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How to Make Love Lesson II <> Putting God into Sex

How to Make Love Lesson Two
(Lessons geared toward men)

PUTTING GOD INTO SEX

In order to MAKE LOVE you have to HAVE LOVE.
You have to have a heart.

Love comes from the heart.  If the Heart Chakra is not open or pierced, then the person cannot contain it.  The Heart Chakra also GROWS, it widens, deepens, goes higher,  even to a place of the Grand Canyon if a person receives the grace of Stigmata, or martyrdom for Love

Love comes from the heart. If the Heart Chakra is not open or pierced, then the person cannot contain it. The Heart Chakra also GROWS, it widens, deepens, goes higher, even to a place of the Grand Canyon if a person receives the grace of Stigmata, or martyrdom for Love

To have a heart means to function from the Heart Chakra and above it, which Ramakrishna said is the BEGINNING of REAL or advanced spirituality.

The Chakras (spiritual energy centers) go from the bottom up, the Muladhara to the Sahasrara.  When you reach the Heart, you are now an official “saint” or spiritual proficient.  When you reach the Sahasrara, you are Enlightened or Realized, you KNOW you are God – (some religions d not permit their adherents to make such a claim, but they can say they are very close to the Creator.)

The sexual capacity runs life through everyone’s veins, be they spiritual or not.  And so, all sex is not making love.  After all, rape is not love, child molestation is not.  Many men go through the motions like automatons, machines, they brag about what they do in the company of other men.  They demean women, brag how they “porked” or “fucked” her.  They project a hateful attitude to the women they did sex to.  This has nothing to do with God or love; it is of the world, the flesh and the devil.

Now, on the other hand, what is love?  How is it expressed?  Jesus said,

“Whatever you do TO THE LEAST OF THESE YOU DO TO ME.”

What you do to the smallest creature, you do to God - God is manifested in all of physical life, all Life is God

What you do to the smallest creature, you do to God – God is manifested in all of physical life, all Life is God

That meant, to the least creature, animal or human:  Those who have no rights, no power, vulnerable, small, who cannot defend themselves.  Whatever you do SINFUL to the least of creatures, you DO TO GOD.

By the opposite, whatever good you do to the least of these, you do to God.  And so, every action that is of Love, you love God by.  Do a good deed, you love God.  Give in charity, you love God.  Think positive thoughts, pray, you love God.  And “making love” to another person by way of thought, word and deed IS ALSO LOVING GOD.  THAT IS HOW YOU WORSHIP GOD THROUGH THE BODY.

And so, putting it straight out, when you engage in the act of caressing, touching, kissing, sucking or humping, if you do this IN LOVE then it is MAKING LOVE, and that is the PROPER WAY TO MAKE LOVE, & indeed IT IS WORSHIP OF GOD THROUGH THE BODY, THROUGH SEX.

What you do to the smallest creature, you do to God - God is manifested in all of physical life, all Life is God

Worship of God through the body – Shaktism

Each person must study their own conscience.  Is your purpose in this to use up another person and demean them?  Usually, this is the sin of the man, not the woman.  It is the woman who gets disrespected in our culture for having sex pleasure.  (This is wrong, we women should give up this shame, but that is how it still is.)  And so, a man and woman get into bed together, she gives him her body, he uses it, he gets off, and then, he discards her like shyt in the toilet.  Next day he does not return her calls, when he sees her he acts like he doesn’t know her!  This is not love!  He might also physically injure a woman with his penis (if she is a virgin or her body is not ready) and worst of all, give her an unplanned pregnancy.  The woman takes much greater risk by lying down with a man than the opposite way around.

And so, to top it off, when the man, after having her, treats her in an offhanded manner, he is sinning against God, as he has hurt another creature for no reason.

Now when one studies their conscience it is assumed they have one.  Perhaps the person is a “lowlife” which means they are at the bottom of the Chakras, have never developed, are not spiritual.

Then there is the endeavor and holy effort to BECOME SPIRITUAL – It is done BY THE WILL.  St. Scholastica asked her brother St. Benedict,
“How do I become a Saint?”  He said,
“Will it.”
Yes, will it.  If you DESIRE God – the entrance into YOUR SAHASRARA, THE KINGDOM OF GOD, that is the beginning, and God     CANNOT AND WILL NOT “enter” you are become “activated” in you unless you take that first step of willing and desiring it.

This is what, in Christianity, is called “The Sinner’s Prayer.”  It is the traditional way that a layman accepts Jesus Christ, Christ comes into his / her heart and then he is “born again.”

First, the person has to admit they are a sinner, that they need Christ, they repent, and they invite Jesus into their heart.

But this is not the only way to get “born again.”  Hindus get “initiation” and “shaktipat, Jews get transformed, ditto Wiccans and Pagans, it’s in all religions somehow or other named, and Gurus like myself have our share of disciples being born again, transformed, and lifted through the Chakras.

The “born again” experience is the beginning of love.  This begins unselfishness, getting out of the Freudian “ID” and the ego, immaturity; it’s when the person recognizes that others are as important as himself and he treats others as he wants to be treated.  (And so, of course, such a man would not sit around with the guys bragging how he fucked women, as he would not want a woman to brag about how she conned him out of money – and even if women did abuse him, a great man would not retaliate in kind.)

If you are not healthy, you're not sexy, and sex is healthy

If you are not healthy, you’re not sexy, and sex is healthy

And so, as I said, in order to make love, you have to have love.  Love is a Power, a HIGHER ENERGY, as spirituality is determined by the height, depth, degree and propensity of its Power.  It is not PHYSICAL DESIRE ALONE, (which is called “lust”).  Desire or “lust” by itself is normal and natural, it becomes sin when someone is “used”.  If your intention is to use someone, you have already sinned, as Jesus said, the man with lust in his heart has already committed adultery.  But if you, the man or woman, wants to share love, which is ALIVE inside you, it is love!  (I know this invites lowlifes to claim their sex acts are love, but saying it does not make it so.  God knows and you know inside, what is the difference.)

This brings up the subject of sex being a sin, but only for women.  We’re getting over the lack of logic here, men’s behavior is being outed, leaders and celebrities are now lambasted for “sins” only women were stoned for.

For thousands of years, women had to “stay in their lane”, while men enjoyed freedom; they had wives, mistresses, brothels, the money for multiple partners.  The women’s chances diminished for lack of opportunity (meeting outsiders) and money (to reach out into the world where more men were.)

Women were also controlled by OSTRACISM.  If they deviated from the man’s standards, they were tossed out as candidates for the rich husband, the highest paid job in town.  When men are in power, they enforce their rules, power reverses and so does the onus.  I have expressed this in “The Future of Men and Woman” in articles and books, since 2004.

As we are moving into role reversal, it is expedient that the males learn to please women, because they cannot control them by money any more.  It will be other way around, except women will not be brutal tyrants as men have been – they have a maternal instinct (William Bond said this first).

In Conclusion

For Lesson two, it is a lesson in how to put God into sex: It is through Love, but you cannot put into a thing what you do not have, therefore, you have to cultivate Love, develop it in your own system.

When you do a loving thing to a mouse, or an elephant, you are loving God through the body of that animal.  (The opposite is hating God.)

When you do a loving thing to the body of a woman, you are loving Mother God through her body.

God is Love and so are We

God is Love and so are We

When you massage her, to make her feel good, you are showing love to God.
When you kiss her to show affection,, it is love for God.
When you caress her to comfort her , it is loving God.
When you give her oral sex, to please her, it is loving God.
When you hump her, hoping to give her pleasure, it is loving God.

ALL THAT WE DO IN LIFE, WITH LOVE, IS LOVING GOD.

There is also another consideration.  Men need the Love or “Divine Energy” that is stronger in a woman than a man.  Usually a woman has more compassion; it is easier for her to take care of people, She is a Mother.  (But bear in mind you have to be humble toward her.)  A man needs both the natural maternal and “supernatural” Divine Energy of a woman.  If you, the man, take your time, in pleasing the female with your attentions, you will get more of that Divine Light.  It will comfort you, give you health and well being.

It will serve you well to worship Mother God through the body of a woman.

Guru Rasa Von Werder   2  14  14

College of God & Love, Core Tenets, The New Religion XVI Sixteen Heal the Men

Training the Men for the Culture of Life

MOVING THE MEN INTO THE CULTURE OF LIFE
“Before I was complaining, now I am instructing.”

“THE PREDICAMENT FOR “WOMAN THOU ART GOD” WAS THE WOMEN.  “EMBODIMENT OF GOD” IS THE MEN”

RIGHT NOW I AM CONCENTRATING *NOT* ON THE EVILS MEN HAVE DONE, BUT ON THE EDUCATION OF MALES INTO MATRIARCHY.  WOMEN WILL GET IT BY NATURE, AND ALONGSIDE MY TEACHING THE MALES.  BUT THE MALES HAVE TO BE REACHED.  THEY ARE BEING USED BY THE OLD MEN FOR BRAINWASH INTO THE CULTURE OF DEATH.  I MUST BEGIN TEACHING THEM THE CULTURE OF LIFE, HOW THEY CONDUCT THEIR LIVES.  THIS IS THE BEGINNING, THIS IS EMBODIMENT OF GOD.  IT TOOK ME TEN YEARS AFTER WTAG WAS SEEDED TO GET TO THIS PLACE.  IT WILL TAKE TEN MORE BEFORE IT INFILTRATES THE MAINSTREAM.  IT SEEMS A LONG TIME – BUT THAT IS A VERY SHORT TIME TO CHANGE THE WORLD.

We are responsible for men, we have a chance to change them.  Let us do it!

We are responsible for men, we have a chance to change them. Let us do it!

WOMAN THOU ART GOD EMPOWERED WOMEN – LOOK AT THE SITES, THE WOMEN YOU ADMIRE.  THEY STOOD UP BECAUSE OF THE IDEA “I AM GOD”  “WOMAN IS GOD”  “EVER DAY IS MY SABBATH.”  I HELPED THE WOMEN RECLAIM THEIR IDENTITY, TO KNOW THEY ARE GOD.

NOW THE MEN HAVE TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE.  IT HAS TO BE EXPLAINED.  THEY THOUGHT THEY WERE THE MACHO MEN WHO HAD TO TAKE OVER BY FORCE, KILL EVERYTHING THAT STOOD IN THEIR WAY, USE UP WOMEN AND CHILDREN, MAKE WOMEN BREED FOR MORE BOYS AS CANNON FODDER.

THESE ARE THE PRECEPTS THE OLD MEN TAUGHT THEM.  THEY WERE VICTIMIZED, THEN THEY BECAME SLAVES TO THE MEN, THEN BECAME HELPLESS TO SATAN.  THE WOMEN COULD NOT SAVE THEM ONCE THE DAMAGE WAS DONE, BOYS ENTERED A FOUL WORLD WHICH VICTIMIZED WOMEN AS WELL.

Pic is Mother Kali, Creator, Destroyer, symbol of God Power at its most intense

Pic is Mother Kali, Creator, Destroyer, symbol of God Power at its most intense

NOW WOMEN ARE BREAKING FREE AND BASICALLY, LEAVING MEN BEHIND.  WOMEN ARE RISING, MEN ARE FALLING.  YOU DON’T SEE IT OBVIOUSLY BECAUSE IT’S LIKE THE FOREST AND THE TREES – YOU SEE THE TREES BUT NOT THE FOREST.  FUTURISTS SEE THE FOREST BECAUSE THEY READ STATISTICS.  OTHER PEOPLE, LIKE MYSELF, ALSO READ STATISTICS BUT THEY HAVE VISION FROM GOD – GOD LEADS THEM TO GET THE INFORMATION WHERE THEY WILL SEE A BIGGER PICTURE:  WHERE THE WORLD IS, WHERE IT IS GOING, WHAT HAS TO BE DONE ON THE WAY THERE.

THE PREDICAMENT FOR “WOMAN THOU ART GOD” WAS THE WOMEN.  “EMBODIMENT OF GOD” IS THE MEN, NOT THE SAME MESSAGE – SIMILAR BUT DIFFERENT  (OF COURSE, BECAUSE WE ARE NOT EQUALS, MEN AND WOMEN ARE DESIGNED FOR DIFFERENT ROLES IN LIFE.)

God does have a plan for our peace and happiness and She is putting it into effect:   Matriarchy...The gender war is over, Woman has won, man had his day, Mother God has her eternity

God does have a plan for our peace and happiness and She is putting it into effect: Matriarchy…The gender war is over, Woman has won, man had his day, Mother God has her eternity

 

I have said what I am saying here in books and hundreds of articles between 2006 and 2013, but now I am turning into a syllabus.  My tone is different.  Before I was complaining, now I am instructing.

My dear friend William Bond has done the same thing I have – hundreds of writings that say men have done a terrible job ruling our world – let the women take over!

But neither William Bond nor I have sat down and explained, in a tutorial setting, things like,

“What is a man?
What is his role?
What should he do? – with women, in particular?
How should a man please a woman in general and in bed?  What are the things he should do to please a woman sexually?”

Remember women like the soft, gentle touch, they are sensitive.  They like affection.  Don't wait to get a hardon to be nice to a woman.  Be kind, affectionate, charming not just as a way to get off on her - to show Love.  This will win her heart and make you happy as well.

Remember women like the soft, gentle touch, they are sensitive. They like affection. Don’t wait to get a hardon to be nice to a woman. Be kind, affectionate, charming not just as a way to get off on her – to show Love. This will win her heart and make you happy as well.

Yes, William and I (and Steve Andrews) have said ad nausea men are doing wrong, step aside and let women do it right.  But what do men do while women do right?  – what is the good behavior, and what is its reward?  What are the right thoughts, feelings on life, their view of women?

Patriarchy has left no stone unturned to teach men the Culture of Death.  Its edicts are everywhere, from religion, to academia, to medical science and media:  Everywhere, violence, invasion, and lies.  Everywhere, disrespect, exploitation, using up, forcefulness, stealing, war, torture, killing.  Men were forced into this.  First they were taught, as toddlers, what is a man.  Like so:

“You’re a boy – a man – men don’t cry.”

From infancy, in the hands of men and even duped women boys were taught to SHUT DOWN THEIR FEELINGS OF EMPATHY AND PAIN.  The result is “Zombie”:  Good for killing, good for being killed.

Men have to be able to cry without being afraid of ridicule.  To scold a boy for crying or being afraid, when he is a child, is wrong.  There is nothing wrong with feelings.

Men have to be able to cry without being afraid of ridicule. To scold a boy for crying or being afraid, when he is a child, is wrong. There is nothing wrong with feelings.

Men have feelings – strong ones, but they hide them, they are REPRESSED.  This is evident when you see the men LASHING OUT at others in violence and homicide, at themselves, when they can’t take it any more, SUICIDE.  Men commit suicide many times over women, five, ten times more statistics say (depending on age and geography.)

This REPRESSION OF FEELINGS is GOOD FOR WAR but BAD FOR LIFE.

But males have been INTIMIDATED into compliance.  If they try to have feelings, they are called sissies, mamma boys and other names that make them seem WEAK, INEFFECTIVE and unworthy of RESPECT.

At this time, the world is veering into Matriarchy, with women forging ahead.  Now is a time to look in the mirror, face the facts, and let men take down their guard, ADMIT THEY HAVE FEELINGS and having same does not indicate weakness, it’s called SENSITIVITY.

Sensitivity is awareness, an ability to sense, to feel.  One must have sensitivity in the arts, one must have it in loving another, one must have it to make right decisions, being sensitive to the differences between right or wrong, good judgment vs. bad.

War is evil, wars of conquest, wars of empire, wars of expansion, they are all demonic.  People have to defend themselves, of course, but the aggressors are the sinners.

War is evil, wars of conquest, wars of empire, wars of expansion, they are all demonic. People have to defend themselves, of course, but the aggressors are the sinners.

What the war machine did was make men SHUT DOWN AS HUMAN BEINGS and turned them (or tried) into killing machines, things who would do as they were told to innocent people, creatures that would prey on the innocents of an occupied country, devastate, mutilate children, women, rape the vulnerable, and kill with impunity. (See Susan Brownmiller’s “Men, Women and Rape”)  No soldier in the United States has ever been court marshaled for cruelty to citizens in an occupied country.  What does that say?  Open season on Citizens, go, do as thou wilt, they are your prey.

The “Rewards” of  Patriarchy

When men train men they do not speak about eternal life.  Their patter is this world alone.
“Do as we say and you will be rich. (or successful, well-liked, respected)  You’ll have all the women and toys you want.”

But Satan is a cruel tyrant, and he is a liar.  Although he promises “rewards” there is no guarantee he will give them, even if you steal, kill and destroy at his bidding.  Jesus had his number.

An important part of life is to understand what demonic temptation is.  In order to get it right, one must study theology and the saints, to be able to discern what a temptation or sin would be.  This is important.  Jesus studied, He studied Yoga in India for 17 years and he knew his Hebrew scriptures like a Rabbi.  So he knew how to answer temptation, he recognized it.

An important part of life is to understand what demonic temptation is. In order to get it right, one must study theology and the saints, to be able to discern what a temptation or sin would be. This is important. Jesus studied, He studied Yoga in India for 17 years and he knew his Hebrew scriptures like a Rabbi. So he knew how to answer temptation, he recognized it………………………………………………….This interesting but mysterious painting is a fetus in the womb, notice the umbilical cord?  When an infant is born, if left unhampered, it immediately begins to CRAWL UPWARD TO THE MOTHER’S BREAST.  The babe needs intimacy; physical, mental, emotional, with the Mother for up to five, six years, absolute minimum for a decent, normal foundation is two and a half.  Without this  follows dire consequences; depression, anxiety, homicide, suicide, substance abuse and sexual dysfunction.  This “attachment disorder” is now pandemic, as Patriarchy is not a good setting for Mother/child bonding.  The attachment disorder at its most serious point is called “detachment disorder” and then, only a professional might be able to help.  This is called “RADS”.  There might be lesions on the brain – (see the writings of Dr. James W. Prescott.)  They only diagnosed it in the seventies when placing orphans from the Ukraine with families in America, the situation with these children is overwhelming – all because of lack of Mother/child intimacy.

How Satan Tempted Jesus, How Patriarchy Tempts Men

Our Lord Jesus Christ went into the desert for forty days and forty nights, to fast and pray, to prepare for the hard ministry ahead of him.  When we prepare, we must encounter the worst there is, face it and overpower it.  During the end of this time, Satan appeared to him, disguised (possibly as an Angel, or a pious man), with temptations.  There was the temptation of turning stones into bread, the temptation of throwing himself off the pinnacle of the Temple, and Jesus, of course, shut him down. Then came the worst.

“Again, the devil taketh him up an exceeding high mountain, and showeth him all the kingdoms of the world, and the glory of them–Luke ( Luke 4:5 )”

the Mother Goddess DURGA battles our enemies, protects us in time of danger, avenges us when appropriate

the Mother Goddess DURGA battles our enemies, protects us in time of danger, avenges us when appropriate

Satan explains that the world BELONGS TO HIM!  (Jesus said in John three times that satan is “the prince of this world.”  This means following “the ways of the world,” which now means, for thousands of years, the way of Patriarchy (not Matriarchy, when there was no Satan, none of the Nature religions had him or believed in him.  Satan and his demons were released upon the earth after the takeover of Patriarchs!)

And saith unto him, All these things will I give thee if thou wilt fall down and worship me.

*****if thou wilt fall down and worship me*****…….(!)

Another of Kali.  God is God, God is all things to all people and takes any form.  God can be kind, or wrathful, supportive or destructive.  Our karma draws God upon us in any way we deserve.

Another of Kali. Kali is God, God is all things to all people and takes any form. God can be kind, or wrathful, supportive or destructive. Our karma draws God upon us in any way we deserve.

(from Bible Study Tools:)
“This was the sole but monstrous condition. No Scripture, it will be observed, is quoted now, because none could be found to support so blasphemous a claim. In fact, he has ceased now to present his temptations under the mask of piety, and he stands out unblushingly as the rival of God Himself in his claims on the homage of men. Despairing of success as an angel of light, he throws off all disguise, and with a splendid bribe solicits divine honor. This again shows that we are now at the last of the temptations…”

Read carefully what Bible Tools said.  First, Satan came disguised as a pious man or an Angel.  Failing to sway Jesus, he then presented to him the Kingdoms of the world and all their glory, but only if Jesus would bow down and worship him!

What does this mean to a young man offered the wealth, the “glory” of Patriarchy?  It means he sells his soul to the devil!  It means he loses his soul, destroys himself, for the possibility of transitory things.  It means he becomes soul-less, lifeless, he turns into an unthinking, unfeeling zombie, not caring about others, not caring about women, only caring about this world and its “glories.”

What profit a man if he GAIN the whole world, but LOSES his soul, for what will he exchange for his soul?

What profit a man if he GAIN the whole world, but LOSES his soul, for what will he exchange for his soul?

And in the case of guys going to war, they are told all the benefits.  But if they come back with limbs missing or Agent Orange style diseases, or post traumatic stress, then all the money in the world couldn’t give them their lives back, if they got the money.  But the government does not always take care of veterans; in fact, a few years ago they made a “mistake” and gave “tainted vaccines” laced with A.I.D.S to thousands of vets!  Veterans do not have an easy time upon return from war.  Even when they do get disability, does it take the place of a ruined life, the chance they lost their soul by killing innocent people and ravaging the occupied citizens?

It is for the things of this world that men sell their souls to the devil.  If they don’t go to war, they join corporate America.  They want to dominate women and they are told to treat women like shyt.  Indeed, they lead double lives.  Some of them have respectable fronts with wife and family, who they treat decently.  But when they are looking for “whores” they treat women as disposable garbage.  They have not a clue the sins they commit.  Every woman is a Mother! Lack of social status does not permit abuse and disrespect.

Every woman is a Mother - I understand, even women can be evil, but treat them all with respect in case they are not - to be offensive to any life is sin.  God is within all Creation.

Every woman is a Mother – I understand, even women can be evil, but treat them all with respect in case they are not – to be offensive to any life is sin. God is within all Creation.

Jesus teaches us how to deal with this Satan, and I teach my sheep:

Then saith Jesus unto him, Get thee hence, Satan–
for it is written–( Deuteronomy 6:13 ).
Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve

And the devil left him.

What is the devil, anyway?  He is HATE not LOVE, he is Patriarchy, the Culture of Death, not Matriarchy, the Culture of Life.

You also, Son, must say no to the demons of Patriarchy and yes to the angels of Mother God.

Do not let them intimidate you into believing a man is some sort of a forceful, violent person.  The greatest men who ever lived were forceful only when they had to be, with tyrants or bullies.  They were not sadists or tyrants or bullies. 

Follow the greatest men and women who ever lived.  They were not warlords or CEO’s!  What is a great human being, man or woman?  Let’s think in terms of opposites, the opposite of all that Patriarchs want you to do.  Here it is:

My Soul doth magnify the Lord, and my Spirit rejoices in God, my Savior!  Choose God, my sheep, God is within you in the deepest Sanctum Sanctorium, where Satan cannot enter.  Satan can enter, but never there, resist Satan and he will flee!

My Soul doth magnify the Lord, and my Spirit rejoices in God, my Savior! Choose God, my sheep, God is within you in the deepest Sanctum Sanctorium, where Satan cannot enter. Satan can enter, but never there, resist Satan and he will flee!

•    Have feelings, be sensitive.  Be sensitive with yourself as well as others.  Have concern about their needs, don’t be selfish, don’t use people.
•    Stand up for the weak, the vulnerable, do not abuse them.
•    Try to find out what love is.  See about sharing love with a female when seeking one, not dumping a load and bragging about it.  If you do the way of other men, you are in God’s eyes, a low life.
•    Check out the meaning of “virtue.”  There are hundreds of virtues, look them up!  Practice them!  Study the lives of the Saints!  As much as you can, follow in their footsteps!

Love is an energy, a constructive, positive, Healing, caring, life-giving energy.  Touch one another with love.  It's not "sex" - sex is something else.  It can have love in it also, but love can go to anyone.  Think love, you don't have to be present physically, think love, and love will grow within you.  And this is happiness.

Love is an energy, a constructive, positive, Healing, caring, life-giving energy. Touch one another with love. It’s not “sex” – sex is something else. It can have love in it also, but love can go to anyone. Think love, you don’t have to be present physically, think love, and love will grow within you. And this is happiness.

They say “virtue is its own reward.”  Being virtuous means being loving to others as well as yourself.  This is the Culture of Life, this is Matriarchy.  Welcome to Heaven, where folks love one another.  That’s what real men and real women do.

Guru Rasa Von Werder     2  10  14

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