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WOMEN’S FEELINGS ON SEXUALITY

WOMEN /MEN THINK DIFFERENTLY RE. SEX

There is an entire book in the difference in male/female view of sexuality.
The predominant vision of it is presented by “the old men” of Patriarchy.
I am at the forefront of “the old women” of Matriarchy.
I herald the time – coming soon – when women will rule the family and the world once again, and men will be their workers, drones, slaves and sex objects – complete role reversal to what was 10,000 years ago and the prior record of 200,000 years from archaeology.
But I do not degrade men the way the old men have taught young men to degrade, denigrate women. In these shrines I present how to worship God through the bodies of both male and female.
Matriarchy is NOT a reversal of Patriarchy, as many assume.
Women are Mothers, they care about people.
Yes, it is a deep and complicated issue, and I am full of passion on it.And no, there are not many women on board. And no, they are just learning to see sex another way, I am helping them. They are still repressed, prudish and brainwashed. They need sexual liberation.
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OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE.  OTHERWISE YOU HAVE "BLOW AND HUMP" - THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISSAPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.

OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS AND MEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE. OTHERWISE YOU HAVE “BLOW AND HUMP” – THE STANDARD, FOR WOMEN, DISAPPOINTING RITUAL OF SEX.

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WHAT WOMEN WANT IN SEX – Guru Rasa Von Werder

Women want something men are slow to give: Touch, caress, gentle kissing, oral and manual stimulation, massage, overall tenderness and caring touches before, during and after sex that might be called “romantic.”
“Romance” by my definition is caring mixed with sex, or love and sex together. The reason women are not getting this is because the old men are teaching the young how to “make love” which is not love at all.
They begin with the premise is that women are not to be loved, they are to be used. Hear them in the scriptures and the pulpits of old. Obviously, today priests are not telling the audience that men should beat women, but once this was routine. All bible belters know how St. Paul towed the Orthodox line and women were not to preach but commanded to obey their husbands. What kind of sex would this portend, where the male dominates? – Selfish sex, based solely on his orgasm.
Then again, in most recent time, the Sainted Pope John Paul II said some twisted things regarding sex, to wit, that husbands must not lust for their wives, that sex is for procreation only. I love the man dearly and he went straight to Heaven, no Purgatory, but he was wrong on this issue, wronged because he was brainwashed as we all were.
Slowly we are coming out of the fog, the delusion, regarding the dirtiness and danger of sex. We are waking back up to the reality that sex is sacred, blessed, as holy as any act we can infuse with the energy of love.
After beating us up in the pulpit and destroying the love of men for women, they continue to assault as in pornography. Here women are then degraded, made to be less than animals, by one or more men beating off on their faces, penetrating them not even in the sacred yoni, but now, the anus predominates. Men are teaching boys/men that women are no better than homosexuals, if their anus is good enough for screwing, so are the anuses of men.
What happened here? What is the political ramification?
It so happens that Patriarchs subdued the earth – first women, then all of mankind and animals – through terror, the terror of physical violence and murder. After that it became psychological death.
You kill a person by stripping away their identity and self worth – this was done at great labor to women, (and later to any men that stood in the way of Patriarchs). Obviously, they couldn’t do it completely, they could not turn women into zombies, but they succeeded in confusing the issues; lots of deluded, dazed females walking about the earth, obeying men either from brainwashing or fear of retribution, even death.
As I say in “How to Make Love to a Woman” lesson One, that you cannot make love to a woman unless you love them. Patriarchs turned love making into fucking, using and exploiting.
They tell men what women are for. They explain who women are. Men are first, women second. Women obey men. Men obey men (men in office, men in government, men in military.) The subjugation of men to men begins at home, as 25% of all boys, by military statistics, are molested by their own Dads. Factor in grandfathers, uncles, priests, Boy Scout leaders, choir directors, employers and others, and what then is the percentile?
The result of abusing boys from the cradle is stealing them from the embraces of Mother, confusing them as to who is their care giver and security. Obviously, Mother’s touch is gentle and non-sexual. Men envied that – it gives Mother Influence over the young. They then indoctrinated their own touch, which is often painful. Penises are like knives going into the anuses and vaginas of little children. This is Patriarchy – this is an important part of their plan to dominate the earth by corrupting, damaging the young from the time they cannot defend themselves.
What is the result of this molestation? Confused males who don’t know what they are. Are they gay or straight? Bisexual? Are women to be loved or hated? Their instinct tells them to worship women, adore women old enough to be their mother and beyond; Patriarchy tells them to hold women in contempt fuck young women and get them pregnant so we can have more cannon fodder.
The teachings of the old women are the exact opposite of the old men. Women teach males compassion, empathy, kindness and love. This is the greatest danger to Patriarchy, based on brutality, domination, selfishness and greed. Buddhism and Christianity, true religion, are the enemies of Patriarchy. These scriptures have ancient Mother God origins, as did all religions on earth.
As I said, the teachings of the old women are like so:

1 Respect, love, venerate women and worship God as a benevolent, maternal God, not a warlike one.

2 Care about the feelings of a woman. That means courtesy, respect, – do not use them and walk away. The “fuck’m n duck’m” might be an instinct encouraged by other males. Granted, males do have instincts different than women’s, (such as to impregnate many) but these instincts have to be guided toward good.

3 When you have sex with a female, don’t act like she’s a stranger next day. This is a complaint I get from college girls, and my own Beloved has done this to me. I shall never forget that after a Friday night of blissful love, I sat in the club next day, waiting for him to appear. There he was, at the end of the bar, getting his drink. He turned, saw me, gave me a blank look and walked away. He then chatted with another female in the patio for twenty minutes, not having given me even one. At the end of the night he asked me out – I was so hurt I walked away.
The college girls say to me,
“You have sex with a guy and the next day in class he acts like he doesn’t know you.”

4 After you have sex, do not exit as fast as possible. This is particularly hurtful to a woman. My Beloved once left the premises while I was in the bathroom cleaning up – without saying goodbye. I come out of the bathroom, he is gone. All that he said and did then had no relevance? It seemed so. God told me different, that in his heart was true love. But his ratchet behavior was a lack of culture and programming by women. He was schooled in the demon world of Patriarchs.
Another time he promised to spend hours with me. We spoke lovingly for a half hour, then we had sex. I went to the kitchen for a moment. Coming back to the bedroom, he was already on the phone seeking a ride out. This is love? Yes, I know love is in his heart, but on the outside, his ways are all wrong. Why? Lack of schooling.
Males today, unless they are of the wealthy class, do not know how to help a woman with her coat, or hold the door for her, or speak to her pleasantly without being rude, crude or offensive: Patriarchy. They learn crudeness from peers and the mainstream media which features lack of caring and violence.

What the old women need to teach young males is how to love women. That is the beginning, that is Matriarchy.

I told my Lover that he would reach Enlightenment by loving me. This is Shaktiism. The man receives from the God-women her Anointing, her Divine Power, as he applies his tenderness to her. It’s not about his physical spurt, – no spurt until the woman is satisfied. He has to attend to her in any way she wants until she is well pleased. This may take fifteen minutes or an our or two or three. Dr. Stanley Bass, who writes about his method called “Karezza Sex” does his thing to his female four hours at a time, three times a week. The man is almost 100 years old and his sex methods and raw-food diet have kept him healthy, happy, horny and lucid all this time. He wrote his last book age 97, when most men are dead or demented. Twelve hours a week in the bed with his woman anoints him to be powerful.

I told my lover he would reach Enlightenment by being with me; he would see God face to face eventually, which would take a number of years. He agreed, but that very night, schooled by Patriarchy, was the night he called someone for a ride as soon as I left the room. Because of this I have not spoken to him for six weeks and will not do so until he returns on bended knee. When males are tutored wrong, it’s a lot of trouble to erase their bad habits and teach them new ones.

Guru Rasa Von Werder…Jan. 4, 2015

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SHRINE TO E MANUEL – WORSHIP GOD THROUGH HIS BODY

SHRINE TO E MANUEL – WORSHIP GOD THROUGH HIS BODY

Guru Rasa has added to her collection of hats that of photographer. She is taking pictures of the most amazing looking men she can find, and this is one of them. Book being planned now is “America’s Most Beautiful Men.”

A DISCIPLE’S TESTIMONY – HE TRIED OTHER GURUS BUT NONE WORKED LIKE GURU RASA. SO HE IS FOR THE TRUE POWER OF GOD IN RASA.
GURU RASA’S COMMENTS IN CAPS

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i have stated my journey and seem a lot of different scenarios of spirituality from last many years. i have seen, met and interacted with many nice people and few of them were really expert. In the start, i wanted a ” True Spiritual Teacher ” then i found that only a ” Guru ” can help me and a true guru is not an ordinary spiritual teacher, but one who has attained union with God and is therefore qualified to lead others to that goal. The guru as “dispeller of darkness” (gu, “darkness,” and ru, “that which dispels.”)

RASA SAYS:
THE DARKNESS I DISPEL IS ONE OF THE CONNECTION WITH LOWER ENERGIES AND LOWER THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. I ASSIST THE DISCIPLE TO RISE THROUGH THE CHAKRAS, TO BE BORN AGAIN, AND BEGIN THE ASCENT INTO THE SAHASRARA.

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SEE WHAT GOD CREATED IN THE BEAUTY OF E MANUEL

SEE WHAT GOD CREATED IN THE BEAUTY OF E MANUEL

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WOMEN WANT SOMETHING IN SEX THAT MEN ARE SLOW TO GIVE

WOMEN WANT SOMETHING IN SEX THAT MEN ARE SLOW TO GIVE

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OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

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WE NEED TO SEE ONE ANOTHER WITH RESPECT IN SPITE OF OUR FAULTS - GOD IS IN US

WE NEED TO SEE ONE ANOTHER WITH RESPECT IN SPITE OF OUR FAULTS – GOD IS IN US

The role of the guru is to help his disciples find liberation in God through a very personal spiritual bond formed between guru and disciple, a union of loyal spiritual endeavor on the part of the disciple and divine blessings by the Guru.

RASA SAYS:
YOU MUST INVITE ME INTO YOUR HEART. CLEAR YOUR HEART OF OTHER ATTACHMENTS, INVITE ME IN. A LINK IS FORMED, A BOND. THE MORE DEVOTION YOU SHOW ME, THE MORE OBEDIENCE TO MY TEACHINGS AND BLESSINGS, THE MORE POWER YOU GET. BECOME LUKEWARM, THE POWER MIGHT WANE. FORGET ME, THE POWER DIMINISHES. REPUDIATE ME, THE POWER STOPS.
I HAD ONE DISCIPLE COME UNDER THE SWAY OF A BLACK-MAGIC WOMAN. SHE PERSUADED HIM TO UN –INSTALL ME FROM HIS HEART. I HAD A DREAM HE HAD LEFT GOD AND WAS ON IS WAY TO HELL. I CALLED HIM AND ASKED HIM WHAT HE HAD DONE. HE CONFESSED. I ASKED HIM TO INSTALL ME AGAIN AND HE WAS REUNITED WITH GOD, HIS LIFE SAVED.
THE WOMAN WHO BEGUILED HIM WAS JEALOUS OF MY POWER, WANTED TO BE INFLUENTIAL LIKE ME, BUT SHE DID NOT HAVE THE ANOINTING. I AM TARGETED BY NUMEROUS JEALOUS WOMAN WHO WANT TO FILL MY SHOES BUT THEY CANNOT.

i want to be an ideal devotee, the perfect disciple. i met ” Rasa Von Werder ” and found her a real, true Guru. At this stage , i understand that we can love a Guru, but we cannot possess a Guru. The Guru breaks the pattern of possessing love. Whenever we seem dictating terms or becoming possessive, He/she will do the complete opposite – tighten the screw or loosen the screw, as it is needed.

RASA SAYS:
THERE IS A PROBLEM WITH MEN, THAT SOME OF THEM WANT TO POSSESS ME PHYSICALLY AS A MAN-TO-WOMAN THING. NO MAN CAN POSSESS ME UNLESS I WANT HIM TO, UNLESS I CHOOSE HIM. THE MEN I HAVE SEX WITH AND MY FUTURE HUSBAND ARE NOT THE SAME AS DISCIPLES, ALTHOUGH SOME OF THEM MIGHT BECOME DISCIPLES AND MY HUSBAND WILL BE MY DISCIPLE, I DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH DISCIPLES ORDINARILY. UNLESS I TELL A DISCIPLE I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM HE SHOULD REFRAIN FROM CHASING ME AS A MAN TO A WOMAN, AS THAT WILL PUSH ME AWAY RATHER THAN DRAW ME TO HIM.
IT MEANS HE IS LOOKING AT ME IN THE EYES OF THE FLESH.
THE DISCIPLE MUST LOOK TO ME AS GOD-ON-EARTH, THE SAME AS IF HE SAW JESUS ON EARTH IN A WOMAN’S BODY.

At the same time, a Guru is not doing anything. It is just happening through Him / Her. It is happening through the Big Mind. There is no pre-conceived plan of action. Actions are spontaneous.

RASA SAYS:
THE ANOINTING HAPPENS AUTOMATICALLY. DO NOT ASK ME TO PRAY. ASK ME TO ANSWER YOUR PRAYER. I AM GOD ON EARTH, THE SAME AS JESUS.

I understand that we should not change Guru-disciple relationship into just another relationship, like father, brother, sister, wife or close friend. It’s not like any other relationship except the relationship with Mother and its more than 1000 times. Otherwise, we will get into the same type of possessive attitude. Guru is all wisdom and love. Guru is that principle which is wisdom and love, and that is awakened in each one who has stepped onto the path.

RASA SAYS:
THE GURU IS GOD ON EARTH, NOT YOUR RELATIVE IN THE FLESH. IT IS A DIVINE RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS NOT LIMITED TO THE PHYSICAL. MOST RELATIVES ARE NOT GOD ON EARTH, THEY ARE NOT ENLIGHTENED OR SELF REALIZED, THEIR LOVE, WISDOM AND POWER ARE LIMITED, SOME PARENTS AND RELATIVES ARE HELL-BENT, THEIR EARTHLY PRESENCE CANNOT SAVE OTHERS. SOME RELATIVES LEAD US TO HELL, NOT TO HEAVEN. BEWARE OF ATTACHMENT TO RELATIVES, EVEN YOUR OWN PARENTS, WHEN THEY ARE NOT OF GOD.

i found Guru Rasa to be a person, a Guru who has no gap between life and wisdom and love, and my purpose of becoming a disciple is to bridge that gap. People have different reasons to be with a Guru but i think mine are: to have my wishes fulfilled and because it is more pleasurable (ed: do you mean happiness?). When everything looks more painful to me and i come for comfort to be a good disciple of my Guru. i want to evolve and become Enlightened. i want to know higher Knowledge. i have my goals and my vision, i want to share . I want to just obey, serve and give comfort to the Guru. i should be with the Guru because i belong to Her.

There is no choice. So the necessity for a guru cannot be avoided, because no one is so wise as to know everything about the past, present and future. All problems are new when they come. So, we require a superior to guide us. The teacher should not be one at variance with his knowledge. He or She should be the one who is not different from that which he teaches. Nowadays, we have learned people, professors, scholars who are supposed to be repositories of knowledge, but their life is different from what they preach. Knowledge becomes meaningful when it is lived, and not merely taught, or heard or read about. This knowledge cannot be obtained through mere study for oneself. It requires the grace of a Guru and Guru Rasa Von Werder is one of the best gurus. i surrender myself to the Her wholly and solely, and i hope that She takes on the responsibility of looking after the welfare of the soul of Her devoted disciple.

RASA SAYS:
A GURU IS A PERSON WHO HAS TRANSCENDED PHYSICAL KNOWLEDGE, THEY HAVE ASCENDED IN TO THE HIGHEST REACHES. SOME GURUS, LIKE MYSELF, HAVE RISEN INTO THE SAHASRARA, THE HIGHEST LEVEL, AND THEY HAVE SEEN GOD FACE TO FACE AND FOUND THAT GOD IS THEMSELVES. THEY HAVE LOOKED INTO THE SPIRITUAL MIRROR.
HAVING A DEGREE, EVEN ONE OR MORE DOCTOR DEGREES, IN THE KNOWLEDGE OF LIFE ON EARTH, DOES NOT TRANSLATE INTO SPIRITUAL SALVATION. ONLY RISING THROUGH THE CHAKRAS MEANS EVOLUTION.
WHEN YOU JOIN WITH YOUR GURU, THE GURU LENDS YOU THEIR POWER SO YOU CAN ASCEND THROUGH YOUR CHAKRAS AND FIND YOURSELF, SO YOU CAN BE LIKE THE GURU, WHO HAS FOUND GOD WITHIN HERSELF AND WORSHIPS HERSELF AS GOD.
THIS IS NOT BLASPHEMY, THIS IS TAUGHT BY THE GREAT BUDDHISTS AND YOGIS FROM THOUSANDS OF YEARS.
GOD IS WITHIN, WHEN WE REACH ENLIGHTENMENT WE CONNECT WITH THE GOD WITHIN US.

i feel inside me that the relationship is deeper than all other relations like man and wife, friends or father and son. The wife can live without the husband, and the husband without wife, but with the true guru and disciple, who share a pure love, the notion of duality disappears and a unity takes place. This is not the same type of love that exists between family members, but something much greater and longer lasting. The relationship is neither rational nor emotional, but of a psychic nature. The spiritual interaction between a guru and disciple takes place without any disturbance to the mind and the guru’s presence is always felt. The moment the disciple thinks of the guru, his mind quiets down and communion takes place. The main duty of the guru is to help remove the darkness of avidya (ignorance) by guiding the evolution of the spiritual aspirant. Guru teaches all kinds of physical, psychic and spiritual planes, and helps the disciple to follow the correct path. The duty of the disciple is to serve and obey the guru and to learn from his teachings, gain from his knowledge and so become self-purified.

RASA SAYS: THE GURU IS SENT TO YOU BY GOD, AS GOD, GOD APPEARS IN THE FLESH WHEN YOU FIND A GURU – IF THE GURU IS LIVING. IT IS EXTREMELY RARE TO FIND A GURU ON EARTH, IN THE BODY OF A PERSON. BUT IF YOU ARE SINCERE, IT CAN HAPPEN. BE GRATEFUL. MOST OF MY GURUS WERE DEAD, BUT I DID HAVE TWO THAT WERE LIVING. ONE HAPPENED WAY EARLY IN MY CAREER, IN THE 70′S, THE OTHER WAS LATE IN MY SPIRITUAL CAREER, IN THE 2000′S. BOTH WERE FEMALES, AND THERE WERE STRONG DIFFICULTIES WITH THEM (JEALOUSY FROM THE FIRST, AND GREED, AND THE SECOND, MISUNDERSTANDINGS).
HOWEVER, I LOOKED BEYOND THE FLESH AND TO THE GOD THAT WAS INSIDE THE GURU AND I EVOLVED FROM THEM.

i suggest that a guru is necessary for those people who want to follow the spiritual path and it is important that the relationship is formed correctly. When the guru’s guidance is of a pure nature, the disciple will never fail, unless he leaves the guru due to lack of interest. He may also get discouraged and leave, not understanding the true nature of the guru’s help. The guru watches, instructs and warns his followers in many different ways and on different levels of consciousness. With pure love and constant awareness of his disciples, he is always guiding them.

RASA SAYS:
I DO NOT USUALLY GET PHYSICALLY INVOLVED WITH MY DISCIPLES, BECAUSE THAT WOULD TAKE AWAY FROM MY WORK. I AM A TEACHER. I TEACH BY EXAMPLE AND THROUGH WRITINGS. IF I GOT PHYSICALLY INVOLVED WITH MY DISCPLES IT WOULD EAT UP MY TIME AND ENERGY FOR THE WORK. AFTER ALL, EARTHLY PROBLEMS ARE MULTITUDINOUS, THEY NEVER END. I CANNOT GET INVOLVED.
THE DISCIPLE MUST UNDERSTAND THIS AND LOOK UPON ME LIKE A SAINT IN HEAVEN, TO WHOM HE/SHE PRAYS. THE SAINT DOES GREAT THINGS, BUT SHE IS NOT ON THE EARTH GETTING INVOLVED WITH YOUR PROBLEMS.

Even if the guru is far away, it does not matter. A mother continues caring for her child even if he is on the other side of the world. In the same way the guru’s guidance is both present and necessary at all times.

RASA SAYS:
MOTHER/CHILD RELATIONSHIPS HAVE TO BE PHYSICAL AS WELL AS EMOTIONAL (with small children), AND A HUSBAND/WIFE HAVE TO BE TOGETHER TO MAKE IT WORK (in most cases). BUT THE GURU/DISCIPLE DO NOT HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY PRESENT FOR IT TO WORK; IN FACT, PHYSICAL PRESENCE CAN GUM UP THE WORKS, CAN CONFUSE THE ISSUES, WHEN THE DISCIPLE STARTS LOOKING ON THE GURU IN A PHYSICAL WAY OR THE GURU GETS TOO PHYSICALLY ATTACHED TO THE DISCIPLE.

i am so proud to be Her disciple and She is here to help and to bring the Power, Anointing, Healing, Transformation, Bliss, Blessings, Protection from God Almighty. Her special role has been the Empowerment of Women. i feel so honor that She appeared in my life, i feel a fortunate human being who has God call to me for “the Kingdom of God” – to all great things. i feel more spiritually special and capable. i believe that Rasa is from God and of God, and has the Power of God. i never put any requirements on Her, i dont want to serve her in person (ed: unless she asks?), dont want to live with her nor seek her for physical presence. i respect the Power that is in Guru Rasa, who is from God, not an ordinary person. She is so special, i have to learn many more things on this spiritual journey. My Christmas gift is my submission to Guru Rasa. i want to receive Guru Rasa Power her Anointing as Her disciple. i love Her, my time and attention for Her. i have to read more Her teachings are on the websites and blogs.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone!…..John Alia

RASA SAYS:
THANK YOU JOHN, AND TO ALL MY DISCIPLES, FRIENDS AND ASSOCIATES, LOTS OF LOVE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015!
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First of all, this relationship is your creation, in you learning how to use your God-like power. There can be no failure in this, even if he asserts his own freewill in a negative way and rejects you, there will be many others who will be willing to take his place.

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E MANUEL IS A SPECIAL TREAT FOR CHRISTMAS 2014

E MANUEL IS A SPECIAL TREAT FOR CHRISTMAS 2014

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BEAUTY OF E MANUEL

Yes, he is hooked by drugs and his friends, but he can also be addicted to you, or more correctly, your happiness. His friends are no help to him because if he tells them about his experiences with you, they will disparage it and mock him. (Do not throw your pearls before swine, as they will trample them in the mud).

You are unique because you are more uninhibited than most people and in this state of “letting it go”, you are able to find more happiness and pleasure than most people. (This is why so many people take drugs as this is they only way they can let go, but you do not have to use drugs to do this). This is why you became a star-performer. Great performers, (whether they are entertainers, preachers or politicians) are people who greatly enjoy being the centre of attention and performing, – because the audience feeds off the enjoyment of the performer. So when you were a stripper, the audience thought they were there to see you in the nude. But you added far more to this, because you enjoyed what you were doing and they were unknowingly feeding off your great enjoyment.

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OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

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This is still happening when you go downtown, because you have few inhibitions to being able to enjoy yourself, people around you are feeding off you, when you are happy. So you freely give your gift of happiness and enjoyment to those who are able to receive it.

This then is why your boyfriend can become addicted to you. He and his friends use drugs to find happiness, but he can also find greater happiness being with you. More than that, when you are blissfully happy and you give him your attention, it is to him, like someone shining a spotlight of happiness onto him.

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OLD WOMEN MUST TEACH BOYS LOVE MAKING

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The same is also true when you are in communication with MotherGod. When you are ONE with MotherGod is his presence, then can feel the God-like energy coming through you. So if he was to worship you while you are in this state of mind, then you can truly say he is worshiping a Goddess. As he can feel the spiritual energy come through you.

The barrier between you and him on a deeper level is not drugs, his friends or fear of the unknown, but his own negative thinking. This is also true of many previous young men whom you have attempted to help. It was their negative thoughts that got in the way. Their negative thoughts tell them that happiness is impossible for them and they do not deserve it. So your gift of happiness goes against everything their negative thinking is telling them.

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So to overcome his negative thinking you have to provide him with a step-ladder. Rather than expecting him to leap up to your heights, in one giant leap of faith. He finds the contrast between your very powerful positive thoughts and his negative thinking far too great. Sometimes you come on far too strong for him and he cannot deal with it. So this is why he says or does hurtful things, to dim your happy positive feelings. They sometimes become too strong for him to cope with.

So it would help to tone things down a bit and only slowly introduce him to your greater power. It will help to teach in a way that is easier for him to understand. Although you have gone far beyond femdom, he will find femdom relationships far easier to understand, and easier to relate to, than your spiritual teachings.
So it would be far easier for him if you fit more into mundane popular culture, he is use to, rather than your connection to MotherGod. And only introduce the spiritual later on, bit by bit.

So telling him about your femdom experiences and you wanting a slave will be a lot easier for him to understand. It will also be a lot easier for his friends to understand as well, when he tells them. So although they might warn him against you and make jokes about it, they will be more supportive, as it fits more into their negative thinking about themselves and the world in general. I know you would prefer it if they understood your loving spiritual nature, but it will still be casting pearls before swine. What they choose to think, has nothing to do with you. (Not that you ever allowed what others think, slow you down).

Another advantage of femdom is that he becomes your slave and you make the rules and can make outrageous demands of him. So you are free to have relationships with other men, but he has to remain faithful to you. And that is perfectly acceptable in the femdom world. You can even have your own harem of men, if you want to.

Because of his negative thinking, he can, like some of your previous young men, sabotage the relationship. (He has already tried to do this). So your positive thinking has to be strong and consistent enough, to overcome this. He can only sabotage the relationship in times, when you are thinking negative thoughts. When you keep thinking positively, then it is impossible for him to impose this negativity onto you and sabotage the relationship. (Though he does have freewill, he has no understanding of how to use it and so is at the mercy of the thoughts of those around him).

Your relationship will be based on your joy and happiness. When you are happy, then he is happy and if you are not happy then neither will he be. So he will find himself wanting to keep you happy at all times, so he can also be happy. Even though you do not need him, or anyone else to make you happy, as you are able to do this through your own resources. But in learning to keep you happy, he learns how to love, in much the same way a mother learns about love, in making her children happy.

It is unlikely that you will be content in teaching just one man. Once you have successfully taught him, you will want to do the same for other men. So to do this you will have to teach him how to be happy through his own resources and not depend on you for happiness. So in the end you will have to teach him meditation, to pray and how to let go and let MotherGod.
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KALI KILLS MEN! <> TO STOP THEIR PATRIARCHY

KALI KILLS MEN! <> TO STOP THEIR PATRIARCHY

EXPLANATION OF MALE EXTINCTION THROUGH THE IMAGE OF KALI:

I NEVER UNDERSTOOD KALI, & IN STUDYING HER READ A LOT OF LONG-WINDED STUFF THAT BASICALLY EXPLAINED SHE IS THE GODDESS OF “CREATION & DESTRUCTION.” THAT DID NOT SATISFY ME BECAUSE HER IMAGE IS PURE DESTRUCTION, NO CREATION, & THERE ARE NUMEROUS OTHER IMAGES OF MOTHER GOD THAT BESPEAK CREATION.

HERE IS THE CLUE: DURGA TURNED HERSELF INTO KALI DURING THE BATTLE WITH THE GREATEST DEMON WHO EVER LIVED (SYMBOL OF PATRIARCHY, NAMED MAHISHASURA)…..AT ONE POINT IN HER BATTLE WITH THE DEMONS THIS ONE DEMON SPURTS BLOOD WHEN SHE SPEARS HIM. THE PROBLEM IS EVERY DROP OF BLOOD SPRINGS FORTH A NEW DEMON!

AT THIS POINT DURGA, (WHO IS ONE IMAGE OF MOTHER GOD AS WARRIOR AGAINST GREAT EVIL) TURNS HERSELF INTO KALI, THE FEROCIOUS IMAGE WE KNOW OF. IN THIS FORM SHE LAPS UP THE BLOOD OF THIS DEMON SO NO MORE CAN SPRING FORTH.

CONSIDER HER IMAGE WITH A LONG TONGUE, SALIVATING, GARLANDS OF SKULLS AROUND HER WAIST, STANDING ON SOMEONE KILLING HIM, HOLDING A SWORD HAVING CHOPPED OFF SOMEONE’S HEAD.

WHAT WAS SHOWN ME IS THIS IS THE IMAGE OF MALE EXTINCTION.

 

CONSIDER: EACH DROP OF BLOOD COMING OUT OF THE MALE IS LIKE HIS SPERM. EXTINCTION IS HAPPENING LIKE SO: THE Y CHROMOSOME CANNOT REPAIR ITSELF. (WHEN THIS BEGAN I HAVE YET TO DISCOVER). HOWEVER, THE SPERM COUNTS OF MALES DETERIORATING RAPIDLY IS A RECENT OCCURRENCE (THEY BEGAN REALIZING IT’S EXTENT IN 1992). IT IS BY THE SPERM COUNT DIMINISHING UNTIL THEY CANNOT REPLICATE THEMSELVES ANY MORE THAT MALE EXTINCTION OCCURS.  IN OTHER WORDS, MALES ARE CREATED WHEN THE Y CHROMOSOME IS PASSED ON, WITHOUT THE  CHROMOSOME,  MALES STOP BEING BORN.  THE Y CHROMOSOME IS PASSED ON FROM THE MALE.  (HOWEVER, THIS DOES NOT PREVENT FEMALES FROM REPRODUCING!  THE HUMAN RACE WILL NOT GO EXTINCT.)

FIGURES PROVE THAT IN 1950 THERE WERE ONE MILLION SPERM COUNTS PER ML – OF MALES STUDIED ACROSS THE GLOBE. THIS FELL TO 75 MIL IN 1970 AND 50 MIL IN 1990 – WITHIN 40 YEARS, MALE SPERM HAS DECREASED BY HALF.

DR. BRYAN SYKES SAID THAT BY WAY OF NATURAL OCCURRENCE, THERE WILL BE MUTATIONS OF THE MALE SPERM – REGULARLY – (DUE TO THE BREAKDOWN OF THE Y CHROMOSOME) – AND AS THIS CONTINUES, HE PREDICTS MALE EXTINCTION AROUND 100,000 YEARS, GIVE OR TAKE 25,000.

THE IMAGE OF KALI SPEAKS TO ME THAT MOTHER GOD (OR NATURE AS BRYAN SYKES CALLS IT) IS REMOVING MEN – THIS IS HER WAY OF STOPPING THEM – AN EFFECTIVE MEANS TO BE SURE.

WHAT GAVE ME THE SECOND HINT WAS THE DILEMMA OF MORE AND MORE DEMONS BEING BORN FROM THE BLOOD OF THE DEMON AS IT SPATTERED. THIS I TOOK TO BE THAT NO MATTER WHAT MOTHER GOD DID TO STOP PATRIARCHY, AS MORE AND MORE MALES ARE BORN IT CONTINUES. IT IS MALES WHO STAND FOR PATRIARCHY, MALES WHO MAKE WAR AGAINST MOTHER GOD AND WOMEN. REMOVING MALES IS THE END OF THE PROBLEM. EVERYTHING ELSE HAS BEEN TRIED – AS EXEMPLIFIED BY HER BATTLES.

A THIRD HINT WHAT THIS MYTH IS ABOUT IS “KALI YUGA” – AN EVIL AGE WHOSE ONLY MERCY IS THAT IT’S SHORT. SO KALI YUGA IS THE AGE OF PATRIARCHY, THE AGE MOTHER GOD STOPS THROUGH KALI.

I WILL DO MORE RESEARCH ON THIS IN THE NEXT DAYS, THIS IS THE BEGINNING.

RASA VON WERDER…..5 16 14

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LESBIANS LAUGH AT MEN<> WOMAN POWER ARISES<>!

BUILD UP SELF ESTEEM OF GIRLS

 

WOMEN’S GAYNESS IS A PART OF FEMALE EMPOWERMENT.  THEY SCOFF AT MEN, MAKE THEM FEEL UNIMPORTANT.  THERE ARE, AFTER ALL, ALTERNATIVES TO BEING AT THE MERCY OF MALES, WITH THEIR INFERIOR BRAIN, CRIMINAL, VIOLENT TENDENCIES, DYSFUNCTIONALITY & DISABILITY TO GET ALONG WITH OTHERS.  MEN CAN BE ATROCIOUS, OBNOXIOUS, DISGUSTING, AND PITIFUL.  ONE SOLUTION IS GET RID OF THEM FROM YOUR LIFE – LOVE WOMEN.  I ENVY THOSE THAT CAN DO THAT, I AM FOR THE TIME BEING, DOOMED TO HETEROSEXUALITY.  BUT I AM PUTTING UP WITH LESS BULLSHYT FROM MEN.  (Comment from Rasa, the rest of this article by someone else.  The pics are from a fantastic young woman called “Female Supremacy Now 2″)

How can we expect girls to grow up wanting to be great if they're surrounded by media that celebrate princesses and skinniness? Girls need to know they are more than their body shape and their sex lives. 5. Feed them a healthy diet of feminist films and books  Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness anyway. Good modern options include Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld and The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert, The Heat, and (going back some) Thelma and Louise.

How can we expect girls to grow up wanting to be great if they’re surrounded by media that celebrate princesses and skinniness? Girls need to know they are more than their body shape and their sex lives.
5. Feed them a healthy diet of feminist films and books
Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness anyway. Good modern options include Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld and The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert, The Heat, and (going back some) Thelma and Louise.

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That growing numbers of girls suffer from issues of self-esteem during adolescence – ones that can be carried over into adulthood – is not up for debate. What is debatable is what should be done about this. Sheryl Sandberg, the chief operating officer of Facebook and author of the bestselling feminist-ish book Lean In, has come up with her own typically high-powered and certainly well-intentioned solution: to ban the word “bossy”. “When a little boy asserts himself, he’s called a ‘leader’. Yet when a little girl does the same, she risks being branded ‘bossy’,” she writes.

 You want girls to stop feeling bad about being bossy/commanding? Give them a couple of books to read about or by fabulously bossy women and watch them run. Give the little girls Roald Dahl's Matilda and Kay Thompson's Eloise. Start the teenagers off with Gail Collins' When Everything Changed, so they can get excited about all the cool women in the 20th century who made the world what it is today. Then move on to seminal, smart and angry texts such as Backlash by Susan Faludi and Naomi Wolf's The Beauty Myth. They'll soon learn that not only is feminism more than just hairy armpits and radicalism, but that hairy armpits and radicalism are awesome. Undo the thinking behind "bossy" rather than the word itself. 2. Get impressive kickass women to talk to them


You want girls to stop feeling bad about being bossy/commanding? Give them a couple of books to read about or by fabulously bossy women and watch them run. Give the little girls Roald Dahl’s Matilda and Kay Thompson’s Eloise. Start the teenagers off with Gail Collins’ When Everything Changed, so they can get excited about all the cool women in the 20th century who made the world what it is today. Then move on to seminal, smart and angry texts such as Backlash by Susan Faludi and Naomi Wolf’s The Beauty Myth. They’ll soon learn that not only is feminism more than just hairy armpits and radicalism, but that hairy armpits and radicalism are awesome. Undo the thinking behind “bossy” rather than the word itself.
2. Get impressive kickass women to talk to them

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It will come as a massive surprise to no one to learn that I was called bossy quite a lot as a kid, and still am (although I wouldn’t have to be bossy if people would just bloody well do as I say). Yet it’s never bothered me, mainly because I grew up idolising Miss Piggy and Lucy van Pelt from Peanuts, and never saw bossiness as anything other than a wholly commendable quality. But for those unacquainted with the mighty pig, Sandberg has made a video featuring herself, Condoleezza Rice, Beyoncé and others, arguing that the word “bossy” should be “banned” (in the self-censoring sense, one suspects, as opposed to the, you know, legal one) because it’s a way of telling confident girls to shut up.

Insults are often gendered – in adulthood at least as much as in childhood. Former Secretary of State Madeleine Albright writes about this most pleasingly in her memoir, pointing out that: “If women leaders had acted the way Arafat and Barak did during Camp David, they would have been dismissed as menopausal.” Hillary Clinton was accused of being bossy by none other than Germaine Greer. Most high-profile women have to cope with being called a five-letter word on a regular basis that begins with B, but sure ain’t “bossy”. This is unacceptable, and stupid, and it’s great to have these kinds of gender-specific hypocrisies exposed – but that is different from a ban-worthy hate speech.

WOMEN ARE LEAVING BEHIND THE NOTION THAT THEY MUST HAVE MEN.  CONSIDER THE WORLD'S TOP GENETICIST, DR. BRYAN SYKES, INFORMING US THAT THE Y CHROMOSOME IS CRUMBLING WITH NO CHANCE OF REPAIR, HUMAN MALES ARE GOING EXTINCT.  THEY WERE A GENETIC EVOLUTION EXPERIMENT THAT DID NOT WORK.  INDEED, LOOK WHAT MEN HAVE WROUGHT.  GOOD BYE MEN, HELLO WOMEN AND TWO MOTHER PARENTING.

WOMEN ARE LEAVING BEHIND THE NOTION THAT THEY MUST HAVE MEN. CONSIDER THE WORLD’S TOP GENETICIST, DR. BRYAN SYKES, INFORMING US THAT THE Y CHROMOSOME IS CRUMBLING WITH NO CHANCE OF REPAIR, HUMAN MALES ARE GOING EXTINCT. THEY WERE A GENETIC EVOLUTION EXPERIMENT THAT DID NOT WORK. INDEED, LOOK WHAT MEN HAVE WROUGHT. GOOD BYE MEN, HELLO WOMEN AND TWO MOTHER PARENTING.

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But let’s stick with the kids, seeing as they’re the subject of this campaign and probably more in need of defense than Hillary Clinton. Even if “bossy” could be banned, I’m not certain it would make the kind of difference Sandberg is aiming for here. I was a fan of Lean In when it was published because it is a smart manifesto for a very small demographic, which is more beneficial than a not-very-useful book aimed at everybody. In Lean In, Sandberg aimed to help women like her – educated, wealthy, desirous of being a CEO – achieve their dream. And again, with this campaign, she’s aiming to help little girls who were like her: confident but hurt by the label “bossy”. Yet, in dealing with children and teenagers, she could shoot a little higher here.

I have been giving talks at girls’ secondary schools on a regular basis and have made the obvious if too often overlooked discovery that if you really want to know what adolescent girls need, you should go talk to some adolescent girls rather than rely on memories of yourself at their age. Not once have any of the kids complained to me about being called “bossy”, but they have plenty of other issues. So after talking at several dozen schools, this is what I reckon could be done to improve adolescent girls’ self-esteem:
1. Make feminism part of the national curriculum

You want girls to stop feeling bad about being bossy/commanding? Give them a couple of books to read about or by fabulously bossy women and watch them run. Give the little girls Roald Dahl’s Matilda and Kay Thompson’s Eloise. Start the teenagers off with Gail Collins’ When Everything Changed, so they can get excited about all the cool women in the 20th century who made the world what it is today. Then move on to seminal, smart and angry texts such as Backlash by Susan Faludi and Naomi Wolf’s The Beauty Myth. They’ll soon learn that not only is feminism more than just hairy armpits and radicalism, but that hairy armpits and radicalism are awesome. Undo the thinking behind “bossy” rather than the word itself.
2. Get impressive kickass women to talk to them

When I went to a talk by Kate Adie when I was 13, she showed me that there were more jobs for women in journalism than being the pretty lady who reads the weather. Girls need to see they have more options than they know about.
3. Nutrition should be part of the national curriculum

IT'S A POLITICAL STANCE; WOMEN LOVING WOMEN IS A STEP TOWARD FEMALE EMPOWERMENT, MALE DISEMPOWERMENT.  THEIR ENTIRE WORLD FOCUSES ON THE ABIITY TO OBTAIN WOMEN, THEIR WARS, THEIR VIOLENCE, STEALING, KILLING & DESTROYING ALL BASED ON WANTING THE BIGGEST HAREMS, THE EASIEST WAY OF GETTING TO THE WOMEN.  BUT FOR WOMEN, THE WORLD IS A FAR DIFFERENT PLACE.

IT’S A POLITICAL STANCE; WOMEN LOVING WOMEN IS A STEP TOWARD FEMALE EMPOWERMENT, MALE DISEMPOWERMENT. THEIR ENTIRE WORLD FOCUSES ON THE ABILITY TO OBTAIN WOMEN; THEIR WARS, THEIR VIOLENCE, STEALING, KILLING & DESTROYING ALL BASED ON WANTING THE BIGGEST HAREMS, THE EASIEST WAY OF GETTING TO THE WOMEN. BUT FOR WOMEN, THE WORLD IS A FAR DIFFERENT PLACE.

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Feeding oneself well is a sign of self-respect, so it’s no surprise so many girls don’t. No wonder, really, considering how many stupid messages about dieting they are pummeled with daily from celebrity interviews and the media. Disordered eating is a sign of unhappiness, and then more unhappiness comes from disordered eating. Break the cycle.
4. Ban all newspapers and magazines from the school that talk about diets, celebrity body shapes and sex lives, and Kate Middleton

How can we expect girls to grow up wanting to be great if they’re surrounded by media that celebrate princesses and skinniness? Girls need to know they are more than their body shape and their sex lives.
5. Feed them a healthy diet of feminist films and books

Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness anyway. Good modern options include Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld and The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert, The Heat, and (going back some) Thelma and Louise. Keep Miss Piggy on loop.

How can we expect girls to grow up wanting to be great if they're surrounded by media that celebrate princesses and skinniness? Girls need to know they are more than their body shape and their sex lives. 5. Feed them a healthy diet of feminist films and books  Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness

How can we expect girls to grow up wanting to be great if they’re surrounded by media that celebrate princesses and skinniness? Girls need to know they are more than their body shape and their sex lives.
5. Feed them a healthy diet of feminist films and books
Teach them that there is more to life than the boy, the man and the wedding dress, and that none of those things guarantees happiness

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HOW MALES DESTROY OTHER MALES & THE PLANET

SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION (and many other maladies) ARISE FROM PATRIARCHAL PRACTICES
 
By Guru Rasa Von Werder, 3 26 14
My comments based on the studies of Dr. James W. Prescott, Dr. John Bowlby, Dr. Ashley Montagu, Dr. Dale Glaebach and others.

A GOOD MOTHER IS ALL,  THE SOURCE OF LIFE, THE SYMBOL OF GOD ON EARTH

A GOOD MOTHER IS ALL, THE SOURCE OF LIFE, THE SYMBOL OF GOD ON EARTH

(1)    NO Separation from Mother through infancy, up to age six years old, is best for the infant.  Pre school is BAD, child must be with a LOVING Mother, have intimacy with her.  Intimacy means close physical contact, an infant should have skin-to-skin contact and ROCKING as the Mother CARRIES it.
Child needs sensual/sensory/physical contact with the Mother/ or other Maternal figures (not males due to lack of maternal instinct) in order to grow up normal/natural/ full functional in mental, emotional, physical ways.

(2)  Patriarchs DISTURB the relationship between Mother and child in some cases physically, in other cases, mentally.  In the ancient days of Rome, Greece and Sparta, boys were removed from their mothers at age seven to twelve to dwell with males – for supposed MENTORING.  What males actually did was truncate the BOND between mother and boy and create a SEXUAL BOND with an older man.  Why would this be?  Not only for the sex pleasure of the man, but to divert the NATURAL LOVE the boy has for Mom and older women onto MEN AND OLDER MEN.  When this occurs, the boys are then INFLUENCED, MENTORED and DIRECTED by men into their culture – Patriarchy – the war mentality, the Culture of Death, and of course DEPRIVING them of Mother Love, woman love, Matriarchy, the Culture of Peace, the Culture of Life.  This is how the good in boys is STIFLED and directed into EVIL and misery for the boys and for everyone else that is affected by males -  This of course includes their female partners, as well as the rest of the planet.

The great Dr. James W. Prescott site:

http://www.violence.de/

EMPIRICAL PROOF: love-hunger is stronger than food-hunger.

http://www.violence.de/tv/rockabye.html

THE ORIGINS OF PEACE AND VIOLENCE
Deprivation of Physical Affection as a Main Cause of Depression, Aggression and Drug Abuse
INTRODUCTION SCIENCE POLITICS LINKS
It is generally known (back to medieval or ancient times) that deprivation of sensory stimuli like voice and vision in the early phases of human life will cause irreversible mental retardation in the child. Also the prevention of child play will cause intellectual deficits in the adult. But eyes, ears and the nose are not the only human sensory systems.

Additionally there are the two body sensor systems, the “somatosensors”. One is the vestibular sensor for maintaining orientation and upright walk. The other one is the skin, for sensing touch.

RASA SAYS:
Notice what he just said:  “The other one is the skin, for sensing touch.”
He is explaining here how the infant child must have all these stimulations including THE SKIN, FOR SENSING TOUCH.
This is one of the greatest defects, I observe, in the males when they make love.  They have no idea how to touch or be touched, they are as if zombies or mechanical machines, with a penis, intent on getting it sucked, or masturbating and then humping.  They seem to draw a blank on the art of touch, as if they never heard of such a thing.  This is a symptom of their deficiency in love, that they have not been tutored properly or touched enough by their Moms – and this lack of touch, intimacy is CAUSED BY PATRIARCHY………………………………………………………………………………………….

MOTHER BONDING IS ESSENTIAL FOR PEACE

Through the work of James W. Prescott, Ph.D. and various others until the mid 1970s it was established that these previously neglected senses are of overwhelming importance for the development of social abilities for adult life. Their deprivation in childhood is a major cause for adult violence.

RASA SAYS:  Notice what he just said.  Deprivation of this touching, loving, intimacy with Mom is the major cause of adult violence.  And of course, as we all know, most violence is caused by males.  ……………………………………………………………………..     …………………………….

James W. Prescott, Ph.D., was a health scientist administrator at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), one of the Institutes of the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) from 1966 to 1980. He created and directed the Developmental Behavioral Biology Program at the NICHD where he initiated NICHD supported research programs that documented how the failure of “Mother Love” in infant monkeys adversely affected the biological development of their brains. These astonishing abnormal brain changes underlie the behaviors of depression, impulse dyscontrol and violence that result from mother-infant separations.

RASA SAYS:  People – especially males we notice, are actually BRAIN DAMAGED – THEY HAVE “ASTONISHING ABNORMAL BRAIN CHANGES”     which causes misery for themselves and those who relate to them – all caused by the Patriarchal mother-infant separation!  ………………………………………………………………………………………

CULTURES THAT PUNISH INFANTS OR REPRESS SEXUALITY ARE VIOLENT

These behavioral effects were confirmed in his studies on primitive cultures including the effects of sensory deprivation of human sexual pleasure and affection during adolescence.

RASA SAYS:   Recently was watching “Preacher’s Daughter” reality TV series.  The entire show is based on the Patriarchal parent trying to prevent his daughter from partying and the possibility of having sex.  This corresponds to the global Patriarchal taboo against female sexual freedom – in a study they dug down to the root of fundamentalism and discovered that what it means is CONTROL OF WOMEN (and this of course is firstly sexual control.)  Patriarchy and sexuality means the following:

(1)    Control women to prevent them from having sex with anyone but a husband, so that the husband is tops over the female and knows the children are his.  Make all sex for women outside the marriage taboo.

(2)    This of course, does not apply to men.  They can have sex with anyone – (although it is not written except in Muslim circles) – about a third of Patriarchal males have sex with their children!  One half of females, and a quarter of all boys are molested by their own Dads!

(3)    This repression of female sexuality and female sex during teen years is part of the “double standard.”  Males are sanctioned but rarely regarding sex during their teens – they can’t get pregnant and in the old days, it was hard to hold them accountable for pregnancies.

Dr. James W. Prescott, who studied numerous indigenous tribes, took note that those who kept Patriarchal standards were VIOLENT, but those who did not, were PEACEFUL.
Look at America today – with it’s “Preacher’s Daughter” mentality.  We are the most warmongering country on earth, and we have one of the most extensive prison systems, mostly housing men.  Not saying other countries would not be as violent if they had the power.  I would not like to see the Muslims or Chinese having as much power as America – things could be worse.   ………………………………………………………..

 The results of these scientific studies do not support the many traditional religious and cultural values throughout the world, which deny the importance of “Mothering” and of youth affectional sexual relationships for peaceful and loving behaviors.

RASA SAYS:  Did you notice?  He said fukk these religions which deny the importance of the mother and sexual love between youth.     ……………………………………………………………

The continuation of this research was obstructed and eventually cancelled by the NICHD. Even the existence and results of these NICHD supported research programs was consciously omitted in a recent NIH publication.

RASA SAYS:  Of course they cancelled the studies, because they got what they wanted – they learned that what they are doing breeds violence, and that’s all they had to know.  Keep doing it, to stay in the war mentality, keep breeding the boys for war, as cannon fodder – but don’t tell anyone about it, just keep the studies under our hat.  We want it this way – the more violent, dysfunctional the boys are the better.  God forbid, boys become loving?  Gee whiz, they would love women, settle down, and never go to war!  The world would go to Heaven in a handbasket, no more trillions for the obscenely rich, no more slaves, no more lower class for menial work!  Satan’s kingdom would be truncated and obscured, it would all be over for us!   ………………………………………………………………………

On this web site, you can read the whole story. Here you can read a short history of Dr. Prescott’s research and the full text of the groundbreaking article “Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence”, watch the complete Time Life video documentary Rock A Bye Baby, browse the comprehensive archive of scientific papers and visit related websites from our list of selected links.

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RASA SAYS:  I am doing whatever I can to promote the work of Dr. Prescott.  I published a book which houses a lot of his teachings,
“Breastfeeding is Love Making Between Mother and Child,”
and I speak of him online constantly.     ……………………………………………………………………….

EMPIRICAL PROOF: love-hunger is stronger than food-hunger.

http://www.violence.de/tv/rockabye.html

James W. Prescott (born c. 1930) is an American developmental psychologist,[1] whose research focused on the origins of violence, particularly as it relates to a lack of mother-child bonding.

Prescott was a health scientist administrator at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), one of the Institutes of the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) from 1966 to 1980. He created and directed the Developmental Behavioral Biology Program at the NICHD where he initiated NICHD-supported research programs to study the relationship between mother-child bonding and the development of social abilities in adult life. Inspired by Harry Harlow’s famous experiments on rhesus monkeys, which established a link between neurotic behavior and isolation from a care-giving mother, Prescott further proposed that a key component to development comes from the somesthetic processes (body touch) and vestibular-cerebellar processes (body movement) induced by mother-child interactions, and that deprivation of this stimulation causes brain abnormalities. By analogy to the neurotic behavior in monkeys, he suggested that these developmental abnormalities are a major cause of adult violence amongst humans.

Prescott also served as assistant head of the Psychology Branch of the Office of Naval Research (1963 to 1966) and as president of the Maryland Psychological Association (1970 to 1971). In 1973 he was one of the signers of the Humanist Manifesto.

CIRCUMCISION is PARTIAL CASTRATION!, THE DEMONIC
SURGICAL ABUSE OF OUR INFANT BOYS

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XmX6RdRNoqk

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William Bond & Rasa Von Werder on SEX TODAY

ROOT OF SEX PROBLEMS – WHY MEN ARE NOT PLEASING WOMEN

Rasa Von Werder and William Bond discuss SEX and how women are led astray, men are led astray, that women MUST BE DOMINANT with men if they want good sex.

SHOULD WOMEN BE DOMINANT?  HOW DOMINANT, WHEN DOMINANT?  HOW AGGRESSIVE?  WHEN YES, WHEN NO?  WE HAVE TO WORK IT ALL OUT - NOTHING IS EASY.

SHOULD WOMEN BE DOMINANT? HOW DOMINANT, WHEN DOMINANT? HOW AGGRESSIVE? WHEN YES, WHEN NO? WE HAVE TO WORK IT ALL OUT – NOTHING IS EASY.

Rasa says:
IT’S AMAZING TO ME THAT WOMEN WHO PRETEND TO BE SEMI-VIRGINS PONTIFICATE ON THE WAYS OF SEX……..THEY CLAIM NO EXPERIENCE BUT ARE EXPERTS.
I HAVE ADMITTED THAT I HAVE HAD SEX WITH MANY MALES AND AM NOW HAVING MORE……..I AM GAINING EXPERIENCE AS TO THEIR BEHAVIOR, WHEN I SPEAK, IT IS FROM EXPERIENCE……..ALTHOUGH HARDLY ANY OF THEM HAS A CLUE HOW TO PLEASE A WOMAN – MOST OF THEM DON’T CARE, JUST WANT TO EXIT AFTER THEY ORGASM.  THAT’S WHY I AM ATTEMPTING TO TEACH THROUGH THE WEBSITE, AS THEY HAVE TO LEARN WAY IN ADVANCE, BEFORE SEX, THE PRELIMINARIES TO EVEN BEGIN TO MAKE LOVE.
THEY START WATCHING PORN AGE 11 AVERAGE – THAT IS WHERE THEY GET THEIR SEX EDUCATION.

AT ROOT OF THE SEXUAL PROBLEM – WHY MEN ARE NOT PLEASING WOMEN – IS WHAT I AM BEGINNING TO EXPLAIN ON THE WEBSITE.  THEY DO NOT RESPECT WOMEN, WOMEN DO NOT DEMAND RESPECT, THEY DO NOT LOOK UP TO OR APPRECIATE WOMEN – THEY DO NOT THINK THEY SHOULD PLEASE WOMEN – IT IS NOT MANDATORY, IT IS NOT A NECESSITY……..THEY LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN, THEY FOOL THEM TO SEE WHAT THEY CAN GET, THEY PUSH THEIR WAY INTO WOMEN’S LIVES JUST TO ORGASM, THEN THEY LEAVE.  SOMETIMES THEY STAY WITH A WOMAN, BUT IT ISN’T ALWAYS LOVE, AS YOU KNOW.  AS I SAID IN AN ARTICLE, WHEN MEN LEARN TO LOVE, RESPECT, LOOK UP TO WOMEN, AND WHEN WOMEN LEARN TO LOOK UP TO WOMEN, THEN MEN WILL TREAT THEM IN PROPER WAYS INCLUDING SEXUAL WAYS.

ANNIE OAKLEY SANG, "YOU CAN'T GET A MAN WITH A GUN" - BUT IN A WORLD WHERE WOMEN ARE BECOMING DOMINANT, HOW DO THEY GET HIM?  BY WIELDING POWER, THE WAY MEN USED TO
ANNIE OAKLEY SANG, “YOU CAN’T GET A MAN WITH A GUN” – BUT IN A WORLD WHERE WOMEN ARE BECOMING DOMINANT, HOW DO THEY GET HIM? BY WIELDING POWER, THE WAY MEN USED TO

William Bond says:

According to what Priscilla (a dominatrix author) tells me, women are led astray by reading romantic fiction in the same way men are misinformed by porn.  In romantic stories the hero is an expert in knowing how to love a woman and women who read this stuff, can’t understand why their husbands or lovers are not the same.

Priscilla had a submissive husband and was free to have a string of lovers, mostly younger than herself, so she could teach them how to please her.  She says that men need very clear, simple and direct instructions. There is no point in trying to hint at what you want, or hope he can work it out for himself. Trying to suggest things, only confuse most men.  You need to tell them precisely what you want.

It sounds to me, if the man is in charge the women never gets what she wants.  The only way a woman can get what she wants, sexually, is if she is a dominant woman.  Men don’t respect women because we live in a patriarchal society. Men only respect bossy women and have a contempt for submissive women, it is as simple as that.

RASA SAYS:

WOW.  Words to the wise.  I am trying to apply these words to my experience.
I mostly relate to young males, from 18 to 30.  These boys are college students or models.  It’s a differing experience with each.

DOWNTOWN WITH STUDENTS--BEEN GOING 6 YEARS, DANCING, DATING, YOUNG MALES LOVE OLDER WOMEN BUT THEY ARE SCARED--THEY MUST GET OVER IT, OLD WOMEN ARE DESIGNATED THEIR TEACHERS, MENTORS, TO USHER THEM INTO THE CULTURE OF LIFE (MATRIARCHY)

DOWNTOWN WITH STUDENTS–BEEN GOING 6 YEARS, DANCING, DATING, YOUNG MALES LOVE OLDER WOMEN BUT THEY ARE SCARED–THEY MUST GET OVER IT, OLD WOMEN ARE DESIGNATED THEIR TEACHERS, MENTORS, TO USHER THEM INTO THE CULTURE OF LIFE (MATRIARCHY)

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The college students are seen in the context of a night club downtown.  They surround me, want to dance with me, hold me, sometimes act sexy.  But God help me if I get aggressive, like kissing their arm muscle, they back away in fear (at times), even withdrawing completely and not wanting to come near me again.  They are SCARED.  (They want sex, they are scared when a woman is aggressive, certainly this woman, not sure how they react with college girls—they seem not scared with them.)  Of course, the ones that are extremely DRUNK are not scared and sometimes do more groping than I want – in front of everyone.  (Everyone surrounds me at the club, male and female students – they love me and most of them want to dance with me.)  They almost never ask me to have sex – it does happen – but it is generally a student who is not with a group, a stag or loner, seeking a female.  (Most of the other students appear there in groups.  These are hard to penetrate as far as a relationship, it’s a group mentality, and they stick together, shielding each other from infiltration.)

Maybe it’s good to define what is meant by “domination” and “submission” in the course of these relationships.

From what Priscilla is saying here, it seems to me, have to be direct and strong to the man in what you want, not like a drill sergeant, but in a factual way, say like,
“Would you like to make love?”
(Is that a good or bad thing to say?  Only experience proves it out.  I have had this statement backfire – A LOT.  It seems guys want to get horny before they MAKE A DECISION for sex.  It’s not an intellectual or a logical consideration.  Maybe you have to paw them first, give them a hardon—then they say yes.  Without a hardon, they say no, because their body doesn’t impel them.  They follow their body.  Not very intelligent, is it.)
Or,
“Could you center your tongue on my clitoris and not travel all over the place?  This is the clitoris, I am touching it.”
Being passive would mean DOING NOTHING or chattering about irrelevant things, not saying what you want, too scared to say or do something that makes him know you want to have sex, or if you do sex, too timid to tell him how to do it.
As far as telling the guy how to do sex, that is a real problem.
If you have to explain in the middle of a sex act,
“do this – do that – don’t do this or that”
it becomes mechanical and fake, while the flow of love energy should be relaxed, not dictatorial.  I can picture many situations where it would curtail the flow of what a man is doing – turn him off.
It is not an easy situation, it bears much explanation and practice in real life – like any art or skill, there are many facets.  There is the facet of emotion, underneath creating a painting or making love.  There is the facet of skill, by which one renders a masterpiece of art or turns on another person through love.
We need DETAILS, we need instruction that goes on and on, in many different ways, from all angles, in all situations.
I intend to use this site as a place of teaching men how to make love, and so far, I have spoken mostly about their attitude – that they must love and respect women, and women must feel the same way about themselves to receive it.  But soon I am going to go past that and explain point for point, how to approach the female and give her pleasure.
There is no one easy or simple answer.  This is a thing with many nuances, perspectives, ways of seeing and doing.  One must go into situations, explaining the dating game, the phone game, the camcorder game, the restaurant game, the being in the house alone game, etc., etc.  And then, DO I KNOW ALL THE ANSWERS?  Certainly not!  I can only share what I do know, what I have experienced my opinions, feelings and thoughts, and the channeling to Mother God, asking her to help.

WILLIAM BOND SAYS:

I think it is hard for strong women in a patriarchal society, because if a man approaches her and she then tells him what she wants, and he is not use to this and so backs off.  It is because he is in a situation where doesn’t know what to do, as he has no experience of being with a woman like this.  Whereas if a man has had experience of previously meeting assertive women, then it makes things a lot easier, as he then knows what to expect.

As for giving a man instructions during the sex-act -  Yes it can be off-putting, so perhaps it is something that can be discussed afterwards, so the man then knows what to do next time they have sex. If the man’s ego is hurt by this, then this shows that the man is more interested in his own ego than wanting to give the woman what she wants.  The point is that men are not going to know how to please women unless women tell them what they want. Men are not mind-readers.  They only way they are going to learn is if they are told by women exactly what they like and don’t like.

RASA SAYS:
GOOD REMARKS, WM.  I AM SO EAGER TO BUILD THIS WEBSITE.  IT IS MY NEXT STEP IN DOING WHAT MUST BE DONE TO HELP HUMANITY.  NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD VEER INTO SEX, BUT HERE I AM!

Rasa Von Werder and William Bond, 3  26  14

College of Love Making, College of Matriarchal Love, College of the Gender War

HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN III <> Spanish translation

HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN III  IN SPANISH
thanks to Torki Torki

COMO HACER EL AMOR A UNA MUJER – LECCIÓN III – Lo que los Humanos No Comprenden en lo que Respecta al Amor Sexual
 

Por Guru Rasa Von Werder    3 4 14

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Esto comenzó con una carta sobre mi enésima eliminación del sitio personal en face book.

 

(Hablando a William Bond y amigos)

 

Yo soy la voz de la Madre Dios. Tengo que ESCUCHAR EL MENSAJE para decirlo, tengo que SILENCIAR OTRAS VOCES QUE NO SON RELEVANTES.   Tengo que estar en un lugar que calme, tranquilo para la mente, POR LO MENOS 5 DÍAS A LA SEMANA. William, a entender este principio. La canalización de la Madre Dios – Espíritu – Sabiduría Infinita y Energía requiere MEDITATION, soledad, aislamiento.  Rompo mi aislamiento con la página personal (face book), y no importa lo mucho que diga que no lo haré – lo hago demasiado y me distraigo.

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En este momento Madre Dios quiere que me CONCENTRE en la Encarnación de Dios, no tanto en el correo basura, sino más bien, en la CREACIÓN. En primer lugar crear, a continuación, promover. No digo ninguna promoción, sólo digo menos.

 

¿Qué tiene que suceder aquí? Un milagro de la visión. Este evento requiere la LIBERTAD DE MI MENTE – Tengo que ver, oír y entender NUEVAS COSAS que nadie ha explicado, en relación con la sexualidad.

 

Si hubiera algún lugar en el que pudiera ENCONTRAR las respuestas las recibiría, pero no hay.   Estoy sola en este camino. William, tú eres el único que ayuda con la elaboración de los principios matriarcales. Tu último artículo acerca de cómo los hombres crearon el matrimonio me enseñaron cosas que no estaban claras – lo expresaste tan simple, tan claramente; me abrieron mi mente.

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Ahora hay otro misterio que tengo que resolver, el cual creo que nadie ha explicado. Lo veo vagamente, en partes, en la niebla, pero que debe ser aclarado (creo que puedes ayudar a trabajar en ello). Aquí está la parte que veo:

 

NO PODEMOS ADORAR A DIOS A TRAVÉS DE SEXO HASTA EL MOMENTO EN QUE LOS HOMBRES Y LAS MUJERES RESPETEN A LAS MUJERES. EN ESTOS MOMENTOS NOSOTROS ESTAMO DE ACUERDO, ELLOS NO.

 

HOMBRES:   EN VEZ DE AMAR A LAS MUJERES, DE FACTO ODIÁIS A LASMUJERES, Y LAS MUJERES, DE HECHO, SE ODIAN A SÍ MISMAS  (esto está cambiando con el mantra Woman Thou Art God postulado, muchas están diciendo ahora “¡Yo soy Dios!”). LOS HOMBRES PERSIGUEN A LAS MUJERES PARA CARGARLAS CON UN PESO, PARA USARLAS COMO BASURA RECOGEDORA DE ESPERMA, O PARA LA CRÍA, ELLOS NO AMAN A LAS MUJERES.

 

Los Patriarcas han enseñado los hombres a usar a las mujeres – en pocas palabras.   Hay violación, abuso sexual, tomando de.   Es raro que un hombre realmente AME a una mujer – a veces están “enamorados” en el sentido de la obsesión, fijación, pero no un AMOR INCONDICIONAL Y CON RESPETO, SIN MIRAR POR ENCIMA A LA MUJER.

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Por lo tanto, mi conclusión como portavoz de Madre Dios – Ella está dentro de mí, diciéndome lo que es la Verdad, lo siguiente:

 

“Los hombres deben sentir amor por la mujer antes de que puedan adorar al Dios Todopoderoso a través de ella. No pueden seguir mirándola por encima a través de los ojos patriarcales, tienen que renunciar a todas las mentiras que les han sido enseñadas, y recibir las formas matriarcales de la vida y del amor; deben asumir la Cultura de la Vida y renunciar a la Cultura de la Muerte.

 

Es un BAUTISMO, donde renunciáis a todas las mentiras de Satanás y todas sus obras, y todas sus pretensiones, y entonces, siendo limpiados de ese pecado, rindiendo tu voluntad al Matriarcado, eres bautizado y ungido en nuevas aguas.

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Mientras los hombres amen el Patriarcado, lo acepten, vivan de acuerdo con sus reglas, no pueden amar a las mujeres, no pueden adorar a la Madre Dios de la manera que Ella quiere. De hecho, no pueden amar a nadie ni a nada, no pueden amar la vida – pueden amar la tiranía, la explotación, la mentira, el robo, la tortura y el asesinato, pero no pueden amar a Dios si siguen siendo patriarcales. El Matriarcado y el Patriarcado son opuestos. Uno de ellos ama a Dios, el otro ama a Satanás, no se puede servir a dos señores”.

 

Ahora eso plantea la pregunta ¿qué es Satanás, qué es Dios?

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Dios es la Verdad, la Belleza, el Amor, el Poder Infinito, Dios es bueno en todo y quiere el bien de todos. Dios lo sabe todo, lo ve todo y lo puede todo. Dios quiere que todos seamos felices, encontrar la satisfacción y el éxito aquí en la tierra (aunque a menudo nos encontramos con karmas de castigo o desafíos) y la alegría para toda la eternidad.

 

¿Qué es Satanás? ¿De dónde viene? Creo que Satanás y sus fuerzas, y sus demonios, vienen del yo inferior, cuando los seres humanos no son redimidos, o cuando han entregado una parte de sí mismos a bajas energías. Satán o los demonios provienen de la identificación – el instinto natural más bajo, y esta identificación crea energías, entidades, esa casa en el interior de un ser, que puede ser sacada fuera, que puede existir como fantasmas después de que la persona muera.

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La identidad no tiene conciencia, como un bebé que grita por lo que quiere, la identidad no tiene una concepción de mí ni de ti, es sólo el yo, lo que yo quiero, lo yo que necesito. La gente crece más allá de la identificación, reconociendo que hay otros con necesidades similares.   A los que no lo hacen, se les llama SOCIÓPATAS.   Sigmund Freud así lo creía (categorizando la identidad, el yo y el super-yo como partes de nuestra personalidad). Llegué a la misma conclusión, no de él (ni siquiera sabía su POV hasta hace poco), pero a partir del estudio y la observación de lo que son los demonios (como ministro y exorcista de muchos años), y de cómo se comportan los hombres. Llegué a la conclusión de que la mayoría de los demonios vienen desde el interior de los hombres – que ellos despliegan por todo el mundo, – y que muchos hombres y algunas mujeres adoran a los demonios de manera interna y externa (se sabe que el Gobierno de la Sombra, reúne a illuminati en lugares como Bohemian Grove, cerca de San Francisco , para decidir el destino político de la humanidad.  Ellos eligen, por un lado, en sus falsas elecciones, quién será el próximo presidente de los Estados Unidos. El principal ritual de estas personas es un culto al demonio dios Moloc, la ceremonia de cremación del cuidado, que algunos creen consiste en un niño vivo que se quema para el demonio).

 

Los hombres tienen que, por lo tanto, renunciar al Patriarcado, y todas sus mentiras y pretensiones (en otro nivel, aunque las mujeres son sus víctimas, también deben renunciar patriarcado con sus delirios).

 

Con los hombres, tienen que renunciar a su soberbia sobre las mujeres; con las mujeres, su humildad ante los hombres – que es todo lo contrario.

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En cuanto a las mujeres:   He visto donde los esclavos a veces repiten las palabras de sus amos, desaprobándose a sí mismos; se les ha lavado el cerebro para pensar poco de sí mismos (o por lo menos hablar o actuar de esa manera). Personas maltratadas que desarrollan una pérdida de la autoestima o la confianza – esto va para cualquier persona, esclavo o libre, hombre o mujer. El auto desprecio, la falta de respeto de uno mismo, el auto odio, son destructivos.

 

Por lo tanto, estoy diciendo, aquellos que tienen las cabezas muy altas por encima de los demás, tiranizándolos, tienen que bajar sus cabezas.  Aquellos que se tienen de sí mismos por demasiado inferiores debe levantarse y reclamar su divinidad, nadie debe ser esclavo o tirano, todos somos Dios por Naturaleza (hay algunos matices a esto, sin embargo. Como una madre tiene autoridad sobre su hijo, una mujer la tiene sobre el hombre, por naturaleza, esto no significa tiranía, sino benevolencia, no somos iguales todos en todos los sentidos, pero que deberíamos ser iguales ante la ley e iguales en la oportunidad para el amor y la felicidad).

 

LAS MUJERES DEBEN CREER EN SU GRAN DIOS INTERIOR

 

La razón por la que la mujer también debe creer en la adoración de Dios por medio de su cuerpo es que en el caso de que un hombre quiera hacerlo sinceramente, si la mujer no puede recibirlo, ¿cómo puede funcionar?

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La mujer debe creer, para que este momento, ser armoniosa y santa,

 

“Soy un Dios mujer. Como tal, merezco el homenaje y el amor. Soy Shakti, el Dios principal, o su símbolo, o incluso su encarnación.  El hombre que ahora quiera adorar a este gran Shakti, o Dios Todopoderoso, y sea sincero, voy a recibirlo.”

 

Ahora bien, si una mujer no destella que ella tiene a Dios dentro o simboliza a Dios, o que es la Encarnación del Todopoderoso, entonces no es un recipiente apropiado para la adoración; el ritual del amor no está a la altura de lo que podría ser. No digo que tenga que estar falto de amor o que sea estridente, ni digo que no pueda ser agradable o dichoso; simplemente, se queda corto para una Ceremonia Sagrada.

 

El amor hacer completamente perfectos, tanto al hombre como a la mujer y la mujer debe tener el Espíritu de Dios dentro de ellos, y ser conscientes de que Dios está en ambos, y esto ayuda aún más si ambos ven que el Dios Shakti es superior, el Dios Shiva es auxiliar, entonces esto – en nuestra religión llamada Shaktismo y Advaita, es un perfecto acto de hacer el amor.

 

Considera esto – que el hombre no tenga el Espíritu de Dios. ¿Puede entonces adorar a Dios? Por supuesto que no. El hombre que no ha tenido la experiencia de “nacer de nuevo”, donde el Espíritu de Dios despierta en él, no tiene amor. Por lo tanto, uno que no tiene amor, no puede dar amor, su “hacer el amor” es sólo una descarga física, incluso si es un crack, pero la energía es del yo inferior.  Esta es la definición de la lujuria. Los que tienen lujuria no tienen compasión o empatía, se limitan a buscar socios para una experiencia física, y esto incluye todas las experiencias de abuso sexual.

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Pero un hombre que ha nacido de nuevo, tiene el Espíritu de Dios dentro de él, también tiene la compasión y la empatía, tiene la virtud, se preocupa por su pareja. Esto no significa que él se suscriba a una falsa moral patriarcal, que sea mojigato o reprimido en su moral (pocos son los hombres, a pesar de que son fuertes en la hipocresía), como siguiendo una docena de reglas que le hagan un “buen chico” o uno malo. Nuestra religión no suscribe la monogamia como una regla.   Si usted la quiere, la tiene, pero no se exige en nuestro Catecismo, sí la compasión.

 

Ahora sobre las mujeres. En nuestra moral, las mujeres no deben usar a los hombres al igual que los hombres no deben usar a las mujeres.  Las mujeres han tenido que usar a los hombres en el pasado, debido a las leyes y costumbres injustas que las hizo víctimas de la economía de los hombres – ellas tuvieron que pasar por el aro para conseguir hombres, especialmente los hombres ricos por el dinero. Tal cosa hay cooperando con este sistema, otra cosa es estafar o engañar a alguien.

 

Nuestras costumbres no son las costumbres patriarcales, forzando el matrimonio y la fidelidad en las mujeres. Obedeceremos a una época en la que el sexo era libre, cuando no existía el matrimonio, cuando nadie se preocupaba por la paternidad, cuando los recursos, la autoridad y la seguridad estaban en manos de la Madre. Puede haber algunas concesiones aquí y allá a los tiempos modernos, pero siempre estirando hacia atrás, hacia el antiguo Matriarcado y del modo en que veían las cosas.

 

La conclusión es que el patriarcado ha metido la pata y ha retorcido toda la idea de hacer el amor y el sexo. Lo han confundido y distorsionado.  Gritan cuán pecador es todo esto y luego producen pornografía patriarcal, donde se les paga a los hombres a actuar como subhumanos, donde se les paga a las mujeres a cooperar,   y la mayoría de los hombres, que son ahora adictos a la basura, se ven influidos por ella.

 

Pensar acerca de la moralidad según han explicado patriarcas es reflexionar sobre la represión sexual de las mujeres y la aprobación de los crímenes masculinos hacia otros.   Esta no es nuestra moralidad, mujeres reprimidas, hombres exonerados por violación y abuso de menores.

 

Nuestra moral es que el sexo fue creado para el amor. Uno nunca violaría, o abusaría, o utilizaría al otro.   El cuerpo puede ser utilizado para todo tipo de cosas, buenas y malas. En el caso del sexo, cuando el amor está en él, incluso por una hora (no somos patriarcas, no exigimos relaciones de por vida), entonces es según Dios. Pero para dar amor, uno tiene que tener amor, no sólo trabajando fuera del Muladhara.

 

Las glándulas sexuales, – vagina, clítoris, pene, están hechos pars el placer.   La mayoría de las terminaciones nerviosas del cuerpo se alojan allí.  Hay una razón para esto – es la de sentirse bien, para nosotros mismos y nuestros compañeros. Incluso si no se es espiritual y no tiene amor, el sexo dinamiza el alivio y las hormonas del bienestar. No hay una ley espiritual o razón por la cual las personas no deben tener relaciones sexuales, incluso si permanecen en los chakras inferiores. Sólo estamos diciendo que “hacer el amor para adorar a Dios” es un nivel especial, que es de lo que trata este sitio web. Esto no es pornografía, esto es el culto de la Madre Dios a través del cuerpo y a través de toda la Naturaleza.

Cuando decimos: “Cómo hacer el amor a una mujer” queremos decir el amor espiritual / físico, el más profundo, el más verdadero, el amor completo, el que cubre todas las necesidades del cuerpo humano, de la psique y del alma.

 

En particular, estamos fuera del modo en que los niños han sido entrenados para ODIAR A LAS MUJERES de facto y mostrar algo de este odio a través del sexo. Estamos diciendo que necesitamos que los jóvenes varones nos amen, y que para amarnos, tienen que dejar de odiarnos. Las mujeres, en particular, somos extremadamente sensibles, y la mayoría de ellas amán más a los hombres que al revés – sin duda mucho después los hombres han sido entrenados para convertirse en muertos vivientes.

 

Con el fin de hacer el amor a una mujer, tienes que sentir amor, incluso si no eres un perito espiritual, debes querer tomar ese camino.   Las mujeres necesitan ternura, empatía, necesitan que se les toque, ser acariciadas, masajeadas, besadas, interpeladas, necesitan de palabras amables y dulces pensamientos.

 

A los niños no se les enseña esto en el patriarcado. La lección tres es que si quieres hacer el amor con una mujer, renuncia a las formas patriarcales, preocúpate por la mujer, y ese será el comienzo.   Si te preocupas por ella, pensarás en sus necesidades. No es todo un mete y saca – eso no es suficiente.   Aprende a ser gentil, acaríciala de manera que le toques sólo los pelos de su brazo, sin andar a tientas, agarrándola, saltando sobre ella como un conejo o acostado mientras todo lo que sucede está su servicio. Crece, ser un hombre es amar.

 

Guru Rasa Von Werder    3 4 14

College of Love Making, College of the Gender War, Core Tenets

HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN <> LESSON III

HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN – LESSON III – What Humans Do Not Comprehend Regarding Sexual Love

By Guru Rasa Von Werder   3 4 14

This began with a letter concerning my umpteenth deletion of personal site on face book

(Speaking to William Bond and friends)

If I am her Voice, if I let her speak through me, I must concentrate on Mother God.  I must tune out the voices that are irrelevant.  She is first and foremost, if I am to represent her.
If I am her Voice, if I let her speak through me, I must concentrate on Mother God. I must tune out the voices that are irrelevant. She is first and foremost, if I am to represent her.

I am a Voice of Mother God.  I have to HEAR THE MESSAGE in order to say it, I have to SILENCE OTHER VOICES THAT ARE NOT RELEVENT.  I have to be in a still, quiet place mentally, AT LEAST 5 DAYS A WEEK.  William, you understand this principal.  Channeling Mother God – Spirit – Infinite Wisdom and Energy requires MEDITATION, solitude, isolation.  I break my isolation with the personal page (face book), and no matter how much I say I won’t – I do too much and I get distracted.

Right now Mother God wants me to CONCENTRATE on Embodiment of God, not so much advertising but rather, CREATING.  First create, then promote.  Not saying no promotion, just saying less.

What has to happen here?  A miracle of vision.  This event requires the FREEDOM OF MY MIND – I must see, hear and understand NEW THINGS that no one has explained, regarding SEXUALITY.

If there was some place I could FIND the answers I would receive them, but there isn’t.  I am alone on this path.  William, you are the only one that does help with the working out of Matriarchal tenets.  Your last article about how men created marriage taught me things that were not clear – you expressed it so simply, so plainly; it opened my mind.

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Now there is another mystery that I must unlock which I don’t believe anyone has explained.  I see it dimly, in parts, in a fog, but it must be clarified, (I believe you can help in working it out.)  Here is the part that I see:

WE CANNOT WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX UNTIL THE TIME THAT MEN AND WOMEN RESPECT WOMEN.  RIGHT NOW AS WE BOTH AGREE, THEY DO NOT.

MEN:  INSTEAD OF LOVING WOMEN, DE FACTO HATE WOMEN, AND WOMEN DE FACTO HATE THEMSELVES.  (This is changing with the mantra Woman Thou Art God posited, many are now saying, “I am God!)  MEN PURSUE WOMEN TO DUMP A LOAD, USE THEM AS GARBAGE DISPOSALS FOR SPERM; OR BREEDING, THEY DO NOT LOVE WOMEN.

The Patriarchs have taught males to use women – simply put.  There is rape, molestation, taking from.  Rarely does a man actually LOVE a woman – sometimes they are “in love” in the sense of obsession, fixation, but not LOVING UNCONDITIONALLY AND WITH RESPECT, NOT LOOKING UP TO WOMEN.

to make love to a woman properly there has to be love, and since God is love, one must love God, desire without love is called lust
to make love to a woman properly there has to be love, and since God is love, one must love God, desire without love is called lust

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Therefore, my conclusion as the Voice of Mother God – She being inside me, telling me what Truth is, is the following,

“Men must feel love for the woman before they can worship the Almighty God through her.  They cannot continue looking down on her through Patriarchal eyes, they must give up every lie they have been taught, and receive the Matriarchal ways of life and love; they must take up the Culture of Life and give up the Culture of Death.

It is a BAPTISM, where you give up all the lies of Satan, and all his works, and all his pretensions, and then, being cleansed of that sin, surrendering your will to Matriarchy, you are baptized and anointed in new waters.

As long as men love Patriarchy, accept it, live by its rules, they cannot love women, they cannot worship Mother God in the way She wants.  In fact, they cannot love anyone or anything, they cannot love life, – They can love tyranny, exploitation, lying, stealing, torture and murder, but they cannot love God if they remain Patriarchal.  Matriarchy and Patriarchy are opposites.  One of them loves God, the other loves Satan, you cannot serve two masters.”

Now that begs the question of what is Satan, what is God?

God is Truth, Beauty, Love, Infinite Power; God is all good and wants the good of all.  God knows all, sees all and can do all things.  God wants us all to be happy, find fulfillment and success here on earth (even though we often meet with punishing karmas or challenges) and joy in all eternity.

Men must be taught in the beginning, when they are young, how to make love to a woman.  It is the place of the older women to teach them, but of course, patriarchy makes that a taboo.  In the absence of old women teaching them, who does so?  The old men - with dire consequences.
Men must be taught in the beginning, when they are young, how to make love to a woman. It is the place of the older women to teach them, but of course, patriarchy makes that a taboo. In the absence of old women teaching them, who does so? The old men – with dire consequences.

What is Satan?  Where does he come from?  I believe Satan and his forces, and his demons, come from the lower self, when humans are not redeemed, or when they have given over some part of themselves to lower energies.  Satan or demons come from the ID – the natural lower instinct, and this ID creates energies, entities, that house inside a being, that can be sent out, that can exist after the person is dead as hauntings.

The ID has no conscience, like a baby that screams for what it wants, the ID has no conception of me and thee, it’s only me and what I want, I need.  People grow up past the ID, recognizing that there are others with similar needs.  Those who do not are called SOCIOPATHS.  Sigmund Freud believed this way, (categorizing the ID, the ego and the superego as parts of our personality.) I came to the same conclusion not from him (did not even know his POV until recently) but from study and observation what demons are (as a minister and exorcist of many years), and of how men behave.  I concluded that most of the demons come from inside men – that they deployed them all over the world, and that many men and a few women worship demons in inner and outer ways.  (It is known that the Shadow Govt., illuminati people meet in places like Bohemian Grove, near San Francisco, to decide the political fate of humanity.  They choose, for one thing, in their false elections, who will be the next president of the United States.  The main ritual of these people is a worship to the demon God Molech, the cremation of care ceremony, which some believe is a live infant that is burned to the demon.)

Men have to, therefore, relinquish Patriarchy, and all its lies and pretensions.  (On another level, although women are its victims, they must also give up Patriarchy with its delusions.)

If I want a man to love me as the Embodiment of God, I must first believe it is true.  There is little chance he will believe in me that way if I don't believe in myself.
If I want a man to love me as the Embodiment of God, I must first believe it is true. There is little chance he will believe in me that way if I don’t believe in myself.

With men, they must give up their pride over women, with women, their humility before men – it is the opposite.

Regarding women:  I have seen where slaves sometimes repeat the words of their masters, deprecating themselves; they have been brainwashed to think little of themselves (or at least speak or act that way).  Abused people develop loss of self esteem, or confidence, – this goes for anyone, slave or free, male or female.  Self deprecation, lack of self respect, self hatred, are destructive.

Therefore, I am saying, those who hold their heads too high above others, tyrannizing them, must lower their heads.  Those who hold themselves too low must rise up and claim their God-hood, no one should be slave or tyrant, we are all God in Nature.  (There are some nuances to this, however, such as a Mother has authority over her child, a woman over a man, by nature, this does not mean tyranny but benevolence, we are not all equals in every way, but we should be equals under the law and equals in the chance for love and happiness.)

Why don't boys and men believe in women as symbols and embodiments of God?  Because their religion is twisted - they have been brainwashed to believe many falsities.  One is that God created us and went away.  Second is that women are not as great as men, that the only Son of God was a man, or that all priests and spiritual potentates are men.  These dastardly lies, along with the Patriarchal teachings within pornography and media, have males totally twisted up regarding women.  How can they properly make love to them, believing these lies?
Why don’t boys and men believe in women as symbols and embodiments of God? Because their religion is twisted – they have been brainwashed to believe many falsities. One is that God created us and went away. Second is that women are not as great as men, that the only Son of God was a man, or that all priests and spiritual potentates are men. These dastardly lies, along with the Patriarchal teachings within pornography and media, have males totally twisted up regarding women. How can they properly make love to them, believing these lies?

WOMEN MUST BELIEVE IN THEIR GREAT GOD WITHIN

The reason that the woman must also believe in the worship of God through her body is that in the event a male sincerely wants to do so, if the woman cannot receive it, how can it work?

The female must believe, for this event to be harmonious and holy,

“I am a God woman.  I deserve homage and love as such.  I am Shakti, the main God, or her symbol, or even her embodiment.  The man now wants to worship this great Shakti, or Almighty God, and he is sincere, and I am going to receive it.”

Men must be taught how to kiss a woman all over her body.  Why is it that we woman are giving them so many blow jobs, but we get so little touch and affection?  Because they have not been taught properly, from the beginning, by older women.
Men must be taught how to kiss a woman all over her body. Why is it that we woman are giving them so many blow jobs, but we get so little touch and affection?  Because they have not been taught properly, from the beginning, by older women.

Now if a woman has no glint that she is God within, or symbolizes God, or is the Embodiment of the Almighty, then she is not a fitting receptacle for this adoration; the ritual of love falls short of what it could be.  Not saying it has to be an unloving or harsh, not saying it cannot be pleasant or blissful, it simply falls short of a Sacred Ceremony.

For the love making to be completely perfect, both the male and the female must have the Spirit of God within them, and be aware that God is in both, and it helps even more if they both see the Shakti God is superior, the Shiva God is auxiliary, then this – in our religion called Shaktism and Advaita, is a perfect love-making act.

What does pornography (created by old men) teach our boys?  To use, degrade and punish women through sex.
What does pornography (created by old men) teach our boys? To use, degrade and punish women through sex.

Consider this – that the man is not in the Spirit of God.  Can he then worship God?  Certainly not.  The man who has not had the “born again” experience, where the Spirit of God awakens in him, does not have love.  Therefore, one who does not have love, cannot give love, his “love making” is only a physical discharge, even if he may be skillful, but the energy is of the lower self.  This is the definition of lust.  Those who have lust have no compassion or empathy, they merely seek partners for a physical experience, and this includes all the abusive experiences of sex.

But a man who is born again, has the Spirit of God within him, also has compassion and empathy, he has virtue, he cares about his partner.  This does not mean he subscribes to a false morality of patriarchy, is prudish or repressed in his morals (few men are, although they are strong in hypocrisy), like following a dozen rules makes him a “good boy” or a bad one.  Our religion does not subscribe to monogamy as a rule.  If you want it, have it, but it is not demanded in our Catechism, compassion is.

There is too much worry on what he wants, not enough on what we want.  We want to be caressed, massaged, kissed, given oral, humped with feelings.  The way you look at us, treat us all day, at dinner, the attention, the kindness, this is all a part of foreplay.  Think about us, not yourself  for a change.
There is too much worry on what he wants, not enough on what we want. We want to be caressed, massaged, kissed, given oral, humped with feelings. The way you look at us, treat us all day, at dinner, the attention, the kindness, this is all a part of foreplay. Think about us, not yourself for a change.

Now about women.  In our morals, women should not use men just as men should not use women.  Women have had to use men in the past, because unjust laws and customs made them victims of male economics – they had to jump through hoops to get men, especially rich men, for money.  There is such a thing as cooperating with this system but another thing to con or deceive someone.

Our morals are not patriarchal morals, forcing marriage and faithfulness on women.  We hearken back to a time when sex was free, when there was no marriage, when no one cared about paternity, as resources, status and security were in the hands of Mother.  There might be some concessions here and there to modern times, but we always stretch backward to ancient Matriarchs and how they would see things.

Women like to have their feet kissed and rubbed, legs also, their whole body.  Some women like one body part attended to a lot - you have to ask to see what she likes - so ask.
Women like to have their feet kissed and rubbed, legs also, their whole body. Some women like one body part attended to a lot – you have to ask to see what she likes – so ask.

The bottom line is, patriarchy has screwed up and twisted the whole idea of making love, and sex.  They have confused and distorted it.  They scream how sinful it all is, then they produce patriarchal pornography where men are paid to act as subhumans, where women are paid to cooperate,  and the majority of males, who are now addicted to the trash, are influenced by it.

To think abut morality as explained by patriarchs is to ponder sexual repression of women and approval of male crimes toward others.  This is not our morality, women repressed, men exonerated for rape and child abuse.

Our morality is that sex was created for love.  One would never rape, or abuse, or use another.  The body can be used for all sorts of things, bad and good.  In the case of sex, when love is in it, even for one hour (we are not patriarchs, we do not demand lifetime relationships) then it is Godly.  But to give love, one has to have love, not just working out of the Muladhara.

Please see my book, "Old Woman - Young Man, Why They Belong Together."  For one thing, we guide, mentor males into the Culture of Life which includes the art of making love.  Men are lost without us - this world is lost.
Please see my book, “Old Woman – Young Man, Why They Belong Together.” For one thing, we guide, mentor males into the Culture of Life which includes the art of making love. Men are lost without us – this world is lost.

The sex glands, – vagina, clitoris, penis, are made for pleasure.  Most of the nerve endings of the body are housed there.  There is a reason for this – it is to feel good, for ourselves and partners.  Even if people are not spiritual and have no love, sex brings relief and feel-good hormones.  There is no spiritual law or reason why people should not have sex even if it remains on the lower chakras. We are just saying that “love making to worship God” is a special level, what this website is about.  This is not pornography, this is worship of Mother God through the body and through all of Nature.

When we say, “How to Make Love to a Woman” we mean spiritual / physical love, the deepest, truest, complete love, that covers all the needs of the human body, psyche and soul.

In particular, we are off-setting the way boys have been trained to de facto HATE WOMEN and show some of this hate through sex.  We are saying we need the young males to love us, and to love us, they have to stop hating us.  Women, in particular, are extremely sensitive, and most of them are more loving than are men – certainly so after males have been trained to turn zombie.

In order to make love to a woman you have to feel love, even if you are not a spiritual proficient, you have to want to take that path.  Women need tenderness, empathy, they need to have their skin touched, caressed, massaged, kissed, oral, they need kind words and sweet thoughts.

Boys are not taught this in patriarchy.  Lesson three is that if you want to make love to a woman, give up patriarchal ways, care about the woman, and that will be the beginning.  If you care about her, you will think about her needs.  It isn’t all you, the blow and hump, – that doesn’t cut it.  Learn to be gentle, caress so that you touch only the hairs on her arm, no groping, grabbing, jumping on her like a rabbit or lying there while all that happens is her service.  Grow up, to be a man is to love.

Guru Rasa Von Werder   3 4 14

College of Love Making, SHAKTI AND SHIVA, TANTRA SEX, Shrine to Shakti

YOU CANNOT ESCAPE DERRICK <> WITHOUT AN ORGASM

You Cannot Escape Derrick Without an Orgasm

From GuruRasa  3  6  12

Excerpt from my forthcoming book, “The Gods of Sex”

How do I know?  He checks your pulse.

He reads everything he can get his hands on regarding sex, from pimp books to Tantra.  He was readying to me from books for years.  Energy Karezza was his topic when he got me interested - I took notes - This was partly responsible for my looking up Shaktism and employing it as a basis for this site.

He reads everything he can get his hands on regarding sex, from pimp books to Tantra. He was readying to me from books for years. Energy Karezza was his topic when he got me interested – I took notes – This was partly responsible for my looking up Shaktism and employing it as a basis for this site.

Of course, a lot goes on between meeting the darling & the pulse checking.  Let’s begin here:

How to Talk on the Phone With Women From the Dating
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First, he teaches me, he does not deal with “10”s.  They are too hard to manage; arrogant, full of themselves, you can’t control them.  He contents himself with “7”s although he himself is “10” – the “7”s are most likely to do as they are told.  (That is the important thing, do as they are told.  You need a steady supply of love / sex with the women; it’s not a beauty contest.  He likes them fit & attractive, curvy, maybe a few pounds extra, slim but nice.  No fatties, no skeletons, body first, face second, they must be compliant.  They go through rigorous interviews to see if they’re Derrick material.)

He always has at least three steady women at a time - because he knows how to please them - And he WORKS AT IT.

He always has at least three steady women at a time – because he knows how to please them – And he WORKS AT IT.

Main thing to find out is IF SHE’S WILLING TO HAVE SEX RIGHT AWAY.  You don’t want those broads that make you grow a beard before they make you grow.

Ask her the following,
“When’s the last time you had a relationship?”
(If she just broke up might not be good material.)
“Have you been dating?”
(If no, she might not give it up.)
“When’s the last time you were intimate?”
(If it was yesterday, you have a good chance.  If it was a year ago, ditto, haha.  The main thing is whether she does it or not.)

He is so smooth he skates, on an Olympic Gold Medal level.  Seduction to him is a Science.

He is so smooth he skates, on an Olympic Gold Medal level. Seduction to him is a Science.

When you get the ones on the phone that you like:  Be sure to get off the phone first.  Have her call you back at a specific time.  Don’t talk too long, as more than ten minutes is the kiss of death.  You have to remove yourself so she can talk to more men & you to more women.

If she doesn’t call you back at the time stated, it’s over.  She will not reciprocate in a relationship.

You must try to determine by phone HOW SHE LOOKS NAKED.

Perhaps the great secret of his success is HE DOES NOT MASTURBATE and HE NEVER LOOKS AT PORN

Perhaps the great secret of his success is HE DOES NOT MASTURBATE and HE NEVER LOOKS AT PORN

WHEN TO SAY “NEXT” & MOVE ON

What to talk about:
If they don’t want to talk about sex, means they don’t like sex – pass – Women who like sex want to do it right away.
You can introduce the topic of sex like so:  Tell her you had a naughty dream about her.  If she does NOT want to hear it………. NEXT.  (next woman, she isn’t into sex or you.)
You can also ask her,
“Have you ever had a naughty thought of us together?”
And she says,
“No, I’m not THAT KIND OF A WOMAN”……….NEXT.
Then if she’s friendly, ask,
“Have you played with yourself thinking of us?”
If she says yes, you’ve got it made.  If she’s playing with herself thinking of you, she’s ready to have sex with you.
Be INNOCENT (benign) in your questions.
“Did you service yourself?  Did you do something about it?  How about us getting together and serving each other?”

I have never met anyone so analytical in trying to figure out what to say, when to say it, what to do, how to do it, regarding relationships.  What he says works and any Lothario that wants lots of women and sex would be wise to hear this.

I have never met anyone so analytical in trying to figure out what to say, when to say it, what to do, how to do it, regarding relationships. What he says works and any Lothario that wants lots of women and sex would be wise to hear this.

Guys usually think in GROSS terms – porno – which turns women off:
“Do you wanna fuck?  Suck my dick?”
Men are too hot or too cold.  Make it WARM, put it in the MIDDLE.
Talk about her sex fantasy:
“Were you naked?  Did I kiss you on the neck?”
Ease into it ROMANTICALLY.  Women are sensitive.

He works at looking good - muscles, grooming, clothes, cars.  He spends money on the women but he doesn't throw it away.  As he got more experienced he let them take some share in the expenses, but he always does his share and more.  He is not a user.  He just wants a lot of women and a lot of sex.  He's HONEST about it.  And his methods WORK.

He works at looking good – muscles, grooming, clothes, cars. He spends money on the women but he doesn’t throw it away. As he got more experienced he let them take some share in the expenses, but he always does his share and more. He is not a user. He just wants a lot of women and a lot of sex. He’s HONEST about it. And his methods WORK.

BEFORE YOU MEET HER

You must talk about sex but in a romantic, not pornographic way.  Ask questions:
“What positions do you like?”
“Do you ever fake it?  I don’t want you to fake it.”
There is MENTAL FOREPLAY.
Be careful what kind of words you use, like cunt & bitch – not to turn them off.  You don’t want her to think of you as a PERVERT.  (He defines pervert as a selfish man who only thinks of his orgasm & not the woman’s pleasure.)

He has a great gift for gab; sometimes he talks my leg off.  But I could never talk his leg off.

He has a great gift for gab; sometimes he talks my leg off. But I could never talk his leg off.

RIGHT KIND OF PROFILE

It’s crucial to have a profile that attracts a woman who is serious about meeting someone.
Don’t show SKIN – SHOW YOUR BODY, BUT NOT too much of it.
She likes you when she responds or favors you – a flirt or wink.
You say “thank you,” – give her your number to call you.  Some don’t call.  Some send their number.  Wait for them to call you.
On the phone – see if the conversation flows.  Use your intuition & gut if she’s just there playing games, or if she’s serious about meeting.  If she doesn’t open up it’s a problem, look for her being receptive.  If it doesn’t flow just politely get off.  Say like,
“I have to do something.”
Don’t tell her what.
If she calls & leaves a message, call back.  If she doesn’t call you back she’s DISMISSED.
When the conversation flows, set up a meeting (if she’s within driving distance.)

He stresses the fact that you never talk porno to a woman, women do not like grossness.....be subtle and romantic.

He stresses the fact that you never talk porno to a woman, women do not like grossness…..be subtle and romantic.

LOCALS VS. OUT OF TOWNERS

With out-of-towners you have to talk a month or so before the setup.
For locals you have a “meet & greet” where sex might not take place, even if you like her.  I sometimes put it off, because I want to do things with her, have fun, not just sex.
But with out-of-towners, the meet & greet is the sex.
When you meet a local the first time, you sit next to her, not across from her.  You have to gage IF SHE TOUCHES YOU OR NOT.
You touch her when you meet (hug, kiss) but don’t touch her again – wait for her to do it.  If she touches you two or three times, go for a kiss.  Kiss her back the way she kissed you.  She will kiss you again, go with her style.
If she moves away or turns away from you it’s a bad sign – she’s not really interested in you.

He takes these kind of pics to attract women, but never the erotic ones most guys distribute

He takes these kind of pics to attract women, but never the erotic ones most guys distribute

Some women take a long time to open up – I don’t have time for that.  So if there is no touching or kissing, I move on.
If she wants to have sex right away, I might do it or I might postpone it I’m serious about a relationship.  (ed:  one of his multiple relationships, he never has JUST ONE.)

If you go to see a woman out of town, you either stay in her place or get a room – she should pay for the room.  (He admits that women rarely pay for the room the first time.)
If you meet in the middle the man pays for the room.
Give her the option to refuse you after you meet.
It’s the man who sets the framework during the month & a half before meeting, he says.  He should mention to her that he’s not going to pressure her for sex if it doesn’t click.
He admits it has to work both ways.  Once a woman showed up that was forty pounds overweight & ugly.  He declined, gave her the keys to the room & departed.

Very few men study sex the way Derrick does.  I told him to help me write this course.  The info. on this page is a good beginning.  If you guys would do what he says, women will be amazed.

Very few men study sex the way Derrick does. I told him to help me write this course. The info. on this page is a good beginning. If you guys would do what he says, women will be amazed.

DERRICK’S ENERGY KAREZZA

Derrick is the one who introduced me to “Energy Karezza” & that got me focused on “Tantra.”  The man has studied sex for years – I’ve been listening to him for three – Most of the time I didn’t pay attention, just listened as I like him, but I found the subject boring.  His brand of books at first was gigolos, pimps, “experts” on seducing, holding, controlling women.  I would cringe or laugh at some of the stuff.
But recently, when he hit upon Dr. Stanley Bass & his “Energy Karezza,” I started to listen & even took notes.
“Doesn’t that have to do with worship of Goddess, worship of woman as God?  Did he mention that in his book?”
Derrick said no, he saw nothing like that.
I immediately hit Google on
“Worship of Mother God through the body of a woman as a path to Enlightenment” & came upon pay dirt.  Absolutely, Tantra has been practiced for 22,000 years.  He’s on to something!  I had better check into this, it might be the answer to prayer, how to relieve sexual repression in our culture; bring back worship of Mother God & women.
Derrick gave me his script for Energy Karezza, which I guess he got out of the book, that he started working on two women.  The women love it.  Here it is:  (Note that he does not put the spiritual part into it – that awaited my imprimatur.)

Derrick has been faithful with phone calls for five years, but we have never met.  I plan to have him as a boyfriend or one of my husbands when I get the digs in California.

Derrick has been faithful with phone calls for five years, but we have never met. I plan to have him as a boyfriend or one of my husbands when I get the digs in California.

DERRICK’S LOVE ANOINTING

First things first,– he is romantic, engaging, mostly charming, articulate, playful & very horny on the phone, without being a pervert.
When he meets you he is touchy, but not too touchy, massaging your neck & back, waits for you to take his hand & hold it – grieves if you don’t.  Constant interaction, eye contact, smiling, wining & dining you, teasing you – makes women melt.  Most women he meets get horny right away – some weirdos don’t melt, they have mental issues.
Derrick goes off the beaten path to court a lady.  One time he took Cassandra hiking.  They both wore back backs.  Miles into the mountains atop California, they come upon a cave, scoped in advance by clever Derrick.  Derrick opens up his backpack.  There is a blow up mattress, a candle, & a flower.  He gives the flower to Cassandra, kisses her hand, blows up the mattress, lights the candle & lays her.  She swoons from shock & the pleasure.

Derrick is a great kisser and hand holder.  If you do not reciprocate it bothers him.  In other words, he acts like the normal guy every woman wants, but sadly, most men DO NOT know how to do foreplay and they ARE NOT affectionate.  Women are FRUSTRATED, and THAT IS WHY THEY NAG.

Derrick is a great kisser and hand holder. If you do not reciprocate it bothers him. In other words, he acts like the normal guy every woman wants, but sadly, most men DO NOT know how to do foreplay and they ARE NOT affectionate. Women are FRUSTRATED, and THAT IS WHY THEY NAG.

Then there’s the scavenger hunt.  One of his women has a birthday.  He gets a bunch of envelopes for a “hunt” like finding Easter eggs.  The first envelope tells her they are going to Starbucks for coffee, she will find the second envelope there.  The second envelope takes them to a store for a special bracelet he buys her.  She finds the third envelope there, which directs them to a lovely outdoor place, overlooking a garden, for lunch.  He planned a bottle of champagne & birthday cake in advance!  There she is directed into the garden where there is a bouquet of roses for her behind a bush.  The envelope there tells her to go somewhere, etc.  This goes on for hours.
Finally the last stop of the scavenger hunt.  They are at the trunk of Derrick’s car, & he opens it, saying,
“This is your real present.”
Inside his trunk are forty blown up balloons, one for each of her years.  She has to break them open, & inside is a note explaining why Derrick loves her – forty reasons.  She cries.
He has done this FOR MULTIPLE WOMEN.
No wonder they fall in love with him.  He’s got three, four five women infatuated at the same time, ALL THINKING SHE IS THE ONE & ONLY, somehow he gets around to them without the others knowing, servicing them for HOURS OF SEX – no standard blow & hump for Derrick, & get this:

Derrick is IMAGINATIVE in how he delights women - He thinks and plans ahead what he will do, how he will do it - many special occurrences - women break down in tears as it's so rare.

Derrick is IMAGINATIVE in how he delights women – He thinks and plans ahead what he will do, how he will do it – many special occurrences – women break down in tears as it’s so rare.

DERRICK DOES NOT ALLOW BLOW JOBS & HE DOES NOT MASTURBATE, DOES NOT WATCH PORN

And there my friends, could be three of the reasons for his success.  First of all, he has a lot of “psychic” or sexual energy because he never relieves himself with his hand.  He’s told me many times while we were talking he had a hardon.  Most men cannot bear the pressure of a hardon & they relieve themselves, but Derrick never does.  All is for the woman, & he never comes until he knows for sure she has.
The blow jobs are another story.  He says he doesn’t want any woman to control him, & apparently, men love blow jobs so much if they get them from a woman she (presumably) has control.

Derrick reads HUNDREDS of books on sex.  Why don't other men?  Because they think they know it all, but they don't.  A wise man can always learn more.

Derrick reads HUNDREDS of books on sex. Why don’t other men? Because they think they know it all, but they don’t. A wise man can always learn more.

The third item, pornography, also makes Derrick completely different, as almost all the men I know watch porn.  Porn is deadly for intimacy & sensitivity toward a woman.  Men begin seeing women in the way that porn depicts them, depersonalized things to be used, objects to fill his needs. There is no love for women in porno. (Men also look subhuman.)
And so, by avoiding porno, Derrick remains sensitive to the finer feelings & needs of the woman, he concentrates on pleasing her.  Unlike most men, HE ACTUALLY ASKS THE WOMAN WHAT SHE LIKES.

Another smart thing about Derrick is he dates all races, all types women, including all ages.  The average man sticks to one type and so his resources are limited.

Another smart thing about Derrick is he dates all races, all types women, including all ages. The average man sticks to one type and so his resources are limited.

Most males will tell you WHAT HE LIKES.  Can you ride it?  Do you give a good blow job?  Can you tighten your muscles around his dick?  Do you like it up the ass?  Etc.  They get crude & offensive, women begin to hate men.
That’s why when Derrick comes along, women melt.  I mean the other guys give sex a bad name, Derrick is a healer.
Which is not to say that Derrick is all saint, no devil.  He does two bad things.  The first, I already told you, he lies.  He plays them to get them & keep them.  Sooner or later they find out.  These relationships are mostly temporary, even though he services them in a special way.  These are women who want to be exclusive, & he lies that they are.  Most of them, when they find out, break up with him – they feel betrayed, they’re angry.  One woman blogged him for his infidelity, declaring him to be toxic, without empathy & monstrous.  His average relationship lasts a few months to three years before the shit hits the fan – he doesn’t care, he always has more, one out of five stays, he gets new ones.  But here is the worst:

Early in life, Derrick was NOT a great lover.  In fact, he didn't know what he was doing.  But he set out to learn, and learn he did.

Early in life, Derrick was NOT a great lover. In fact, he didn’t know what he was doing. But he set out to learn, and learn he did.

DERRICK HAS SEX WITHOUT CONDOMS

OK,  it’s bad, no excuses, I do not defend him.  Derrick is not black or white, he’s grey, & when he’s good, he’s very good, & when he’s bad, he’s horrid.  This is the worst, no need to explain.  What floors me is that he persuades the women (not all of them) to let him do it bareback.  How dumb can these broads be?  They are RISKING THEIR LIVES FOR A GOOD TIME & SO IS HE.  Enough said, draw your own conclusions.

Derrick speaks to ALL KINDS of women;  religious, innocent types, open minded types, traditional ones, nonconformists - he shuts no type out, so he gets more chances to score.  He is extremely careful not to offend women the way the average guy does, with gross talk, and lack of courtesy and manners.  He is always a gentleman.

Derrick speaks to ALL KINDS of women; religious, innocent types, open minded types, traditional ones, nonconformists – he shuts no type out, so he gets more chances to score. He is extremely careful not to offend women the way the average guy does, with gross talk, and lack of courtesy and manners. He is always a gentleman.

DERRICK’S KAREZZA SEX

Here’s the script Derrick gave me:
In Derrick’s bed, you must have at least SEVEN different activities which you alternate doing, average five minutes at a time.  He gave me twelve.
(1)    dry pumping / humping, missionary position, man on top

(2)    five minutes same thing, woman on top

(3)    five minutes man dry humping from the back

(4)    five minutes man kisses breasts

(5)    five minutes man kisses neck

(6)    five minutes man kisses pussy

(7)    five minutes man fingers “g spot”

(8)    five minutes man fingers clitoris  (as he fingers her clitoris he kisses her neck, breasts & body)

(9)    five minutes hump her inside missionary position

(10)    five minutes woman humps him on top

(11)    five minutes he humps her from behind

(12)    five minutes she rides him in a chair

At this point, after doing all twelve of these things, Derrick then humps the woman doing the shallow / deep strokes.  Nine shallow, one deep, eight shallow, one deep, seven shallow, one deep, until you get to the ten deep.  Then you change into something else on the list.

The man MUST NOT COME AT ALL through the entire Session Number One.

The first session is ONE HOUR.  The woman should come at least once in the First Session.  Now start the Second Session, doing all these things, & the woman comes again.  At the end of the Second Session, the man can come.  The woman comes at the end of both sessions, before the man.

As far as Derrick's ways, wanting multiple women, I second that emotion.  "Sex at Dawn" is a scholarly book which discusses our ape identity - we are closest to the Bonobos, a randy bunch.  Apes are by no means monogamous, and I can see all around me, people are having multiple partners when they can, but denying it all the while.  When the world becomes honest again we will see polyandry (women with harems) and casual love will abound.  And it doesn't have to be mean or meaningless.  I put love into all my relationships, even if they last one hour.  Good luck, Derrick, gathering your next harem, and wish me luck with mine.

As far as Derrick’s ways, wanting multiple women, I second that emotion. “Sex at Dawn” is a scholarly book which discusses our ape identity – we are closest to the Bonobos, a randy bunch. Apes are by no means monogamous, and I can see all around me, people are having multiple partners when they can, but denying it all the while. When the world becomes honest again we will see polyandry (women with harems) and casual love will abound. And it doesn’t have to be mean or meaningless. I put love into all my relationships, even if they last one hour. Good luck, Derrick, gathering your next harem, and wish me luck with mine.

AFTERCARE

Derrick is also attentive with aftercare.  He does not do a woman one time, he has relationships.  When they are done loving, he keeps in touch by phone & visits both ways, constantly interviewing them on how they enjoyed being with him, did they really come or faked it (they all say they really came), what did they like about him?  (his smile!  I hear most of them say on the three-way!) etc. etc.  He has sex with right now, three women, averaging three long nights & mornings a week, three hours at night, & two hours in the morning of lovemaking, as described.

What do you make of this man?  I am still scratching my head.  My turn is coming up – maybe.  He’s in California & we have never met.  He says it will be the greatest romance & love I have ever had.  I don’t doubt it.  Compared to most men – well let’s face it – they stink.  Derrick, along with the condoms I put on him, will seem like a rose without thorns.

I might add a bit of  truth here,

“If you wanna score like Derrick,….you gotta look like Derrick.”  (hahaha, if you don’t, you might hit on women that are 1 to 6, maybe that’ll work)

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