURN GOOD

DREAM REVIEWS ROCKY RELATIONSHIP—PREDICTS POSITIVE

OUTCOME

dream interpreted for a friend

3-3-20-ELVIS-EVIL KAHELL

First dream was about Elvis & it was joyful. There was a stage. We were taking turns performing, Elvis was on stage, I was on stage, for a while two people were on this stage that were ‘filling in’ for us. Their stage was all lustrous mint green, padded as if blankets underneath.

(YOU WERE HAPPY WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER, OTHERWISE YOU COULD NOT HAVE STOOD STAYING TOGETHER, AS IT WAS ROCKY. IN OTHER WORDS, YOU BORE THE BAD TIMES WISHING TO RETURN TO THE GOOD TIMES.)

But El had one problem that made him miserable, he thought I didn’t love him, but I did. There are many performances, he seems to ‘go away’ thinking I don’t love him then comes back super-joyful when he finds out that I do. Of course I love him, it’s ridiculous to think I don’t.

(HE WAS UN RIGHTEOUSLY UNCERTAIN OF YOUR LOVE. HE’S INCREDIBLY INSECURE, TROUBLED FROM INNER CONFLICTS.)

The stage is set in a room & it’s to the side, against the wall (just like the bed in my apt), not real big but about 15’long & maybe 8’ wide & seems to be trimmed all around with a band of sequins if El or I is performing.

(THE *SEQUINS* REPRESENT THE GLAMOUR & DRAMA OF WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER, ‘PERFORMING’ OR ACTING ON THE STAGE OF LIFE. THERE WERE GOOD & BAD TIMES, BUT IT WAS ALWAYS DRAMA.)

The highlight of this is when he thinks I don’t love him & how happy he is to return & find that I do.

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KAHELL THE EVIL ONE

Long ago I had a bf named Kahell, & he’s back, & he’s here with me, but in the scenes he has another female who is a fool & an idiot.

(THIS *FOOL*, IDIOT COULD BE HIS PRESENT GF OR YOURSELF IN THE PAST. EITHER WAY, SHE WILL BE GONE, BOTH OF THEM; THE OTHER GF & THE FOOLISH YOU—YOU HAVE CHANGED.)

Kahell was everything bad—a coke addict, criminal, greedy, selfish con man, the lowest of the low. Hard to think about him he was so evil & I was involved. His presence is repulsive.

(KAHELL: THIS IS THE SAME MAN YOU LOVED WHO LOVED YOU, AT HIS WORST, HIS DARK SIDE.)

First I see us at the old farm house. This female with him is short & slightly plump, like shortish arms & legs & filled out. She seems immature & egotistical.

(AGAIN, THIS IS PROBABLY TWO DIFFERENT WOMEN UNDER THE SAME BANNER, THE FEMALE HE EXPLOITS RIGHT NOW, & YOUR FOOLISH SELF IN THE PAST, WHEN YOU ACTED IN AN IMMATURE & EGOTISTICAL MANNER.)

(THIS IS WHEN DON, THE LOVER, BECOMES THE ‘HYDE’ OF JEKYLL & HYDE. HE’S EVERYTHING BAD, HE’S REPULSIVE.

YOU ARE NOT REPULSED BY ANYTHING PHYSICAL, BUT HIS CHARACTER & ACTIONS. ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE SYMBOLISM IN PHYSICAL FORMS.)

We are all three around for a long time. There’s something about after a while he wants to know if we’re gong to be friendly, affectionate, maybe make love. I tell him I do need affection, but I cannot deal with him, be with him while he’s with his gf. He thinks it’s alright, but I don’t.

HIS REACHING LIKE *PLAYING BASKETBALL*, AWAY FROM MY TABLE, IS HE IS ‘PLAYING GAMES’ WITH ME, AS HE STRETCHES OR LEANS AWAY FROM ME, HE’S NOT BEING SERIOUS.)

She at one point is standing in the room bragging about her ‘prowess’ with him – that no one can take him from her – he’s standing past her. I seem to be ‘hovering’ above, & I say,

“How dare you!”

(THE HIGHER PART OF YOU KNOWS SHE’S WRONG BECAUSE WHEN HE COMES TO HIS SENSES YOU ARE GOING TO COMMAND HIM. SHE’S BEING PRESUMPTUOUS.)

The next scene is we’re in my apt in B’klyn. I despise this couple, but they are living with me. I wish I could make them leave, but how?

(COUPLE, YOU DESPISE THEM: YOU DESPISE THIS COUPLE BEING TOGETHER, YOU WISH THEY WOULD BREAK UP. BEING WITH YOU, LIVING OFF YOU, IS THEY ARE IN YOUR HEAD LIVING OFF YOUR ENERGY. YOU WANT TO GET THEM—AS A COUPLE—OUT OF YOUR MIND. THEY ARE ‘LIVING RENT FREE IN YOUR HEAD.’

(THE SEQUINS REPRESENT THE GLAMOUR & DRAMA OF WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER, ‘PERFORMING’ OR ACTING ON THE STAGE OF LIFE. THERE WERE GOOD & BAD TIMES, BUT IT WAS ALWAYS DRAMA.)

(THIS FOOL, IDIOT COULD BE HIS PRESENT GF OR YOURSELF IN THE PAST. EITHER WAY, SHE WILL BE GONE, BOTH OF THEM; THE OTHER GF & THE FOOLISH YOU—YOU HAVE CHANGED.)

HIS REACHING LIKE PLAYING BASKETBALL, AWAY FROM MY TABLE, IS HE IS ‘PLAYING GAMES’ WITH ME, AS HE STRETCHES OR LEANS AWAY FROM ME, HE’S NOT BEING SERIOUS.)