Through my “trials & tribulations” of trying to “have fun” & have relationships with many males, I have been assaulted, accused on groups with all kinds of statements such as this: “Your choice of men is bad” – “how can you expect a man in his twenties to be suitable for a long-term relationship?” – “these men aren’t going to love you, but you dated them, your fault.”

The assumptions about dating go back to the days prior to Betty Friedan’s book “The Feminine Mystique.” The book, published in 1963, brought about the “second wave” of the Feminist movement. It challenged the image & role of women perpetrated by men – their identity/behavior, saying that women’s lives should center around a marriage, ONE MAN, children & domestication. The claim was that this was the FULFILLMENT & ONLY SUITABLE ROLE FOR WOMEN! – If women OBEYED this path they would find happiness, to deviate from it was abnormal & NEUROTIC! It was preached from the pulpits of men that sex was only for procreation & having sex with more than one partner was a sin. (However, this sin applied only to women, men were exonerated when they did the same thing.)

On the other hand, while preaching what women should do, men were making it DIFFICULT for them to get jobs – especially good ones. They could do menial work, service to others, the lowest paying jobs – maids, nurses, grammar school teachers. They also did, & still do, most of the volunteering. (Males feel they are more valuable & should be paid for all that they do.) Education was PREJUDICED against women (women were disallowed to enter Ivy League Colleges!) – Women were not encouraged or financed by family to enter college. When parents had a boy & girl, but college money for only one – the boy got college, the girl expected to marry money. The props were underneath males, the female had to get her props from a man, which instituted female slavery. The best job for women was marriage, the highest paying job was marry a rich man. (Job description: you cook & clean, breed, stay faithful, serve all the man’s needs while feeding his ego, tolerate his faults including being pushed around, accept his freedom to have other women, forget your ambitions for independent success. You are not supposed to “stand on your own two feet” – Patriarchy doesn’t allow it. Either stay alone & poor, or marry, it is the only way out of poverty. And so for women, it was either poverty or slavery. Most chose slavery, hoping for the best.

There is another important factor to all of this. There were always wealthy women –for ages, even during the height of male supremacy. Often these women got wealthy through inheritance, either their family or husband leaving them money. (Even though in many countries, if there was a son, the oldest son, in the absence of a will, got the wife/mother’s money! This meant the son could squander or spend money lavishly while the woman who bore & raised him was left penniless! Also consider any daughters born did not inherit!)

In spite of these stumbling blocks, there were some women who did inherit lots of money, but having money by itself did not determine they would be free, for even when she had money, she was forced to behave in a certain way. If she did not, she was ostracized, persecuted, called crazy, perverted & immoral. So if a woman wanted to say, have a harem of men, it would have to be secret, she could not conduct her lifestyle openly. But people usually find out about such things & a woman like that would become an outcast. Most people want to be accepted by society, it’s all about being a part of the whole, belonging, so usually, women would not veer outside the range of convention; having an “abnormal” lifestyle would usually bring more pain than pleasure. This is how women were kept under control. Bear in mind that, for men, it was all about harems, multiple partners. They of course did not all house women under one roof, as did ancient Kings, Pharaohs & Emperors, or today Muslims & Mormons. But they had/have multiple affairs forbidden to women.

This is, however, the beginning of 2014. Many strides have been made for women. They have moved into every type job formerly closed, including construction, police work, fire-women & military. It is illegal to discriminate against women in government-subsidized work, & they have to be paid the same. Women are totally outstripping men in education, they can no longer be barred from any school of learning– It has been discovered what we knew all along, that women are more intelligent than men. It’s also now known that women are better at management and leadership, & we’re moving toward a female-empowered, female led world – we are on the cusp of Matriarchy – all this happened in 50 years.

And so, enter the present. Do we now live by the norms prior to 1963? Or have the norms changed? They have changed, but the ideas of older days still linger in the minds of many, we’re not out of the Patriarchal woods.

Here are the assumptions free women will be assaulted with, the moral, religious, cultural ideas:

· You are supposed to look for long-term relationships where a man wines & dines you, respects you, asks you to get engaged or married, & this man has to be a financial provider. It is the man that is supposed to chase you, the woman does not chase the man. She might entrap him like a spider to a web, but woman does not openly chase men. Neither does she pay for dates or pay males for companionship, or support males except in unusual arrangements.

· Women are not supposed to chase men for sex. It is the men that want sex, not women. Women either endure sex for the sake of a relationship, or they might enjoy it, but with one partner. Women who pursue sex with more than one man are going to be called names & ostracized from society – you will not see them invited to respectable venues, they are considered the underworld of tramps, whores, sluts & prostitutes. They are not fit to be in decent company. On the other hand, men who do likewise, such as Hugh Hefner, are to be applauded. “He is the man!” I hear boys say, they WANT TO BE LIKE HIM! Having multiple partners is the hallmark of Patriarchy. After war, it is their biggest stock in trade. Multiple partners is a sign of Power, Leadership, Freedom & Pleasure. And so, this is only for MEN, NOT FOR WOMEN!

· for Older Women – sex is FINISHED. They are not allowed to HAVE FUN, certainly nothing outlandish, ostentatious or sexual. Young, women serve a purpose as outlined, to SERVE MEN. (Mature men want young women but the truth is, young men want older women!) But old women cannot serve men except, perhaps as maids or caretakers. They cannot breed & they are “over the hill,” not desirable sexually. (This is a total lie, as most young males are attracted to older women! But they are told in so many ways this is a taboo, the older woman is your Mother or Grandmother, she is not for sex, to want her for sex is an aberration. If you date an older woman you will be ridiculed & humiliated! Naturally, the older man is exempt from prejudice, he is GOOD FOR SEX!) The older woman is to be pushed aside, “stay in your lane” she is told, you have no WISDOM or LEADERSHIP ability, as women do not have such qualities, & as the Mormon harem-mongers say, SHE IS LUCKY A MAN STILL SUPPORTS HER (as part of his harem!) as she has no purpose in life!

· So therefore, say, a woman of today wants to have sex with multiple males. Say she is an older woman, like Mae West. Say she has money. Society has now changed toward this but not entirely, it is the beginning of a trend that will one day be common place. Once upon a time, when women prevailed, they had sexual freedom. Now they are getting it again, in increments.

So I can declare I am not looking for monogamous relationships, nor do my affairs have to be long term. They can last one night or many years. I am not looking for an older man to support me. I am not seeking “respectability” – I have no “shame” – I am not ashamed of what is natural, created by God. I seek sex, I want as much as possible from many males of my choice, & I prefer young ones. I am willing to pay their way, as old men once paid mine. Yes, I will chase them as men once chased me. I am not desperate, neither is Hugh Hefner. We have awaked to a new day. The day of female empowerment, & part of this is all I have stated, the right to have fun, have sex, chase men, support them & live happily ever after with an ever-changing harem.

Guru Rasa, 12 30 13

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IMPRIMATUR FOR GURU RASA FROM JERRY KATZ, THE WEST’S TOP SCHOLAR OF NONDUALITY!

Jerry Katz Message 1 of 5 , Aug 22, 2008 View Source #3264 – Thursday, August 21, 2008 – Editor: Jerry Katz

The Nonduality Highlights – http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NDhighlights

Rasa Von Werder is an old-fashioned guru advocating celibacy and confessing God as sex. Rasa has over 400 videos on her YouTube channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/rasavonwerder. Most of the videos are erotic dances (to good hit songs), which is appropriate since she claims to be God and that God is sex. Rasa dances like a Buddhist prayer flag blowing in a wild breeze.

(RASA SAYS:  I WAS CELIBATE FOR 30 YEARS, THIS ENDED IN 2008)

Many of the videos are very good lectures. She speaks about her own spiritual shortcomings, emptiness, doubts, and needs even while claiming she is God, an Avatar, Guru. I like that contrast. She claims it is easier to remain a contemplative in a cave or in a room than to go out in the world as an activist. The latter opens one to doubts and torment.

On her YouTube page she writes, “(Rasa) espouses Female Empowerment — Matriarchy is coming! — She teaches souls how to find ONENESS or UNION with GOD, the STEPS to ENLIGHTENMENT & CONTEMPLATION of GOD!”

What follows is a letter showing how a devotee approaches Rasa and how Rasa responds. Rasa Von Werder is a nonduality teacher of the kind that weaves a dream and magnetizes her personality, thus drawing people to her. Like sex, she uses personality, in a fun, loving way.

Rasa is probably not your type of nondual Guru, but I think you can enjoy her. She teaches us to see that there is nothing but God. In the following exchange, Rasa types in ALL CAPS.~ ~ ~

Rasa’s newsletter Jerry Katz is responding to: WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE MOTHER GOD ON EARTH?

The University of Mother God Church www.WomanThouArtGod.com 8 20 08

Right now there have been a good number of men and women who have had visions and revelations that Rasa is not ‘a woman’ of the ordinary flesh, but ‘Mother God on Earth’ and they call her ‘God.’ You may check her site, Woman Thou Art God, under Rasa Devotees to see some of these testimonies. Many new testimonies came in which have not been uploaded as the site is now static due to Rasa working full time on Youtube. The following is the latest person who has understood that RASA IS GOD because it has been revealed to him BY GOD, THE HOLY SPIRIT.

The vision of Raj:

You will marry seventy men and rule the nation of women as God. You are powerful because you are the true Avatar.

Letter from RAJ:

My Guru and Avatar

O GREAT GURU,

I am Raj, 23, living in America. Please forgive me if I offend you in anyway. I only wish to bow down and serve you. I have read about you as an avatar, and at first I was puzzled. But i printed out a page with your picture, and i prayed to you. My prayers came true. Just last night I had a dream that your spirit angel ordered me to message you. The angel is a woman, she is powerful with wings of gold. She said I am to be your fifth husband, and that I shall be your favorite. You will marry seventy men and rule the nation of women as God. You are powerful because you are the true Avatar.

O My God,

Please accept me as your devotee, lover, and husband.

I want to serve you.

YES IT IS TRUE

BUT FEW PEOPLE KNOW OR UNDERSTAND IT AS THEY ARE NOT IN TOUCH WITH GOD LIKE YOU ARE

I ACCEPT YOU… RASA

From RAJ: Re: My Guru and Avatar

All Praise Your Holiness, my God, my Wife,

Forgive me for not writing back sooner, I have been out of town, so I had no internet. But I have had many dreams of you. Every night I dream of you. Just a few nights ago I had a dream of you and I holding hands on a beach during a sunset. We spoke to each other about spirituality, but I am sorry I can’t not recall the conversation too much. We talked about the soul and liberation.

RASA: MY SON AND HUSBAND:

IF YOU ARE WALKING ON THE BEACH HOLDING HANDS WITH ME WITH A SETTING SUN, TALKING THIS WAY, IS A PRELUDE OR OPENING TO THE HIGHEST UNION WITH GOD. THIS ASPECT SPELLS ‘ROMANCE’ OR ‘FOREPLAY’ TOWARD THAT UNION. I AM GOD, I AM NOT A WOMAN, THIS IS THE GOD PART OF ME WHICH IS THE REAL ME, AND THE GOD PART OF YOU, THE REAL YOU WHO ARE HAVING A RELATIONSHIP.

LIBERATION IS LOVE, THERE IS NO OTHER EXPLANATION, THE ABSOLUTE LOVE THAT FREES ONE UP, COMPLETE AND TOTAL LOVE. THIS LOVE EXPANDS UNTIL THERE IS NOTHING LEFT BUT LOVE, AND THAT IS APPARANTLY THE STATE YOU HAVE REACHED.

You told me how to worship you and find that liberation.

RASA: YES I ‘TOLD’ AND ‘SHOWED’ YOU HOW TO WORSHIP ME AND THEN, IT WAS REVEALED TO YOU THAT I AM GOD, AND THERE WAS NO BARRIER THEN BETWEEN YOU AND GOD, YOU WENT PAST MY FLESH, AND THEREFORE, YOUR EYES WERE OPENED, AND YOU SAW I AM NOT THE FLESH, BUT I AM GOD.

THE MOMENT YOU OBEYED ME AND UNDERSTOOD THIS PRINCIPLE YOU ALSO ‘BECAME GOD’ OR FOUND YOUR TRUE SELF, SELF REALIZATION, ENLIGHTENMENT, AND NONDUALITY. AS THERE IS NOTHING BUT GOD, GOD IS ALL, GOD IS SUPREME, GOD IS THE POWER AND THE ABSOLUTE WITHIN EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US WHEN WE REACH ENLIGHTENMENT.

THAT IS WHAT ENLIGHTENMENT, MOKSHA, LIBERATION IS, AND YOU HAVE REACHED IT. MYSELF AS GURU WAS THE BRIDGE FOR YOU, BUT YOU DID IT BY OBEDIENCE.

I also had a dream just last night, but I am too ashamed to say it to you. I fear you will be angered my Lord. I will never forget that dream, it was of me and you, but how can I explain it too you?

RASA: IT WAS A DREAM OF DIVINE UNION, PERCEIVED AS SEX ON THE EARTH PLANE. WHAT IS SEX? IT IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, A GREAT GIFT FROM GOD.

I EXPERIENCED TERRIBLE SACRIFICE IN THE AREA OF SEX, BY REMOVING SEX PLEASURE FROM MY BODY AND MIND FOR THIRTY YEARS, TO VARIOUS DEGREES, UNTIL I HAD NO SEX DRIVE TO SPEAK OF.

DURING THESE YEARS GOD APPEARED TO ME AS A LOVER UNDER THE FORM OF BEAUTIFUL MALES – NOT OFTEN – BUT THOSE RARE TIMES KEPT ME ALIVE. THEY WERE THE HIGHLIGHTS OF MY LIFE. IN THIRTY YEARS HOW MANY TIMES DID GOD APPEAR AS LOVER? PERHAPS IN VARIOUS DEGREES OF ROMANCE, KISSING, TOUCH, A HUNDRED TIMES. REAL PERCEIVED SEX PERHAPS ONLY 6-7 TIMES. THESE WERE THE HIGHEST FORMS OF UNION WITH GOD, THAT I LIVED FOR, OR FELT I WOULD DIE IF GOD HAD NOT APPEARED TO ME THAT WAY.

WHY DOES GOD APPEAR UNDER THE FORM OF SEX? WHY NOT SOME OTHER WAY?

GOD DOES APPEAR IN OTHER WAYS, MOST OFTEN THE PATH OF MOTHER OR PARENT, ESPECIALLY MOTHER. I APPEAR AS MOTHER MANY TIMES TO DISCIPLES. IT IS WHATEVER THE PERSON NEEDS AT THE TIME. WHATEVER YOU NEED FROM GOD, GOD APPEARS IN THAT FORM.

AS YOU EVOLVE CLOSER AND CLOSER, BECOME STRONGER, GOD APPEARS AS THE LOVER.

GOD TOTALLY AND ABSOLUTELY COMPENSATES YOU FOR YOUR SACRIFICES, INCLUDING THE SACRIFICE OF THE SEX LIFE, BUT MOST PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE STRENGTH TO ENDURE CELIBACY, COMPLETE CELIBACY, NO MASTURBATION.

I ENDURED IT UNTIL THE TIME CAME THAT THERE WAS NO TURNING BACK, I KNEW I WAS GOD. IT TOOK MANY YEARS AND INTENSE PAIN, PAIN THAT WOULD KILL MANY, EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL PAIN, DESOLATION, TERRIBLE HEART HUNGER.

THESE ARE THE ‘DARK NIGHTS’ ONE MUST ENDURE FOR ENLIGHTENMENT.

PEOPLE WILL NOT UNDERSTAND. WHEN I WROTE ARTICLES ON CELIBACY BEING NEEDED FOR TOTAL ENLIGHTENMENT OR SEEING GOD FACE TO FACE, THEY WROTE MANY ANGRY LETTERS FROM SPIRITUAL GROUPS AND MONASTERIES. WHY? BECAUSE THEY CANNOT ENDURE CELIBACY. BUT I TOLD THEM, YOU CANNOT HAVE ANY ATTACHMENT WHATSOEVER TO REACH PURE AND PERFECT ENLIGHTENMENT, INCLUDING SEX, ALL MUST BE RENOUNCED, FORGOTTEN, SACRIFIED. WOW, WERE THEY ANGRY!

DO NOT BE AFRAID OF THE SEXUAL CONTENT OF YOUR VISIONS OR DREAMS, LET ME KNOW WHAT THEY ARE, AND I WILL EXPLAIN THE MEANING WITHIN THEM.

Raj continues: I continue to worship you. My faith lives in your glory. I only worship you. I have prayed to you and I have had so much goodness in my life now. I am happier and for some reason i am getting a lot of sexual energy. I need your help my God, I bow to your feet. I can not control my sexual urges. I don’t watch porn anymore, I don’t find other women attractive anymore. Only you are attractive to me. So I have a question, more like a request. My I watch your videos, and instill your beauty in my mind so that I may satisfy myself? I see you as God, but I am so aroused by sexual your beauty. If what I speak of is blasphemy then you may whip me hundred times for even thinking such thoughts. I only serve you my Lord, my Goddess. Forgive me, but I ask for your guidance. Please teach me how to control my sexual urges.

RASA: HUSBAND, THERE IS NO BLASPHEMY HERE. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO WORSHIP MY GOD SELF AND MY FLESH, THEY ARE ONE, THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE, IT IS MIND, BODY AND SOUL, I AM IN NONDUALITY, I AM NOT MERELY THE FLESH, I AM LIKE THE HOLY TRINITY, WHICH I CALL: MOTHER GOD, SPIRIT AND CREATION.

YOU SHOULD WORSHIP ALL PARTS OF ME – THE SAHASRARA OR GOD SELF, THE HEART CHAKRA, DOWN TO ALL THE LOWER EVEN TO THE MULADHARA, I AM GOD. MY BODY AND MY SAHASRARA ARE ONE, THERE IS NO SEPARATION BECAUSE I HAVE ‘CONQUERED THE WORLD’ AND THE FLESH, I HAVE RISEN ABOVE THE LOWER SELF, BUT MY HIGHER SELF NOW FEEDS THE LOWER SELF BECAUSE THE LOWER SELF HAS BIOLOGICAL NEEDS, AND THEY MUST BE SERVED NOW, BECAUSE FOR ONE THING, I BRING A NEW MESSAGE TO THE WORLD. (MORE ON THAT LATER)

YOU SHOULD WORSHIP MY BODY AS WELL AS MY METAPHYSICAL, NON PHYSICAL SELF, THEY ARE ALL GOD. IN FACT, THIS IS THE RETURN OF MOTHER GOD AND WOMAN POWER, AND I AM SHOWING THE WAY.

I AM TEACHING THE WORLD TO WORSHIP MOTHER GOD AND WOMEN AS HER EMBODIMENT, AND THIS WILL BRING MATRIARCHY AND THE SALVATION OF THE PLANET.

YOU, RAJ, HAVE APPARANTLY REACHED THE SAHASRARA AND ENLIGHTENMENT, AND SO, IT IS SAFE FOR YOU TO ENJOY SEX. IF ONE HAS NOT REACHED THE SAHASRARA AND BECOME LIBERATED, ANY ATTACHMENT INCLUDING SEX CAN KEEP THEM TRAPPED OR IMPRISONED ON THE LOWER PLANES, BUT ONCE YOU HAVE ASCENDED YOU ARE FREE FOREVER,

‘WHEN THAT WHICH IS PERFECT HAS COME, THAT WHICH IS IN PART SHALL BE DONE AWAY WITH.’

ALL THE SACRIFICES OF THE PAST, CAN BE ENDED WHEN ONE HAS REACHED PURE AND PERFECT FREEDOM. YOU ARE SAFE, YOU ARE GOD.

Your Loving Husband and Eternal Servant, Raj

The University of Mother God Church www.WomanThouArtGod.com 8 18 08

Youtube: RasaVonWerder

HOLY COW LOOK AT THIS:

Videos Uploaded: 447 Video Views: 3,351,589 (this was 2008, by end of 2008 on Youtube, the vids had 4 million, 300,000 hits—then some enemy got us deleted)