College of Love Making, College of the Gender War, Core Tenets
HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN <> LESSON III
HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN – LESSON III – What Humans Do Not Comprehend Regarding Sexual Love
By Guru Rasa Von Werder 3 4 14
This began with a letter concerning my umpteenth deletion of personal site on face book
(Speaking to William Bond and friends)
- If I am her Voice, if I let her speak through me, I must concentrate on Mother God. I must tune out the voices that are irrelevant. She is first and foremost, if I am to represent her.
I am a Voice of Mother God. I have to HEAR THE MESSAGE in order to say it, I have to SILENCE OTHER VOICES THAT ARE NOT RELEVENT. I have to be in a still, quiet place mentally, AT LEAST 5 DAYS A WEEK. William, you understand this principal. Channeling Mother God – Spirit – Infinite Wisdom and Energy requires MEDITATION, solitude, isolation. I break my isolation with the personal page (face book), and no matter how much I say I won’t – I do too much and I get distracted.
Right now Mother God wants me to CONCENTRATE on Embodiment of God, not so much advertising but rather, CREATING. First create, then promote. Not saying no promotion, just saying less.
What has to happen here? A miracle of vision. This event requires the FREEDOM OF MY MIND – I must see, hear and understand NEW THINGS that no one has explained, regarding SEXUALITY.
If there was some place I could FIND the answers I would receive them, but there isn’t. I am alone on this path. William, you are the only one that does help with the working out of Matriarchal tenets. Your last article about how men created marriage taught me things that were not clear – you expressed it so simply, so plainly; it opened my mind.
Now there is another mystery that I must unlock which I don’t believe anyone has explained. I see it dimly, in parts, in a fog, but it must be clarified, (I believe you can help in working it out.) Here is the part that I see:
WE CANNOT WORSHIP GOD THROUGH SEX UNTIL THE TIME THAT MEN AND WOMEN RESPECT WOMEN. RIGHT NOW AS WE BOTH AGREE, THEY DO NOT.
MEN: INSTEAD OF LOVING WOMEN, DE FACTO HATE WOMEN, AND WOMEN DE FACTO HATE THEMSELVES. (This is changing with the mantra Woman Thou Art God posited, many are now saying, “I am God!) MEN PURSUE WOMEN TO DUMP A LOAD, USE THEM AS GARBAGE DISPOSALS FOR SPERM; OR BREEDING, THEY DO NOT LOVE WOMEN.
The Patriarchs have taught males to use women – simply put. There is rape, molestation, taking from. Rarely does a man actually LOVE a woman – sometimes they are “in love” in the sense of obsession, fixation, but not LOVING UNCONDITIONALLY AND WITH RESPECT, NOT LOOKING UP TO WOMEN.
- to make love to a woman properly there has to be love, and since God is love, one must love God, desire without love is called lust
Therefore, my conclusion as the Voice of Mother God – She being inside me, telling me what Truth is, is the following,
“Men must feel love for the woman before they can worship the Almighty God through her. They cannot continue looking down on her through Patriarchal eyes, they must give up every lie they have been taught, and receive the Matriarchal ways of life and love; they must take up the Culture of Life and give up the Culture of Death.
It is a BAPTISM, where you give up all the lies of Satan, and all his works, and all his pretensions, and then, being cleansed of that sin, surrendering your will to Matriarchy, you are baptized and anointed in new waters.
As long as men love Patriarchy, accept it, live by its rules, they cannot love women, they cannot worship Mother God in the way She wants. In fact, they cannot love anyone or anything, they cannot love life, – They can love tyranny, exploitation, lying, stealing, torture and murder, but they cannot love God if they remain Patriarchal. Matriarchy and Patriarchy are opposites. One of them loves God, the other loves Satan, you cannot serve two masters.”
Now that begs the question of what is Satan, what is God?
God is Truth, Beauty, Love, Infinite Power; God is all good and wants the good of all. God knows all, sees all and can do all things. God wants us all to be happy, find fulfillment and success here on earth (even though we often meet with punishing karmas or challenges) and joy in all eternity.
- Men must be taught in the beginning, when they are young, how to make love to a woman. It is the place of the older women to teach them, but of course, patriarchy makes that a taboo. In the absence of old women teaching them, who does so? The old men – with dire consequences.
What is Satan? Where does he come from? I believe Satan and his forces, and his demons, come from the lower self, when humans are not redeemed, or when they have given over some part of themselves to lower energies. Satan or demons come from the ID – the natural lower instinct, and this ID creates energies, entities, that house inside a being, that can be sent out, that can exist after the person is dead as hauntings.
The ID has no conscience, like a baby that screams for what it wants, the ID has no conception of me and thee, it’s only me and what I want, I need. People grow up past the ID, recognizing that there are others with similar needs. Those who do not are called SOCIOPATHS. Sigmund Freud believed this way, (categorizing the ID, the ego and the superego as parts of our personality.) I came to the same conclusion not from him (did not even know his POV until recently) but from study and observation what demons are (as a minister and exorcist of many years), and of how men behave. I concluded that most of the demons come from inside men – that they deployed them all over the world, and that many men and a few women worship demons in inner and outer ways. (It is known that the Shadow Govt., illuminati people meet in places like Bohemian Grove, near San Francisco, to decide the political fate of humanity. They choose, for one thing, in their false elections, who will be the next president of the United States. The main ritual of these people is a worship to the demon God Molech, the cremation of care ceremony, which some believe is a live infant that is burned to the demon.)
Men have to, therefore, relinquish Patriarchy, and all its lies and pretensions. (On another level, although women are its victims, they must also give up Patriarchy with its delusions.)
- If I want a man to love me as the Embodiment of God, I must first believe it is true. There is little chance he will believe in me that way if I don’t believe in myself.
With men, they must give up their pride over women, with women, their humility before men – it is the opposite.
Regarding women: I have seen where slaves sometimes repeat the words of their masters, deprecating themselves; they have been brainwashed to think little of themselves (or at least speak or act that way). Abused people develop loss of self esteem, or confidence, – this goes for anyone, slave or free, male or female. Self deprecation, lack of self respect, self hatred, are destructive.
Therefore, I am saying, those who hold their heads too high above others, tyrannizing them, must lower their heads. Those who hold themselves too low must rise up and claim their God-hood, no one should be slave or tyrant, we are all God in Nature. (There are some nuances to this, however, such as a Mother has authority over her child, a woman over a man, by nature, this does not mean tyranny but benevolence, we are not all equals in every way, but we should be equals under the law and equals in the chance for love and happiness.)
- Why don’t boys and men believe in women as symbols and embodiments of God? Because their religion is twisted – they have been brainwashed to believe many falsities. One is that God created us and went away. Second is that women are not as great as men, that the only Son of God was a man, or that all priests and spiritual potentates are men. These dastardly lies, along with the Patriarchal teachings within pornography and media, have males totally twisted up regarding women. How can they properly make love to them, believing these lies?
WOMEN MUST BELIEVE IN THEIR GREAT GOD WITHIN
The reason that the woman must also believe in the worship of God through her body is that in the event a male sincerely wants to do so, if the woman cannot receive it, how can it work?
The female must believe, for this event to be harmonious and holy,
“I am a God woman. I deserve homage and love as such. I am Shakti, the main God, or her symbol, or even her embodiment. The man now wants to worship this great Shakti, or Almighty God, and he is sincere, and I am going to receive it.”
- Men must be taught how to kiss a woman all over her body. Why is it that we woman are giving them so many blow jobs, but we get so little touch and affection? Because they have not been taught properly, from the beginning, by older women.
Now if a woman has no glint that she is God within, or symbolizes God, or is the Embodiment of the Almighty, then she is not a fitting receptacle for this adoration; the ritual of love falls short of what it could be. Not saying it has to be an unloving or harsh, not saying it cannot be pleasant or blissful, it simply falls short of a Sacred Ceremony.
For the love making to be completely perfect, both the male and the female must have the Spirit of God within them, and be aware that God is in both, and it helps even more if they both see the Shakti God is superior, the Shiva God is auxiliary, then this – in our religion called Shaktism and Advaita, is a perfect love-making act.
- What does pornography (created by old men) teach our boys? To use, degrade and punish women through sex.
Consider this – that the man is not in the Spirit of God. Can he then worship God? Certainly not. The man who has not had the “born again” experience, where the Spirit of God awakens in him, does not have love. Therefore, one who does not have love, cannot give love, his “love making” is only a physical discharge, even if he may be skillful, but the energy is of the lower self. This is the definition of lust. Those who have lust have no compassion or empathy, they merely seek partners for a physical experience, and this includes all the abusive experiences of sex.
But a man who is born again, has the Spirit of God within him, also has compassion and empathy, he has virtue, he cares about his partner. This does not mean he subscribes to a false morality of patriarchy, is prudish or repressed in his morals (few men are, although they are strong in hypocrisy), like following a dozen rules makes him a “good boy” or a bad one. Our religion does not subscribe to monogamy as a rule. If you want it, have it, but it is not demanded in our Catechism, compassion is.
- There is too much worry on what he wants, not enough on what we want. We want to be caressed, massaged, kissed, given oral, humped with feelings. The way you look at us, treat us all day, at dinner, the attention, the kindness, this is all a part of foreplay. Think about us, not yourself for a change.
Now about women. In our morals, women should not use men just as men should not use women. Women have had to use men in the past, because unjust laws and customs made them victims of male economics – they had to jump through hoops to get men, especially rich men, for money. There is such a thing as cooperating with this system but another thing to con or deceive someone.
Our morals are not patriarchal morals, forcing marriage and faithfulness on women. We hearken back to a time when sex was free, when there was no marriage, when no one cared about paternity, as resources, status and security were in the hands of Mother. There might be some concessions here and there to modern times, but we always stretch backward to ancient Matriarchs and how they would see things.
- Women like to have their feet kissed and rubbed, legs also, their whole body. Some women like one body part attended to a lot – you have to ask to see what she likes – so ask.
The bottom line is, patriarchy has screwed up and twisted the whole idea of making love, and sex. They have confused and distorted it. They scream how sinful it all is, then they produce patriarchal pornography where men are paid to act as subhumans, where women are paid to cooperate, and the majority of males, who are now addicted to the trash, are influenced by it.
To think abut morality as explained by patriarchs is to ponder sexual repression of women and approval of male crimes toward others. This is not our morality, women repressed, men exonerated for rape and child abuse.
Our morality is that sex was created for love. One would never rape, or abuse, or use another. The body can be used for all sorts of things, bad and good. In the case of sex, when love is in it, even for one hour (we are not patriarchs, we do not demand lifetime relationships) then it is Godly. But to give love, one has to have love, not just working out of the Muladhara.
- Please see my book, “Old Woman – Young Man, Why They Belong Together.” For one thing, we guide, mentor males into the Culture of Life which includes the art of making love. Men are lost without us – this world is lost.
The sex glands, – vagina, clitoris, penis, are made for pleasure. Most of the nerve endings of the body are housed there. There is a reason for this – it is to feel good, for ourselves and partners. Even if people are not spiritual and have no love, sex brings relief and feel-good hormones. There is no spiritual law or reason why people should not have sex even if it remains on the lower chakras. We are just saying that “love making to worship God” is a special level, what this website is about. This is not pornography, this is worship of Mother God through the body and through all of Nature.
When we say, “How to Make Love to a Woman” we mean spiritual / physical love, the deepest, truest, complete love, that covers all the needs of the human body, psyche and soul.
In particular, we are off-setting the way boys have been trained to de facto HATE WOMEN and show some of this hate through sex. We are saying we need the young males to love us, and to love us, they have to stop hating us. Women, in particular, are extremely sensitive, and most of them are more loving than are men – certainly so after males have been trained to turn zombie.
In order to make love to a woman you have to feel love, even if you are not a spiritual proficient, you have to want to take that path. Women need tenderness, empathy, they need to have their skin touched, caressed, massaged, kissed, oral, they need kind words and sweet thoughts.
Boys are not taught this in patriarchy. Lesson three is that if you want to make love to a woman, give up patriarchal ways, care about the woman, and that will be the beginning. If you care about her, you will think about her needs. It isn’t all you, the blow and hump, – that doesn’t cut it. Learn to be gentle, caress so that you touch only the hairs on her arm, no groping, grabbing, jumping on her like a rabbit or lying there while all that happens is her service. Grow up, to be a man is to love.
Guru Rasa Von Werder 3 4 14
College of Love Making, SHAKTI AND SHIVA, TANTRA SEX, Shrine to Shakti
YOU CANNOT ESCAPE DERRICK <> WITHOUT AN ORGASM
You Cannot Escape Derrick Without an Orgasm
From GuruRasa 3 6 12
Excerpt from my forthcoming book, “The Gods of Sex”
How do I know? He checks your pulse.
He reads everything he can get his hands on regarding sex, from pimp books to Tantra. He was readying to me from books for years. Energy Karezza was his topic when he got me interested – I took notes – This was partly responsible for my looking up Shaktism and employing it as a basis for this site.
Of course, a lot goes on between meeting the darling & the pulse checking. Let’s begin here:
How to Talk on the Phone With Women From the Dating
Services
First, he teaches me, he does not deal with “10”s. They are too hard to manage; arrogant, full of themselves, you can’t control them. He contents himself with “7”s although he himself is “10” – the “7”s are most likely to do as they are told. (That is the important thing, do as they are told. You need a steady supply of love / sex with the women; it’s not a beauty contest. He likes them fit & attractive, curvy, maybe a few pounds extra, slim but nice. No fatties, no skeletons, body first, face second, they must be compliant. They go through rigorous interviews to see if they’re Derrick material.)
He always has at least three steady women at a time – because he knows how to please them – And he WORKS AT IT.
Main thing to find out is IF SHE’S WILLING TO HAVE SEX RIGHT AWAY. You don’t want those broads that make you grow a beard before they make you grow.
Ask her the following,
“When’s the last time you had a relationship?”
(If she just broke up might not be good material.)
“Have you been dating?”
(If no, she might not give it up.)
“When’s the last time you were intimate?”
(If it was yesterday, you have a good chance. If it was a year ago, ditto, haha. The main thing is whether she does it or not.)
He is so smooth he skates, on an Olympic Gold Medal level. Seduction to him is a Science.
When you get the ones on the phone that you like: Be sure to get off the phone first. Have her call you back at a specific time. Don’t talk too long, as more than ten minutes is the kiss of death. You have to remove yourself so she can talk to more men & you to more women.
If she doesn’t call you back at the time stated, it’s over. She will not reciprocate in a relationship.
You must try to determine by phone HOW SHE LOOKS NAKED.
Perhaps the great secret of his success is HE DOES NOT MASTURBATE and HE NEVER LOOKS AT PORN
WHEN TO SAY “NEXT” & MOVE ON
What to talk about:
If they don’t want to talk about sex, means they don’t like sex – pass – Women who like sex want to do it right away.
You can introduce the topic of sex like so: Tell her you had a naughty dream about her. If she does NOT want to hear it………. NEXT. (next woman, she isn’t into sex or you.)
You can also ask her,
“Have you ever had a naughty thought of us together?”
And she says,
“No, I’m not THAT KIND OF A WOMAN”……….NEXT.
Then if she’s friendly, ask,
“Have you played with yourself thinking of us?”
If she says yes, you’ve got it made. If she’s playing with herself thinking of you, she’s ready to have sex with you.
Be INNOCENT (benign) in your questions.
“Did you service yourself? Did you do something about it? How about us getting together and serving each other?”
I have never met anyone so analytical in trying to figure out what to say, when to say it, what to do, how to do it, regarding relationships. What he says works and any Lothario that wants lots of women and sex would be wise to hear this.
Guys usually think in GROSS terms – porno – which turns women off:
“Do you wanna fuck? Suck my dick?”
Men are too hot or too cold. Make it WARM, put it in the MIDDLE.
Talk about her sex fantasy:
“Were you naked? Did I kiss you on the neck?”
Ease into it ROMANTICALLY. Women are sensitive.
He works at looking good – muscles, grooming, clothes, cars. He spends money on the women but he doesn’t throw it away. As he got more experienced he let them take some share in the expenses, but he always does his share and more. He is not a user. He just wants a lot of women and a lot of sex. He’s HONEST about it. And his methods WORK.
BEFORE YOU MEET HER
You must talk about sex but in a romantic, not pornographic way. Ask questions:
“What positions do you like?”
“Do you ever fake it? I don’t want you to fake it.”
There is MENTAL FOREPLAY.
Be careful what kind of words you use, like cunt & bitch – not to turn them off. You don’t want her to think of you as a PERVERT. (He defines pervert as a selfish man who only thinks of his orgasm & not the woman’s pleasure.)
He has a great gift for gab; sometimes he talks my leg off. But I could never talk his leg off.
RIGHT KIND OF PROFILE
It’s crucial to have a profile that attracts a woman who is serious about meeting someone.
Don’t show SKIN – SHOW YOUR BODY, BUT NOT too much of it.
She likes you when she responds or favors you – a flirt or wink.
You say “thank you,” – give her your number to call you. Some don’t call. Some send their number. Wait for them to call you.
On the phone – see if the conversation flows. Use your intuition & gut if she’s just there playing games, or if she’s serious about meeting. If she doesn’t open up it’s a problem, look for her being receptive. If it doesn’t flow just politely get off. Say like,
“I have to do something.”
Don’t tell her what.
If she calls & leaves a message, call back. If she doesn’t call you back she’s DISMISSED.
When the conversation flows, set up a meeting (if she’s within driving distance.)
He stresses the fact that you never talk porno to a woman, women do not like grossness…..be subtle and romantic.
LOCALS VS. OUT OF TOWNERS
With out-of-towners you have to talk a month or so before the setup.
For locals you have a “meet & greet” where sex might not take place, even if you like her. I sometimes put it off, because I want to do things with her, have fun, not just sex.
But with out-of-towners, the meet & greet is the sex.
When you meet a local the first time, you sit next to her, not across from her. You have to gage IF SHE TOUCHES YOU OR NOT.
You touch her when you meet (hug, kiss) but don’t touch her again – wait for her to do it. If she touches you two or three times, go for a kiss. Kiss her back the way she kissed you. She will kiss you again, go with her style.
If she moves away or turns away from you it’s a bad sign – she’s not really interested in you.
He takes these kind of pics to attract women, but never the erotic ones most guys distribute
Some women take a long time to open up – I don’t have time for that. So if there is no touching or kissing, I move on.
If she wants to have sex right away, I might do it or I might postpone it I’m serious about a relationship. (ed: one of his multiple relationships, he never has JUST ONE.)
If you go to see a woman out of town, you either stay in her place or get a room – she should pay for the room. (He admits that women rarely pay for the room the first time.)
If you meet in the middle the man pays for the room.
Give her the option to refuse you after you meet.
It’s the man who sets the framework during the month & a half before meeting, he says. He should mention to her that he’s not going to pressure her for sex if it doesn’t click.
He admits it has to work both ways. Once a woman showed up that was forty pounds overweight & ugly. He declined, gave her the keys to the room & departed.
Very few men study sex the way Derrick does. I told him to help me write this course. The info. on this page is a good beginning. If you guys would do what he says, women will be amazed.
DERRICK’S ENERGY KAREZZA
Derrick is the one who introduced me to “Energy Karezza” & that got me focused on “Tantra.” The man has studied sex for years – I’ve been listening to him for three – Most of the time I didn’t pay attention, just listened as I like him, but I found the subject boring. His brand of books at first was gigolos, pimps, “experts” on seducing, holding, controlling women. I would cringe or laugh at some of the stuff.
But recently, when he hit upon Dr. Stanley Bass & his “Energy Karezza,” I started to listen & even took notes.
“Doesn’t that have to do with worship of Goddess, worship of woman as God? Did he mention that in his book?”
Derrick said no, he saw nothing like that.
I immediately hit Google on
“Worship of Mother God through the body of a woman as a path to Enlightenment” & came upon pay dirt. Absolutely, Tantra has been practiced for 22,000 years. He’s on to something! I had better check into this, it might be the answer to prayer, how to relieve sexual repression in our culture; bring back worship of Mother God & women.
Derrick gave me his script for Energy Karezza, which I guess he got out of the book, that he started working on two women. The women love it. Here it is: (Note that he does not put the spiritual part into it – that awaited my imprimatur.)
Derrick has been faithful with phone calls for five years, but we have never met. I plan to have him as a boyfriend or one of my husbands when I get the digs in California.
DERRICK’S LOVE ANOINTING
First things first,– he is romantic, engaging, mostly charming, articulate, playful & very horny on the phone, without being a pervert.
When he meets you he is touchy, but not too touchy, massaging your neck & back, waits for you to take his hand & hold it – grieves if you don’t. Constant interaction, eye contact, smiling, wining & dining you, teasing you – makes women melt. Most women he meets get horny right away – some weirdos don’t melt, they have mental issues.
Derrick goes off the beaten path to court a lady. One time he took Cassandra hiking. They both wore back backs. Miles into the mountains atop California, they come upon a cave, scoped in advance by clever Derrick. Derrick opens up his backpack. There is a blow up mattress, a candle, & a flower. He gives the flower to Cassandra, kisses her hand, blows up the mattress, lights the candle & lays her. She swoons from shock & the pleasure.
Derrick is a great kisser and hand holder. If you do not reciprocate it bothers him. In other words, he acts like the normal guy every woman wants, but sadly, most men DO NOT know how to do foreplay and they ARE NOT affectionate. Women are FRUSTRATED, and THAT IS WHY THEY NAG.
Then there’s the scavenger hunt. One of his women has a birthday. He gets a bunch of envelopes for a “hunt” like finding Easter eggs. The first envelope tells her they are going to Starbucks for coffee, she will find the second envelope there. The second envelope takes them to a store for a special bracelet he buys her. She finds the third envelope there, which directs them to a lovely outdoor place, overlooking a garden, for lunch. He planned a bottle of champagne & birthday cake in advance! There she is directed into the garden where there is a bouquet of roses for her behind a bush. The envelope there tells her to go somewhere, etc. This goes on for hours.
Finally the last stop of the scavenger hunt. They are at the trunk of Derrick’s car, & he opens it, saying,
“This is your real present.”
Inside his trunk are forty blown up balloons, one for each of her years. She has to break them open, & inside is a note explaining why Derrick loves her – forty reasons. She cries.
He has done this FOR MULTIPLE WOMEN.
No wonder they fall in love with him. He’s got three, four five women infatuated at the same time, ALL THINKING SHE IS THE ONE & ONLY, somehow he gets around to them without the others knowing, servicing them for HOURS OF SEX – no standard blow & hump for Derrick, & get this:
Derrick is IMAGINATIVE in how he delights women – He thinks and plans ahead what he will do, how he will do it – many special occurrences – women break down in tears as it’s so rare.
DERRICK DOES NOT ALLOW BLOW JOBS & HE DOES NOT MASTURBATE, DOES NOT WATCH PORN
And there my friends, could be three of the reasons for his success. First of all, he has a lot of “psychic” or sexual energy because he never relieves himself with his hand. He’s told me many times while we were talking he had a hardon. Most men cannot bear the pressure of a hardon & they relieve themselves, but Derrick never does. All is for the woman, & he never comes until he knows for sure she has.
The blow jobs are another story. He says he doesn’t want any woman to control him, & apparently, men love blow jobs so much if they get them from a woman she (presumably) has control.
Derrick reads HUNDREDS of books on sex. Why don’t other men? Because they think they know it all, but they don’t. A wise man can always learn more.
The third item, pornography, also makes Derrick completely different, as almost all the men I know watch porn. Porn is deadly for intimacy & sensitivity toward a woman. Men begin seeing women in the way that porn depicts them, depersonalized things to be used, objects to fill his needs. There is no love for women in porno. (Men also look subhuman.)
And so, by avoiding porno, Derrick remains sensitive to the finer feelings & needs of the woman, he concentrates on pleasing her. Unlike most men, HE ACTUALLY ASKS THE WOMAN WHAT SHE LIKES.
Another smart thing about Derrick is he dates all races, all types women, including all ages. The average man sticks to one type and so his resources are limited.
Most males will tell you WHAT HE LIKES. Can you ride it? Do you give a good blow job? Can you tighten your muscles around his dick? Do you like it up the ass? Etc. They get crude & offensive, women begin to hate men.
That’s why when Derrick comes along, women melt. I mean the other guys give sex a bad name, Derrick is a healer.
Which is not to say that Derrick is all saint, no devil. He does two bad things. The first, I already told you, he lies. He plays them to get them & keep them. Sooner or later they find out. These relationships are mostly temporary, even though he services them in a special way. These are women who want to be exclusive, & he lies that they are. Most of them, when they find out, break up with him – they feel betrayed, they’re angry. One woman blogged him for his infidelity, declaring him to be toxic, without empathy & monstrous. His average relationship lasts a few months to three years before the shit hits the fan – he doesn’t care, he always has more, one out of five stays, he gets new ones. But here is the worst:
Early in life, Derrick was NOT a great lover. In fact, he didn’t know what he was doing. But he set out to learn, and learn he did.
DERRICK HAS SEX WITHOUT CONDOMS
OK, it’s bad, no excuses, I do not defend him. Derrick is not black or white, he’s grey, & when he’s good, he’s very good, & when he’s bad, he’s horrid. This is the worst, no need to explain. What floors me is that he persuades the women (not all of them) to let him do it bareback. How dumb can these broads be? They are RISKING THEIR LIVES FOR A GOOD TIME & SO IS HE. Enough said, draw your own conclusions.
Derrick speaks to ALL KINDS of women; religious, innocent types, open minded types, traditional ones, nonconformists – he shuts no type out, so he gets more chances to score. He is extremely careful not to offend women the way the average guy does, with gross talk, and lack of courtesy and manners. He is always a gentleman.
DERRICK’S KAREZZA SEX
Here’s the script Derrick gave me:
In Derrick’s bed, you must have at least SEVEN different activities which you alternate doing, average five minutes at a time. He gave me twelve.
(1) dry pumping / humping, missionary position, man on top
(2) five minutes same thing, woman on top
(3) five minutes man dry humping from the back
(4) five minutes man kisses breasts
(5) five minutes man kisses neck
(6) five minutes man kisses pussy
(7) five minutes man fingers “g spot”
(8) five minutes man fingers clitoris (as he fingers her clitoris he kisses her neck, breasts & body)
(9) five minutes hump her inside missionary position
(10) five minutes woman humps him on top
(11) five minutes he humps her from behind
(12) five minutes she rides him in a chair
At this point, after doing all twelve of these things, Derrick then humps the woman doing the shallow / deep strokes. Nine shallow, one deep, eight shallow, one deep, seven shallow, one deep, until you get to the ten deep. Then you change into something else on the list.
The man MUST NOT COME AT ALL through the entire Session Number One.
The first session is ONE HOUR. The woman should come at least once in the First Session. Now start the Second Session, doing all these things, & the woman comes again. At the end of the Second Session, the man can come. The woman comes at the end of both sessions, before the man.
As far as Derrick’s ways, wanting multiple women, I second that emotion. “Sex at Dawn” is a scholarly book which discusses our ape identity – we are closest to the Bonobos, a randy bunch. Apes are by no means monogamous, and I can see all around me, people are having multiple partners when they can, but denying it all the while. When the world becomes honest again we will see polyandry (women with harems) and casual love will abound. And it doesn’t have to be mean or meaningless. I put love into all my relationships, even if they last one hour. Good luck, Derrick, gathering your next harem, and wish me luck with mine.
AFTERCARE
Derrick is also attentive with aftercare. He does not do a woman one time, he has relationships. When they are done loving, he keeps in touch by phone & visits both ways, constantly interviewing them on how they enjoyed being with him, did they really come or faked it (they all say they really came), what did they like about him? (his smile! I hear most of them say on the three-way!) etc. etc. He has sex with right now, three women, averaging three long nights & mornings a week, three hours at night, & two hours in the morning of lovemaking, as described.
What do you make of this man? I am still scratching my head. My turn is coming up – maybe. He’s in California & we have never met. He says it will be the greatest romance & love I have ever had. I don’t doubt it. Compared to most men – well let’s face it – they stink. Derrick, along with the condoms I put on him, will seem like a rose without thorns.
I might add a bit of truth here,
“If you wanna score like Derrick,….you gotta look like Derrick.” (hahaha, if you don’t, you might hit on women that are 1 to 6, maybe that’ll work)
Guru Rasa 3 6 12
College of Love Making, College of Matriarchal Love, College of the Gender War
WILLIAM BOND explains why MEN FEAR LOVE & HATE WOMEN
WILLIAM BOND explains why MEN FEAR LOVE & HATE WOMEN – GURU RASA RESONATES
This is the discussion on Lesson II of the “College of Love Making”
WILLIAM BOND SAYS:
Many men fear love as they see it as a restriction on their freedoms. They want the freedom of drinking with mates, watching sport on TV, playing video games or riding in cars or motor bikes. But if they learn to love a woman and their children, then they won’t have the time to do all these things. They also have to deal with the complicated world of relationships.
Do men fear being under the authority of women? Yes
GURU RASA SAYS:
THERE ARE POINTS TO BE MADE HERE AGAINST MEN AND FOR MEN.
***AGAINST MEN – I KNOW YOU KNOW THIS, WILLIAM, BUT I WILL SAY IT FOR THE RECORD – MOST MEN GET AWAY AND DO THESE THINGS ANYWAY, AFTER THEY ARE MARRIED. THE WOMEN HAVE PUT UP WITH IT.
***IN THEIR DEFENSE: – MEN – IN MATRIARCHY NO ONE CARES WHO THE FATHER IS, THE MOTHER HOLDS THE POWER AND RESOURCES, THEY CAN FOOL AROUND ALL THEY WANT. ALSO, WE ARE NOT MONOGAMOUS, IT’S NOT NATURAL, WE DESCENDED FROM APES, SEE “SEX AT DAWN.” SO THEY HAVE A NATURAL URGE FOR MULTIPLE PARTNERS, AS DO WOMEN.
they want to be free, we want help – Patriarchy – in Matriarchy they are free but we hold the Power
***AGAINST MEN: THE STATISTICS ON FATHERS HAVING SEX WITH THEIR CHILDREN ARE STAGGERING, 50% OF GIRLS AND 25% OF BOYS ARE MOLESTED BY DADS. THEN THERE ARE THE GRANDFATHERS, UNCLES, OTHER RELATIVES AND FAMILY “FRIENDS”. MEN FIND MULTIPLE PARTNERS, – CHILDREN – WITHIN FAMILY STRUCTURES OF PATRIARCHY. SO THEY AREN’T MISSING THE SEX THEY CRAVE, ARE THEY? THAT’S WHAT PATRIARCHY IS PART AND PARCEL OF – HAVING SEX WITH CHILDREN.
William Bond continues:
So many men hate women because they see women as restriction on their “freedoms”. So they want to fuck women but not stay around too long in case they fall in love with them and get “hooked”. Some men go as far as hating women to prevent themselves falling in love. This is why men want to degrade women as an expression of this hatred. Also, if they can degrade a woman who accepts this behaviour, then it is all right to get involved with her because submissive women are less likely to restrict their freedoms.
GURU RASA SAYS:
MEN WANTING SUBMISSIVE WOMEN: THE TERRIFIC MOVIE ON THIS IS THE ORIGINAL “STEPFORD WIVES.” HERE THE MEN USE TECHNOLOGY TO REPLACE THE WIFE WITH A ZOMBIE TWIN (WHO LATER KILLS HER.) THIS WOMAN OBEYS THE MAN AND DOES ONLY WHAT HE WANTS. SHE IS OBSESSED WITH HOUSE CLEANING, COOKING, MOANS AND GROANS WHEN THE HUSBAND HUMPS HER AND HAS NO INTERESTS OUTSIDE THE HOME AND HIM.
The ideal of the Patriarchal wife is portrayed in the sinister 1975 story, “Stepford Wives”. The tyrannical Patriarchs produce zombie twins of their wives who obey them totally and have no interests outside the home – The zombies even kill the original wife
William Bond continues:
The price these men pay for wanting this freedom is that they never learn about love. They want a woman to love them but do not want to give love in return, and they certainly do not want the responsibility of looking after children. They prefer the shallow world of male interests. Patriarchy encourages this behaviour because hateful men make good soldiers who can kill without mercy.
Patriarchy, the Culture of Death vs. Matriarchy, the Culture of Life. Necrophilia vs. Biophilia
GURU RASA SAYS:
THERE IS ANOTHER FACTOR. MEN DO GET CAUGHT AND THEY HAVE FOUND A WAY TO KEEP THEIR FREEDOM: HAVE SEX WITH THE CHILDREN, HOW THEY HAVE MULTIPLE PARTNERS WITHOUT LEAVING HOME. STATISTICS ARE STAGGERING – 50% OF GIRLS AND 25% OF BOYS ARE MOLESTED BY DADS, THIS DOES NOT COUNT GRANDFATHERS, UNCLES, FRIENDS OF THE FAMILY AND PEOPLE, SUCH AS PRIESTS, IN CHARGE OF CHILDREN. AND MEN DO SIT AND WATCH SPORTS ON TELEVISION ALL DAY SUNDAY WHILE WOMEN COOK AND CLEAN, THEY DO GO OUT AND MEANDER WHILE WOMEN ARE FORCED TO STAY HOME. LET HIM HAVE HIS “BOYS NIGHT OUT” ONCE A WEEK, BUT LET HER TRY THE SAME AND ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE.
AS FAR AS THIS LACK OF EMPATHY AND SELFISHNESS MAKING GOOD SOLDIERS, IT IS AMAZING TO ME HOW MEN OBEY MEN. THEY REFUSE TO OBEY WOMEN FOR THEIR OWN GOOD, BUT THEY OBEY MEN TOWARD THEIR EVIL, AND THE EVIL OF OTHERS. THEY ALLOW MEN TO HUMILIATE AND DISCIPLINE THEM AND SEND THEM OUT TO KILL. BUT THEY CAN’T TAKE THE GARBAGE OUT OR PUT THE TOILET SEAT DOWN FOR WOMEN.
William Bond continues:
Women learn about love through having children. For most women giving birth to children is an instant love affair than can last them the rest of their lives. Men on the other hand tend to learn about love through sex. It is the sex-drive that gives him very powerful feelings of love. These feelings can be so strong that the man can feel overwhelmed by them. He then has a choice of going with these feelings, or resisting them. If he goes with these feelings he finds his life is dominated by caring for his wife and children. Or he can resist them and escape, by learning to hate women and love. So for men, sex becomes a choice between love and hate.
Maternal instinct – compassion – is what separates the boys from the girls – the Patriarchs train the boys to bring out the worst – they do not have to be evil if love is encouraged
We need to encourage males to be less violent, more compassionate. This can only happen with women guiding them. The other men force them to become violent and hateful
GURU RASA SAYS:
YES, WOMEN CAN BE IN LOVE WITH THE WEAK AND HELPLESS EVEN WITHOUT HAVING CHILDREN, IT’S AN INSTINCT, AND YES, THEY DO GET OBSESSED WITH THEIR BABIES, BESOTTED BEYOND REASON. IT MAKES THEM GO THROUGH ALL THE SHYT OF THEIR DEMANDS.
ABOUT MEN AND SEX: I HAVE OBSERVED THAT NINE OUT OF TEN MEN ARE UNFAITHFUL TO THEIR GF OR WIFE, THE ONE OUT OF TEN IS IN LOVE AND FEARS LOSING HER. I ALSO OBSERVE HOW FORGIVING WOMEN ARE BECAUSE THEY LOOK ON MEN AS WEAK, DAMAGED. BUT MEN ARE NOT FORGIVING TO WOMEN, THE STATISTICS ON JEALOUSY HOMICIDE ARE EVIDENT, AND THAT PROVES HOW WEAK AND DAMAGED THEY ARE.
William Bond continues:
Many men also try to contact God without love and relationships with women. We find this with monks and priests who shun all contact with women and sex.
GURU RASA SAYS:
AH, WILLIAM, I ALSO USED TO THINK ALL THOSE PRIESTS AND MONKS WERE CELIBATE SAINTS. LITTLE DID I KNOW. THE GOOD ONES ARE HAVING SEX WITH PROSTITUTES OR VOLUNTEERS, THE PHONIES MOLEST YOUNG BOYS.
HAVE YOU NOTICED HOW, SAY, IN THE HIMALAYAS THE MONKS RECEIVE EVERY YOUNG MAN IN THE COMMUNITY FOR A TWO YEAR RESIDENCE? WHAT DO YOU IMAGINE IS HAPPENING THERE? ON THE INTERNET WHILE RESEARCHING “SHIVA WORSHIP, LINGAM WORSHIP,” SAW A JOURNAL WHERE A TRAVELING YOUNG AMERICAN MAN SAID, “MONKS GIVE THE BEST BLOW JOBS.” YES, THEY PRAY AND MEDITATE ALL DAY AND AT NIGHT, THE MAN SAID, THEY APPEAR IN YOUR ROOM WITH A HARDON; HE SAID THE EXPERIENCE WAS BLESSED.
This is a friend of mine. Just illustrating the statement a Yogic meditator said, that the holy monks give the best blow jobs
IT REMINDS ME OF THE GREEKS, SPARTANS AND ROMANS WHO TOOK BOYS AWAY FROM MOTHERS AGE SEVEN TO TWELVE FOR “MENTORING” (BUGGERING AND ORAL SEX.) WHEN CAME TIME FOR BOY TO MARRY THE WIFE WOULD HAVE TO DON MEN’S CLOTHES FOR HIM TO GET ERECTED.
TODAY YOU HAVE THE SAMBIA TRIBE IN PAPUA NEW GUINEA – (AND OTHER TRIBES.) THEY ALSO TAKE BOYS FROM WOMEN AGE SIX TO TWELVE FOR “MANHOOD TRAINING.” THIS MEANS SUCKING THE COCKS OF THE OLDER MEN FOR WEEKS, THEN WHEN THEY GRADUATE, KILL MEMBERS OF THE NEIGHBORING TRIBE AND EAT THEIR BALLS. AND THEY ARE TOLD HOW FILTHY AND HORRIBLE WOMEN ARE, IT IS A RITUAL TO PUT TWIGS UP THEIR NOSES AND MAKE THEMSELVES BLEED FOR NO LOGICAL REASON – AND WOMEN ARE BLAMED FOR EVERYTHING INCLUDING THAT.
William Bond:
Some men can do this but they are rare, as it is a very hard and difficult way to contact God. For most normal men, the way they learn about spiritual love is by learning to love women. When men surrender completely to their feelings of love for women, then they learn about spiritual love. Some men resist this because they find they begin to want to worship women as Goddesses.
Worship women as Goddesses! Even if they don’t look this good!
GURU RASA SAYS:
TO BRING BACK THE WORSHIP OF MOTHER GOD AND WOMAN AS GODDESS IS WHAT HAS TO BE DONE. ALL THE EVIL I HAVE SPOKEN OF HERE, THAT MEN DO, IS PART AND PARCEL OF THIS CULTURE OF DEATH. IT IS RULE OF SATAN, BY SATAN, FOR SATAN, AND MEN HAVE BECOME IT’S SLAVES. WE MUST SAVE THESE SLAVES FROM SATAN AND BRING THEM TO MOTHER GOD. THEIR GOD IS SATAN, DISGUISED AS PATRIARCHY, INCLUDES THE REGULAR RELIGIONS WHICH HAVE BECOME KILLERS, MOLESTERS AND EXPLOITERS, AND THE ECONOMIC SYSTEM WHERE MONEY IS GOD. THE YOUNG MALES ARE THE VICTIMS HERE, AND THEY ARE DISCOURAGED FROM ALL THE GOOD WHICH MEANS LOVE OF WOMEN AND A MOTHER GOD.
I AM NOT SAYING ALL THE MEN ARE FAKES AND PHONIES, NOR AM I SAYING THAT HOMOSEXUALITY IS WRONG. I AM SAYING THEY HAVE A FAKE FRONT AND BEHIND THIS IS ANOTHER STORY, MOST OF THEM ARE CHARLATANS AND HYPOCRITES. I ADMIT SOME OF THESE MEN ARE HONEST SOULS AND PLEASING TO GOD, THERE MUST BE SAINTS AMONG THEM.
William Bond continues:
When two people learn to surrender completely to their feelings of love (this can be a woman or man, to women or to men,) they see the divinity in each other and it becomes a deeply spiritual love. This is what Tantra is all about, teaching people how to use sex to find this deep spiritual love.
GURURASA SAYS:
YOU HAVE MADE THE VALUABLE POINT BEFORE, WILLIAM, IN YOUR WRITING, ON HOW WOMEN ALREADY KNOW HOW TO LOVE, THEY DO NOT NEED TO BE TAUGHT. CONSIDER THAT WOMEN CANNOT BE BRAINWASHED TO ENTER WAR AND KILL THE INNOCENT, BECAUSE THEIR MATERNAL INSTINCT RESISTS THE IDEA. BUT MALES, WITHOUT THE MATERNAL INSTINCT, CAN BE MADE TO DO HORRENDOUS THINGS (BY AN OLDER MAN SYSTEM THAT KNOWS HOW TO CONTROL THEIR MINDS.) CONSIDER HOW WOMEN LOVE AND FORGIVE MEN, BUT MEN DO NOT RECIPROCATE. (ONE ITEM: STUDIES SAY WHEN MEN GO TO PRISON, WOMEN VISIT THEM, WHEN WOMEN GO TO PRISON, USUALLY MEN DO NOT. THEY WRITE OFF THE WOMAN WHEN SHE IS GONE, THEY DO NOT STAND BY HER. THIS SHOWS WEAKNESS IN COMPASSION, IN CHARACTER. THEY CANNOT STAND WITHOUT THE WOMAN SUPPORTING THEM, THEY SEEK ANOTHER WOMAN TO GET STRENGTH FROM.)
Woman, Thou Art God, and Thou Must Save Men! From the men!
THE SITUATION OF MEN BEING BRAINWASHED BY THE OLD GUYS AND BEING THE VICTIMS OF THE DEMONIC, IS WHY I AM NOW GEARING MY MESSAGE TO MALES, ESPECIALLY THE YOUNGER ONES. THIS COURSE ON “HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN” IS DESIGNED TO BRING MEN BACK TO LOVE AND EXERCISE IT WITHIN SEX, MAKE THE WOMEN HAPPY AGAIN, AND BE BLESSED BY THEIR ACTIONS.
William Bond and Guru Rasa Von Werder 2 15 14
College of God & Love, College of Love Making, The New Religion XVI Sixteen Heal the Men
How to Make Love Lesson II <> Putting God into Sex
How to Make Love Lesson Two
(Lessons geared toward men)
PUTTING GOD INTO SEX
In order to MAKE LOVE you have to HAVE LOVE.
You have to have a heart.
Love comes from the heart. If the Heart Chakra is not open or pierced, then the person cannot contain it. The Heart Chakra also GROWS, it widens, deepens, goes higher, even to a place of the Grand Canyon if a person receives the grace of Stigmata, or martyrdom for Love
To have a heart means to function from the Heart Chakra and above it, which Ramakrishna said is the BEGINNING of REAL or advanced spirituality.
The Chakras (spiritual energy centers) go from the bottom up, the Muladhara to the Sahasrara. When you reach the Heart, you are now an official “saint” or spiritual proficient. When you reach the Sahasrara, you are Enlightened or Realized, you KNOW you are God – (some religions d not permit their adherents to make such a claim, but they can say they are very close to the Creator.)
The sexual capacity runs life through everyone’s veins, be they spiritual or not. And so, all sex is not making love. After all, rape is not love, child molestation is not. Many men go through the motions like automatons, machines, they brag about what they do in the company of other men. They demean women, brag how they “porked” or “fucked” her. They project a hateful attitude to the women they did sex to. This has nothing to do with God or love; it is of the world, the flesh and the devil.
Now, on the other hand, what is love? How is it expressed? Jesus said,
“Whatever you do TO THE LEAST OF THESE YOU DO TO ME.”
What you do to the smallest creature, you do to God – God is manifested in all of physical life, all Life is God
That meant, to the least creature, animal or human: Those who have no rights, no power, vulnerable, small, who cannot defend themselves. Whatever you do SINFUL to the least of creatures, you DO TO GOD.
By the opposite, whatever good you do to the least of these, you do to God. And so, every action that is of Love, you love God by. Do a good deed, you love God. Give in charity, you love God. Think positive thoughts, pray, you love God. And “making love” to another person by way of thought, word and deed IS ALSO LOVING GOD. THAT IS HOW YOU WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY.
And so, putting it straight out, when you engage in the act of caressing, touching, kissing, sucking or humping, if you do this IN LOVE then it is MAKING LOVE, and that is the PROPER WAY TO MAKE LOVE, & indeed IT IS WORSHIP OF GOD THROUGH THE BODY, THROUGH SEX.
Worship of God through the body – Shaktism
Each person must study their own conscience. Is your purpose in this to use up another person and demean them? Usually, this is the sin of the man, not the woman. It is the woman who gets disrespected in our culture for having sex pleasure. (This is wrong, we women should give up this shame, but that is how it still is.) And so, a man and woman get into bed together, she gives him her body, he uses it, he gets off, and then, he discards her like shyt in the toilet. Next day he does not return her calls, when he sees her he acts like he doesn’t know her! This is not love! He might also physically injure a woman with his penis (if she is a virgin or her body is not ready) and worst of all, give her an unplanned pregnancy. The woman takes much greater risk by lying down with a man than the opposite way around.
And so, to top it off, when the man, after having her, treats her in an offhanded manner, he is sinning against God, as he has hurt another creature for no reason.
Now when one studies their conscience it is assumed they have one. Perhaps the person is a “lowlife” which means they are at the bottom of the Chakras, have never developed, are not spiritual.
Then there is the endeavor and holy effort to BECOME SPIRITUAL – It is done BY THE WILL. St. Scholastica asked her brother St. Benedict,
“How do I become a Saint?” He said,
“Will it.”
Yes, will it. If you DESIRE God – the entrance into YOUR SAHASRARA, THE KINGDOM OF GOD, that is the beginning, and God CANNOT AND WILL NOT “enter” you are become “activated” in you unless you take that first step of willing and desiring it.
This is what, in Christianity, is called “The Sinner’s Prayer.” It is the traditional way that a layman accepts Jesus Christ, Christ comes into his / her heart and then he is “born again.”
First, the person has to admit they are a sinner, that they need Christ, they repent, and they invite Jesus into their heart.
But this is not the only way to get “born again.” Hindus get “initiation” and “shaktipat, Jews get transformed, ditto Wiccans and Pagans, it’s in all religions somehow or other named, and Gurus like myself have our share of disciples being born again, transformed, and lifted through the Chakras.
The “born again” experience is the beginning of love. This begins unselfishness, getting out of the Freudian “ID” and the ego, immaturity; it’s when the person recognizes that others are as important as himself and he treats others as he wants to be treated. (And so, of course, such a man would not sit around with the guys bragging how he fucked women, as he would not want a woman to brag about how she conned him out of money – and even if women did abuse him, a great man would not retaliate in kind.)
If you are not healthy, you’re not sexy, and sex is healthy
And so, as I said, in order to make love, you have to have love. Love is a Power, a HIGHER ENERGY, as spirituality is determined by the height, depth, degree and propensity of its Power. It is not PHYSICAL DESIRE ALONE, (which is called “lust”). Desire or “lust” by itself is normal and natural, it becomes sin when someone is “used”. If your intention is to use someone, you have already sinned, as Jesus said, the man with lust in his heart has already committed adultery. But if you, the man or woman, wants to share love, which is ALIVE inside you, it is love! (I know this invites lowlifes to claim their sex acts are love, but saying it does not make it so. God knows and you know inside, what is the difference.)
This brings up the subject of sex being a sin, but only for women. We’re getting over the lack of logic here, men’s behavior is being outed, leaders and celebrities are now lambasted for “sins” only women were stoned for.
For thousands of years, women had to “stay in their lane”, while men enjoyed freedom; they had wives, mistresses, brothels, the money for multiple partners. The women’s chances diminished for lack of opportunity (meeting outsiders) and money (to reach out into the world where more men were.)
Women were also controlled by OSTRACISM. If they deviated from the man’s standards, they were tossed out as candidates for the rich husband, the highest paid job in town. When men are in power, they enforce their rules, power reverses and so does the onus. I have expressed this in “The Future of Men and Woman” in articles and books, since 2004.
As we are moving into role reversal, it is expedient that the males learn to please women, because they cannot control them by money any more. It will be other way around, except women will not be brutal tyrants as men have been – they have a maternal instinct (William Bond said this first).
In Conclusion
For Lesson two, it is a lesson in how to put God into sex: It is through Love, but you cannot put into a thing what you do not have, therefore, you have to cultivate Love, develop it in your own system.
When you do a loving thing to a mouse, or an elephant, you are loving God through the body of that animal. (The opposite is hating God.)
When you do a loving thing to the body of a woman, you are loving Mother God through her body.
God is Love and so are We
When you massage her, to make her feel good, you are showing love to God.
When you kiss her to show affection,, it is love for God.
When you caress her to comfort her , it is loving God.
When you give her oral sex, to please her, it is loving God.
When you hump her, hoping to give her pleasure, it is loving God.
ALL THAT WE DO IN LIFE, WITH LOVE, IS LOVING GOD.
There is also another consideration. Men need the Love or “Divine Energy” that is stronger in a woman than a man. Usually a woman has more compassion; it is easier for her to take care of people, She is a Mother. (But bear in mind you have to be humble toward her.) A man needs both the natural maternal and “supernatural” Divine Energy of a woman. If you, the man, take your time, in pleasing the female with your attentions, you will get more of that Divine Light. It will comfort you, give you health and well being.
It will serve you well to worship Mother God through the body of a woman.
Guru Rasa Von Werder 2 14 14
College of Love Making, SHAKTI AND SHIVA, TANTRA SEX
Message to Young Men: How to Worship a Woman…………………………
How to Make Love to a Woman <> Lesson One
Message to Young Men: How to Worship a Woman…………………………
How to Make Love to a Woman, Step One
First, you must recognize and accept her as the superior person, your leader. This especially pertains to women older than 50, you automatically seek guidance and counsel from them; they are your designated mentors.
When you think of a woman, it is with respect and reverence, never the way the old men taught you, as items of use and exploitation. Your approach to a female is not sexual dumping ground and exit, this is disrespectful and hate rather than love. Granted, your sex drive instinctively is to impregnate many women (nothing wrong with that) but this has to be done by consent, not chicanery.
When you look upon the Woman, you see the Greater God, the Shakti to your Shiva. You are a lesser God and your power and development depends on HER! First, the woman created you in her womb – a man cannot do that, his sperm is not reproductive, he cannot build a body in a womb. Second, the woman nurtures by her body and breast, her maternal power, until the baby can stand on its own. Men are not equipped for that. Therefore, you need her right from the moment of created life into adulthood. And in adulthood you receive her maternal power through sex. No man is a Mother, no man gives Maternal Power unless he is the level of Enlightenment (which is one in a million.)
Third, She has the Spiritual Power to transmit to you, which is called Shakti, the Feminine Divine.
In the Shakti religion, the man worships, serves the woman in the sex act. The more pleasure he gives her, the more prolonged, the better it is for him. The reason for this is when time and effort are taken, he receives more of the life-giving Nutritional Healing Energy. Her power comes from a deep wellspring of Love – it must be that way, for She takes care of the Human Race, humanity would have died out had not Woman taken care of children, the weak and the vulnerable.
It is not the MALE who is designated as life giver, nurturer and empath, he is, in fact, the opposite. He has a destructive element stronger than that of the woman (which must be controlled by the female), his love is weak, while She is a natural giver.
This difference is shown in the image of Shiva / Shakti, thousands of years old, that bespeaks Shiva as dead matter until Shakti stands on top of him (dominates him) and transmits her energy. She brings him to life, not the other way around.
Woman is Power, Man her Dependent
Here is what you seek, then, young man, when you approach a woman: you seek Life, not a dumping ground for sperm, but Life. If you see her in a demeaning way, you will not be blessed but cursed. If you use women, you use your Mother, and the wrath of the Universe will come upon you. No man can strike his Mother, injure her and go unscathed, and every woman is your Mother.
Woman is Superior to male as the Image Mother God Isis to her subordinate son, Horus. All women are Mothers to men, all men are sons to women.
That is your first lesson in sexuality, how you approach the woman with honor, how you worship her as Mother, Feminine Energy Divine – realizing that YOU NEED HER for life, health and Spiritual Realization.
Guru Rasa Von Werder 2 8 14
College of Love Making
The Importance of Touch – Touching the Woman
Article being worked on:
The skin is the biggest organ on the body. The great anthropologist Ashley Montagu wrote much regarding touch, how important it is. Touch can heal, infants die from lack of touch. Humans crave being touched, hugged, kissed, held. These are extremely important issues for both men and women. The old males have been teaching young ones how to make love too long – this is why we have the “blow and hump,” the “slam, bam, thank you Ma’am,” “they jump on your belly, they fill you with jelly” version of sex. We need more touch, caress, massage.
College of Love Making
What Women Want Regarding Sex
Article being worked on:
In the ancient days men served women in sex, today, women are serving men. We are going to turn the tables around for spiritual and economic reasons – the world is moving into Matriarchy. What exactly women used to get is the same thing they desire now – What is it?
