DOMINATING MEN NOT THAT EASY IN A PATRIARCHAL SETTING
I AM SEEKING MODELS WHO ARE AS BEAUTIFUL AS THE ONES PICTURED ON THIS SITE, OF ALL RACES, FOR PAID WORK. IF YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL LIKE THIS OR KNOW ANYONE THAT IS, CONTACT ME.
Letters between William Bond and Rasa Von Werder
William: I am aware of how difficult it is for women to dominate men, but we can see in the West where women are brave enough to stand up against men, they are treated a lot better than in Eastern countries. There are a lot of unsung heroines out there, (like you) who by standing up for themselves against men, are making life a lot better for all Western women.
RASA: I’M GLAD WER’RE HAVING THIS DISCUSSION. I OF COURSE AGREE WITH WOMEN DOMINATING MEN, BUT IT’S IN THE DOING OF IT THAT THINGS GET TRICKY. AS YOU RECOMMENDED DOMINATION OF MEN, WILLIAM, I POINTED OUT THE DIFFICULTIES IN EVERY DAY LIFE, HOW VIOLENT THEY HAVE GOTTEN WITH ME WHEN I TOOK A TOUGH STANCE.
I KNOW THIS IS AN EXTREME ANALOGY, BUT IMAGINE SAYING TO THE SLAVES,
“STAND UP TO MASSAH. TELL HIM YOU ARE HUMAN, YOU DESERVE CERTAIN DIGNITIES. TELL HIM HE CANNOT GO TO THE SLAVE QUARTERS, PUSH YOUR HUSBAND ASIDE AND GET INTO BED WITH YOU. IT’S INHUMAN.
TELL HIM HE CANNOT SELL YOUR HUSBAND TO ANOTHER PLANTATION, THAT’S SO CRUEL.
DEMAND AN EDUCATION, A REAL ONE, READING AND WRITING, NOT JUST HOW TO DO SLAVE WORK.
TELL HIM YOU WANT DECENT FOOD, NOT JUST THE INTESTINES OF THE HOG THEY THROW OUT TO YOU AFTER THEY EAT THE GOOD PARTS, YOU WORK FROM SUNUP TO SUNSET SO HE CAN MAKE MONEY FROM YOU, AND YOU LIVE IN A SQUALID SHACK, NO RUNNING WATER, NO AMENITIES, NO BOOKS, FAMILIES SPLIT UP BY BEING SOLD, PEOPLE GETTING BEATEN AND HANGED.
YOU MAY BE A SLAVE, BUT YOU DESERVE SOME RIGHTS AT LEAST – DEMAND THEM.”
THE TRUTH IS, IT WAS WRITTEN INTO LAW, THE LAW OF THE LAND OF AMERICA, THAT A SLAVE HAD NO RIGHTS – A SLAVE WAS PART HUMAN, NOT FULLY HUMAN. THE OWNER COULD DO WHATEVER HE WISHED WITH HIS PROPERTY INCLUDING PUNISHMENT AND MURDER. THEY WERE LIKE LIVING, BREATHING FURNITURE, MACHINES OR SEX TOYS.
A LOT OF BLOOD WAS SHED BEFORE SLAVES GOT THEIR RIGHTS TO BE TREATED WITH DIGNITY.
THOSE WHO ARE “ENSLAVED” ECONOMICALLY, WOMEN BY MEN, ARE IN THE SAME BOAT. I AM NOT SAYING TO THAT EXTREME, BUT IT IS SIMILAR. THE POOR ARE ABUSED, EXPLOITED BY THE RICH – PATRIARCHY MAKES IT SO, WANTS IT SO.
YOU YOURSELF WILLIAM HAVE SAID THAT SOME WOMEN WERE INTIMIDATED BY MY WORK – THEY FOUND IT SCARY BECAUSE I AM SO EXTREME AGAINST MEN. THERE’S A REASON FOR SUCH FEELINGS – FEAR OF VIOLENCE. I AM SIMPLY EXPRESSING WHAT HAPPENS, NOT SAYING WE SHOULD NOT DOMINATE MEN, JUST SAYING WHAT WE COME UP AGAINST.
DID YOU KNOW, FOR INSTANCE, THAT WHEN BETTY FRIEDAN CALLED THE FIRST SIT-IN PRO WOMEN, SHE GOT HER FACE BASHED IN BY HER HUSBAND THE NIGHT BEFORE? IT WAS THE PLAZA HOTEL IN NEW YORK – THEY HAD A BAR FOR MEN ONLY, SO MEN COULD NETWORK IN BUSINESS, AND BETTY AND CO. KNEW THIS WAS UNFAIR, THEY CONDUCTED A SIT IN. SHE HAD TO WEAR HEAVY MAKEUP AND SUNGLASSES TO HIDE HER BLACK EYES. THE HUSBAND WAS NOT A THUG, A PROFESSIONAL CLASS MAN, BUT THEY ARE FRIGHTENED WHEN WE EVEN MOVE TOWARD EQUALITY, THEY GET HYSTERICAL WHEN WE PREACH SUPREMACY.
WHY DO YOU THINK MOST WOMEN WHO ARE TAKING A HARD STANCE, SUCH AS MYSELF, ARE DOING IT IN SECRET? DOES ANYONE KNOW WHO FEMALE SUPREMACY NOW 2 – ON FACE BOOK – IS? NO, YOU DON’T. SHE IS UNDER COVER. WHY? – FOR SELF PROTECTION. PROTECTION FROM WHAT? FROM MEN AND PATRIARCHY, THEIR ATTITUDES, THEIR ACTIONS.
I THANK GOD FOR TWO THINGS: ONE, THAT SHE MADE ME STRONG, THROUGH TRAINING, LOTS OF PAIN AND HARDSHIP, TO STAND UP AGAINST THE SYSTEM, AGAINST BULLIES, MEN AND WOMEN.
AND SECOND, THAT I AM NOT DEPENDENT ON ANY “RESPECTABLE” TYPE JOB SITUATION, SAY, PROFESSIONAL JOB, OR ANY JOB, WHERE I HAVE TO ANSWER TO A PATRIARCHAL SYSTEM. IF ONE ANSWERS TO PATRIARCHY, ONE CANNOT STAND AGAINST IT. (SPEAKING OF WHICH, DO YOU IMAGINE THAT I CAN GET MY BOOKS REVIEWED BY PATRIARCHAL MEN, ON THE RADIO OR NEWSPAPERS? THEY REFUSE TO INTERVIEW ME OR REVIEW MY BOOKS.) THEY FIRE YOU. THAT IS MOST PROBABLY WHY A LOT OF THESE YOUNG WOMEN HAVE TO WORK IN SECRET – THEY HAVE PROFESSIONAL CLASS LIFESTYLES AND JOBS. THAT MEANS – NOTHING UNUSUAL CAN MANIFEST, NO MATRIARCHY, NO WICCA, NO LESBIAN LIFE.
GOD HAS SECURED ME FINANCIALLY SO I CAN WORK IN THE OPEN – NO ONE CAN FIRE ME. I ANSWER ONLY TO MYSELF AND GOD. WHEN I DID WORK, IT WAS THE ADULT TRADE – THEY DON’T FIRE YOU FOR ACTIVISM WORK; MOREOVER, IF THEY DO, YOU ARE NOT EMPLOYED BY ANY ONE PLACE, YOU KEEP IT MOVING, GET A JOB SOME PLACE ELSE.
I AM JUST EXPLAINING THE HARDSHIPS. I WANT TO DOMINATE THESE BASTARDS AND DOING ALL I CAN TO DO SO.
I HOPE AND PRAY THAT WHAT WE DO IN THE WEST WILL INFLUENCE, IN TIME, THE THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES WHERE WOMEN ARE BRUTALIZED, ESPECIALLY THE MUSLIM COUNTRIES.
Men inflict violence onto other men, and we learn as boys that if you don’t stand up for yourself you will be far more likely to beaten up than if you give in to intimidation. Men who are bullies look for easy targets, this is why they pick on other men smaller than themselves, or many of them will gang up on one man. They will also do the same to women, for the same reason. These bullies are all cowards. What women need is a powerful sisterhood, where they support and protect each other.
RASA SAYS: AGREED. WHEN I WAS IN GRAMMAR SCHOOL, I WAS CONSISTENTLY ASSAULTED BY A BLACK GIRL, NANCY, WHO INTIMIDATED ME AND ONCE HIT ME IN THE MOUTH AND INJURED ME. FINALLY, ONE DAY, WHEN SHE CAME UP TO ASSAULT ME I SPOKE HARSHLY TO HER – AND FROM THEN ON, SHE LEFT ME ALONE.
HER COUSIN WAS NASTY ALSO. IN THE SCHOOL YARD, HE PICKED UP A CAT AND BEGAN TO SWING IT ROUND AND ROUND BY ITS TAIL. THIS BOY WAS 16, I WAS 12. ALTHOUGH I WAS PEACEFUL, NOT PRONE TO VIOLENCE, I TORE INTO THAT BOY TO MAKE HIM STOP – NO ONE ELSE AROUND HAD THE GUTS TO DO SO. I STOPPED THE BULLY.
MY POINT IS THAT I CAN FIGHT, BUT ONE HAS TO CHOOSE ONE’S BATTLES, MAKING SURE THERE IS A REWARD AND AS LITTLE DAMAGE AS POSSIBLE. THE IDEA IS YOU DON’T JUMP INTO THE FRAY, GET BLOODY AND LOSE THE FIGHT, OR SUFFER HARM THAT IS DEVASTATING OR CATASTROPHIC. YOU ARE “IN IT TO WIN IT.”
I know women think men are shallow and only want women for their bodies, but not all men are the same. There are men out there who do have deeper feelings. Personally, I have always liked intelligent women, that has been the main thing that attracted me.
RASA SAYS: INDEED. I SNAGGED A HOTTIE LAST FRIDAY AND IN BETWEEN HUMPS WE DISCUSSED EINSTEIN’S THEORY OF RELATIVITY. HE IS CHINESE—TALL, GORGEOUS LIKE BRUCE LEE AND KNOWS KARATE, (20 YRS OLD) INTELLIGENT, STUDYING PHYSICS. WHAT HE LIKED ABOUT ME, HE SAID, WAS THE WAY I MOVED, I WAS MAGIC.
HE SAW ME DANCING – I INCORPORATE MARTIAL-ARTS STYLE MOVES INTO MY DANCING, WHICH FASCINATED HIM AND HIS ROOMMATE – THEY CAME OVER AND ASKED MY NAME. WE SPOKE, THEY LOOKED ME UP ON WIKIPEDIA, WE DANCED AND BECAME FRIENDLY.
MEN ARE NOT ALL BAD. OBVIOUSLY I AM HETEROSEXUAL AND I KNOW THEY ARE GOING EXTINCT, AND I WANT TO GET TO AS MANY AS POSSIBLE BEFORE THEY ARE GONE. (THAT IS A JOKE.) HAHA, IT WILL BE A FULL 100,000 YEARS BEFORE THEIR DEMISE, LOTS OF TIME.
BTW, ONE OF MY LADY FRIENDS CANNOT FATHOM HOW I CAN BE SO ANTI-MALE AND YET ENGAGE IN ROMANTIC TRYSTS. SHE THINKS I TALK TO THEM THE WAY I WRITE MY ARTICLES.
I HAVE TWO SETS OF FEELINGS – ONE SET FOR PATRIARCHAL MEN WHO WANT TO DESTROY WOMEN AND THE PLANET – I OF COURSE SEE THEM AS ENEMIES OF GOD AND MYSELF.
MY OTHER SET OF FEELINGS ARE FOR NORMAL MEN, NOT PATRIARCHAL, WHO ARE ALSO THE VICTIMS OF PATRIARCHS. THESE MALES HAVE A FUTURE THAT COULD INCLUDE THE MATRIARCHAL WAY OF LIFE. I AM TRYING TO VEER THEM AWAY FROM PATRIARCHY INTO THE WORLD OF LOVE AND SANITY. I HAVE NO ANIMOSITY FOR THESE MALES AND WHEN I CHOOSE MY DATES, THEY ARE OF THE LATTER KIND.
THESE ARE THE ONES WE ARE PREPARING FOR FEMALE DOMINATION.
THE OTHER ONES ARE THOSE WE MUST DEFEAT IN BATTLE – THE BATTLE OF MOTHER GOD ANNIHILATING SATAN AND HIS HORDES.
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