College of the Gender War

We Must Get the Young Males Away from the Old Men

Articles being worked on:

“Old Woman, Young Man, Why They Belong Together” explains why the old women must take charge of guys.  In the ancient days all the young men automatically were guided, mentored by mature women and also were taught the arts of love.  Today this goes into the hands of old men, who teach through pulpits, pornography and child molesting.  It’s a sad world when men are taken away from their Mothers and righteous women to be twisted and destroyed by the Patriarchal men.  We are getting back to the original concept now, the world will improve, people will be happy once again.

College of the Gender War

Males Must be Discouraged From Gratuitous Violence

Article being worked on:

Lt. Colonel Dave Grossman presents “Killology,” – explaining how boys are TAUGHT TO KILL.  It’s done by media, video games, TV, movies; Patriarchal venues that encourage violence..  We cannot be teaching boys how to kill if we want a peaceful and happy world.

 

College of the Gender War

Women’s Sexuality Must Not be Repressed

Article being worked on:

My friend, Dr. James W. Prescott, explained that those societies which did not repress female sexuality (and sex in general) were peaceful, but those who did repress female sexuality were VIOLENT!  This is much food for thought!  It seems that liberation for women harbors peace!  Details will be discussed.

College of Love Making

The Importance of Touch – Touching the Woman

Article being worked on:

The skin is the biggest organ on the body.  The great anthropologist Ashley Montagu wrote much regarding touch, how important it is.  Touch can heal, infants die from lack of touch. Humans crave being touched, hugged, kissed, held.  These are extremely important issues for both men and women.  The old males have been teaching young ones how to make love too long – this is why we have the “blow and hump,” the “slam, bam, thank you Ma’am,” “they jump on your belly, they fill you with jelly”  version of sex.  We need more touch, caress, massage.

College of God & Love

What’s God Got to do With It?

Article being worked on:

We claim that Shaktiism teaches us to worship Mother God through our bodies when we are making love.  How is this done?  Does the male worship the female and the female worship the male?  What is the procedure?

College of Love Making

What Women Want Regarding Sex

Article being worked on:

In the ancient days men served women in sex, today, women are serving men.  We are going to turn the tables around for spiritual and economic reasons – the world is moving into Matriarchy.  What exactly women used to get is the same thing they desire now – What is it?

Core Tenets

WE MUST SAVE MEN FROM MEN!

From Guru Rasa

We must save men from men!  What men from what men?
The INNOCENT YOUNG men from the OLD PATRIARCHAL, SET IN THEIR WAYS men.

We must save women from men.
We must save children from men.
We must save animals from men.
We must save the sky from men.
We must save the oceans from men.
We must save the Earth from men.
We must save Nature from men.
We must save the planet, and everything on it, from men.

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Innocence is all over him

WE MUST SAVE MEN FROM MEN.

I never saw it so clearly until this very day, Jan. 26, 2014, after prayer and exorcism.  It is a REVELATION, a VISION and it gives me a kind of GOOD FEELING when I think of the innocence, the naiveté, the vulnerability of the young males, for whom hangs in the balance either LIES or TRUTH, with the indoctrination of the OLD MEN or the OLD WOMEN.

Here the young ones come into the world, free from sin.  And they the demons attack them, the Patriarchy sets upon them.  They are surrounded by embodied thoughts and individuals, who shout and scream what a man should be, who intimidate, cajole, reinforce over and over the tendency to violence and domination, exploitation and greed, caring not for anyone, using life up, having no feelings – shutting them down.  Boys are turned into zombies, or criminals, unable to feel with their whole heart and soul, their systems compromised, their brains nullified, their connection to God terminated.

It is important now that we women take over the care of the young, the guidance, the mentorship, the tutoring.  In the absence of our take charge of boys, the demons prevail and we must stop them.

I must reframe my mission to see ever more clearly that boys are the VICTIMS of men.  They do not go WILLINGLY into Patriarchy, the world of the devil and Hell, they are FORCED.  No child, if given a rational choice between the two cultures would choose Patriarchy.  It is when they minds are unformed, they are incapable of understanding or making a rational choice, that Patriarchy is forced upon them.

When the Mother tries to teach Love to a boy, she is shouted down by all those around her.  The Mothers, the sisters, the Aunts, Grandmothers, elders, old and young women must TAKE CHARGE, AGGRESSIVELY, and formulate WHAT IT IS THAT WE MUST DO TO SAVE THE BOYS.

I believe it is necessary to write out absolute scriptures that counteract Patriarchy and defy its tenets, and I shall work on it and put it on the website, “Embodiment of God.:

Onward and upward, good women and men.  Gird our loins, go to the fight.

College of Matriarchal Love, Core Tenets

Harems Of Men For Women

NEW TEACHING I WILL LIVE OUT AS AN EXAMPLE TO MATURE WOMEN & THE FUTURE!

Harems of men for women! Women living for their own pleasure, not forever sacrificing themselves to others!

What I outline now is my future, & this future will be lived as an example to women everywhere. As I have always EMBODIED a thing which I did, that taught others by example, I will now embody a lifestyle that is considered taboo by the standards of Patriarchy. We will once again disturb the assumptions of culture & shake up a lot of people to the core.

I will live TO BE HAPPY. I mean to be happy FOR MYSELF, not constantly sacrificing, mortifying & giving away, but using my own God-given money MYSELF as a creature & a woman.

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I am fairly wealthy now, & going to be wealthier, & with this money I will buy a mansion in California, & in this mansion I will continue taking pictures of beautiful males & having fun with them. That’s it in a nutshell, but there are details.

I will dress in beautiful clothes, feeling attractive & desirable & acting that way. I will do whatever it takes to present beauty in my appearance.

It looks like there will be several new sources of income for me in the future. I predict the movie of my life will finally be produced. This would center on the past, most notably, “Stripping for God.” But today I am building a website that reveals my present activities – a Reality TV show will be offered me to document this. So there are two additional sources of income, the movie & TV show. Not saying this will all happen THIS YEAR. It will be 2017-18 before all these factors gel.

Now if I were the typical woman my age, I would center around family affairs, gardening, knitting, charitable giving, all the things rich old women do. Nothing of the sort. I will break the mold & create a new identity, beyond Auntie Mame, like her but more extreme. (Not saying I will be a Scrooge, charity will not be forgotten. I might add that what I do here is not “hedonism,” or “selfishness” in the NEGATIVE sense. In the positive sense, I am doing what God wants for myself & others. I have lived a long life of suffering, poverty, renunciation & giving. This is my reward. Many deserve such a reward. It is given to Great Saints to “die” once, then the Resurrection. We do not stay on the Cross forever. At some point, we reach Heaven, & this can begin on Earth. God is not a mean God, She wants us, through our trials, to eventually gain total happiness.)

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As usual, women are supposed to be self-sacrificers – why are they not allowed to live, to be happy for themselves? All the relatives stand around with the needs she is supposed to supply – that’s all she’s good for – money! The assumption here is HER LIFE IS OVER, she is washed up, out to pasture, not good for anyone or anything, certainly NO MAN WANTS HER! She, most notably, is not supposed to have a SEX DRIVE. God forbid, how perverted, how sickening, a woman over sixty who wants to have sex, & sex not with Viagra propped old men, but young men who can’t keep it down! This is unheard of, this is wrong, this is an aberration, how dare woman you want this?!

But what about Hugh Hefner? Why do people smile at the idea of the rich, powerful, now old man of 85, who dates only the young? Have you seen the Playboy spreads that feature “mature” women, “WOMEN OVER 31?” And Hugh admits he has to take Viagra to “satisfy” his woman – women need no Viagra to have sex!

Let’s face it, since the onset of Patriarchy, it’s all about the women – get the women – control the women – sex the women. Without the women wealth & power, what do they mean? This is accurately explained by the renowned geneticist Dr. Bryan Sykes of Oxford University – the man who told the world that human males are going extinct.

Bryan Sykes explains how in the beginning of Patriarchy it was all about women – conquest for women – war for women. Males amassed harems of from 300 for the Pharaohs to 16,000 by the warlord Genghis Khan. (There is also a contingent that want men of course. Wherever there are homosexuals there are harems of boys, from the altar boys of the Catholic to boys choirs, to Boy Scouts, to male models, to military men – wherever there are boys, young men, they are amassed in “harems” for men who want them. These men naturally either have money or authority over the young males.)

The idea of a female having a harem is unheard of, because harems go along with wealth & power. But more than that, harems for women are denounced & forbidden by Patriarchal religion & culture. So as I said, even the women who in Patriarchy, have lots of money, this money is not spent for harems of young males!

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For what I am about to do publicly, is forbidden to women. No woman (in the mainstream culture) is allowed to have multiple males. If they do they are denounced as “immoral” – while males for the most part are forgiven (the double standard of morality, & this applies not only to sex but crime—women are given far harsher punishment for a crime than are men). Of course, this concept is breaking up with the advent of Matriarchy & the descent of Patriarchy, but my activities will hurry this along.

In about 3-4 years, at my age of 72 or thereabouts, you will see my mansion in Hollywood or Beverly Hills, elevated with spectacular pools, an indoor-outdoor house great for photography. You will see me in person cavorting with the young males I meet & hire – taking images of them & having fun. I will espouse my theories on life – all this will be documented on television.

I will be in demand once again on TV talk shows & documentaries, radio, & public appearances. This present lifestyle coupled with the movie “I Strip for God” will blow the demand for me sky high. I will go on TV shows with one or more models, they will pose, I will explain the philosophy. It’s Female Empowerment once again! It’s table turning, it’s role reversal, it’s freeing up of women to have fun, to live, & to live life abundantly, to be free including the freedom for old women to have fun with multiple young men!

To reiterate: Older women will be encouraged to follow in my footsteps, they will see the idiocy that women over fifty are finished, over the hill. It’s possible that young males want us, especially if we have resources. Courage, self confidence, & seeing the truth is what happens here. Some of them will take up cameras & become photographers like me, others will pursue different venues by which they can meet young males – all for good – to gain their own happiness & influence males toward a positive culture.. As I said, I lifted weights, then other women lifted weights. The idea of fitness for women became mainstream. I preached Female Supremacy through domination, the domination theme went mainstream. I preached “Woman, Thou Art God,” now women are accepting their divinity. This is another leg on the body of Female Empowerment, I light the way, they follow.

PS I welcome a forum on this. I would especially like my confrere William Bond to comment. Friends, please share this on your timelines & allow discussions. This is the big future project that will catapult Matriarchy further up the road.
As I said, I have always embodied what I preached. I brought forth Female Body Building, Stripping for God, & Female Domination into the mainstream, I have brought out, with William Bond, the principles of Matriarchy to a world audience. Now this. Discussion will ferment the cycle of liberating minds, forming ideas & concepts.

From Guru Rasa Von Werder, 12 28 13

Core Tenets, SHAKTI AND SHIVA, TANTRA SEX

Sexual Freedom Is Part Of Female Empowerment

 

Through my “trials & tribulations” of trying to “have fun” & have relationships with many males, I have been assaulted, accused on groups with all kinds of statements such as this: “Your choice of men is bad” – “how can you expect a man in his twenties to be suitable for a long-term relationship?” – “these men aren’t going to love you, but you dated them, your fault.”

The assumptions about dating go back to the days prior to Betty Friedan’s book “The Feminine Mystique.” The book, published in 1963, brought about the “second wave” of the Feminist movement. It challenged the image & role of women perpetrated by men – their identity/behavior, saying that women’s lives should center around a marriage, ONE MAN, children & domestication. The claim was that this was the FULFILLMENT & ONLY SUITABLE ROLE FOR WOMEN! – If women OBEYED this path they would find happiness, to deviate from it was abnormal & NEUROTIC! It was preached from the pulpits of men that sex was only for procreation & having sex with more than one partner was a sin. (However, this sin applied only to women, men were exonerated when they did the same thing.)

On the other hand, while preaching what women should do, men were making it DIFFICULT for them to get jobs – especially good ones. They could do menial work, service to others, the lowest paying jobs – maids, nurses, grammar school teachers. They also did, & still do, most of the volunteering. (Males feel they are more valuable & should be paid for all that they do.) Education was PREJUDICED against women (women were disallowed to enter Ivy League Colleges!) – Women were not encouraged or financed by family to enter college. When parents had a boy & girl, but college money for only one – the boy got college, the girl expected to marry money. The props were underneath males, the female had to get her props from a man, which instituted female slavery. The best job for women was marriage, the highest paying job was marry a rich man. (Job description: you cook & clean, breed, stay faithful, serve all the man’s needs while feeding his ego, tolerate his faults including being pushed around, accept his freedom to have other women, forget your ambitions for independent success. You are not supposed to “stand on your own two feet” – Patriarchy doesn’t allow it. Either stay alone & poor, or marry, it is the only way out of poverty. And so for women, it was either poverty or slavery. Most chose slavery, hoping for the best.

There is another important factor to all of this. There were always wealthy women –for ages, even during the height of male supremacy. Often these women got wealthy through inheritance, either their family or husband leaving them money. (Even though in many countries, if there was a son, the oldest son, in the absence of a will, got the wife/mother’s money! This meant the son could squander or spend money lavishly while the woman who bore & raised him was left penniless! Also consider any daughters born did not inherit!)

In spite of these stumbling blocks, there were some women who did inherit lots of money, but having money by itself did not determine they would be free, for even when she had money, she was forced to behave in a certain way. If she did not, she was ostracized, persecuted, called crazy, perverted & immoral. So if a woman wanted to say, have a harem of men, it would have to be secret, she could not conduct her lifestyle openly. But people usually find out about such things & a woman like that would become an outcast. Most people want to be accepted by society, it’s all about being a part of the whole, belonging, so usually, women would not veer outside the range of convention; having an “abnormal” lifestyle would usually bring more pain than pleasure. This is how women were kept under control. Bear in mind that, for men, it was all about harems, multiple partners. They of course did not all house women under one roof, as did ancient Kings, Pharaohs & Emperors, or today Muslims & Mormons. But they had/have multiple affairs forbidden to women.

This is, however, the beginning of 2014. Many strides have been made for women. They have moved into every type job formerly closed, including construction, police work, fire-women & military. It is illegal to discriminate against women in government-subsidized work, & they have to be paid the same. Women are totally outstripping men in education, they can no longer be barred from any school of learning– It has been discovered what we knew all along, that women are more intelligent than men. It’s also now known that women are better at management and leadership, & we’re moving toward a female-empowered, female led world – we are on the cusp of Matriarchy – all this happened in 50 years.

And so, enter the present. Do we now live by the norms prior to 1963? Or have the norms changed? They have changed, but the ideas of older days still linger in the minds of many, we’re not out of the Patriarchal woods.

Here are the assumptions free women will be assaulted with, the moral, religious, cultural ideas:

· You are supposed to look for long-term relationships where a man wines & dines you, respects you, asks you to get engaged or married, & this man has to be a financial provider. It is the man that is supposed to chase you, the woman does not chase the man. She might entrap him like a spider to a web, but woman does not openly chase men. Neither does she pay for dates or pay males for companionship, or support males except in unusual arrangements.

· Women are not supposed to chase men for sex. It is the men that want sex, not women. Women either endure sex for the sake of a relationship, or they might enjoy it, but with one partner. Women who pursue sex with more than one man are going to be called names & ostracized from society – you will not see them invited to respectable venues, they are considered the underworld of tramps, whores, sluts & prostitutes. They are not fit to be in decent company. On the other hand, men who do likewise, such as Hugh Hefner, are to be applauded. “He is the man!” I hear boys say, they WANT TO BE LIKE HIM! Having multiple partners is the hallmark of Patriarchy. After war, it is their biggest stock in trade. Multiple partners is a sign of Power, Leadership, Freedom & Pleasure. And so, this is only for MEN, NOT FOR WOMEN!

· for Older Women – sex is FINISHED. They are not allowed to HAVE FUN, certainly nothing outlandish, ostentatious or sexual. Young, women serve a purpose as outlined, to SERVE MEN. (Mature men want young women but the truth is, young men want older women!) But old women cannot serve men except, perhaps as maids or caretakers. They cannot breed & they are “over the hill,” not desirable sexually. (This is a total lie, as most young males are attracted to older women! But they are told in so many ways this is a taboo, the older woman is your Mother or Grandmother, she is not for sex, to want her for sex is an aberration. If you date an older woman you will be ridiculed & humiliated! Naturally, the older man is exempt from prejudice, he is GOOD FOR SEX!) The older woman is to be pushed aside, “stay in your lane” she is told, you have no WISDOM or LEADERSHIP ability, as women do not have such qualities, & as the Mormon harem-mongers say, SHE IS LUCKY A MAN STILL SUPPORTS HER (as part of his harem!) as she has no purpose in life!

· So therefore, say, a woman of today wants to have sex with multiple males. Say she is an older woman, like Mae West. Say she has money. Society has now changed toward this but not entirely, it is the beginning of a trend that will one day be common place. Once upon a time, when women prevailed, they had sexual freedom. Now they are getting it again, in increments.

So I can declare I am not looking for monogamous relationships, nor do my affairs have to be long term. They can last one night or many years. I am not looking for an older man to support me. I am not seeking “respectability” – I have no “shame” – I am not ashamed of what is natural, created by God. I seek sex, I want as much as possible from many males of my choice, & I prefer young ones. I am willing to pay their way, as old men once paid mine. Yes, I will chase them as men once chased me. I am not desperate, neither is Hugh Hefner. We have awaked to a new day. The day of female empowerment, & part of this is all I have stated, the right to have fun, have sex, chase men, support them & live happily ever after with an ever-changing harem.

Guru Rasa, 12 30 13

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IMPRIMATUR FOR GURU RASA FROM JERRY KATZ, THE WEST’S TOP SCHOLAR OF NONDUALITY!

Jerry Katz Message 1 of 5 , Aug 22, 2008 View Source #3264 – Thursday, August 21, 2008 – Editor: Jerry Katz

The Nonduality Highlights – http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NDhighlights

Rasa Von Werder is an old-fashioned guru advocating celibacy and confessing God as sex. Rasa has over 400 videos on her YouTube channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/rasavonwerder. Most of the videos are erotic dances (to good hit songs), which is appropriate since she claims to be God and that God is sex. Rasa dances like a Buddhist prayer flag blowing in a wild breeze.

(RASA SAYS:  I WAS CELIBATE FOR 30 YEARS, THIS ENDED IN 2008)

Many of the videos are very good lectures. She speaks about her own spiritual shortcomings, emptiness, doubts, and needs even while claiming she is God, an Avatar, Guru. I like that contrast. She claims it is easier to remain a contemplative in a cave or in a room than to go out in the world as an activist. The latter opens one to doubts and torment.

On her YouTube page she writes, “(Rasa) espouses Female Empowerment — Matriarchy is coming! — She teaches souls how to find ONENESS or UNION with GOD, the STEPS to ENLIGHTENMENT & CONTEMPLATION of GOD!”

What follows is a letter showing how a devotee approaches Rasa and how Rasa responds. Rasa Von Werder is a nonduality teacher of the kind that weaves a dream and magnetizes her personality, thus drawing people to her. Like sex, she uses personality, in a fun, loving way.

Rasa is probably not your type of nondual Guru, but I think you can enjoy her. She teaches us to see that there is nothing but God. In the following exchange, Rasa types in ALL CAPS.~ ~ ~

Rasa’s newsletter Jerry Katz is responding to: WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE MOTHER GOD ON EARTH?

The University of Mother God Church www.WomanThouArtGod.com 8 20 08

Right now there have been a good number of men and women who have had visions and revelations that Rasa is not ‘a woman’ of the ordinary flesh, but ‘Mother God on Earth’ and they call her ‘God.’ You may check her site, Woman Thou Art God, under Rasa Devotees to see some of these testimonies. Many new testimonies came in which have not been uploaded as the site is now static due to Rasa working full time on Youtube. The following is the latest person who has understood that RASA IS GOD because it has been revealed to him BY GOD, THE HOLY SPIRIT.

The vision of Raj:

You will marry seventy men and rule the nation of women as God. You are powerful because you are the true Avatar.

Letter from RAJ:

My Guru and Avatar

O GREAT GURU,

I am Raj, 23, living in America. Please forgive me if I offend you in anyway. I only wish to bow down and serve you. I have read about you as an avatar, and at first I was puzzled. But i printed out a page with your picture, and i prayed to you. My prayers came true. Just last night I had a dream that your spirit angel ordered me to message you. The angel is a woman, she is powerful with wings of gold. She said I am to be your fifth husband, and that I shall be your favorite. You will marry seventy men and rule the nation of women as God. You are powerful because you are the true Avatar.

O My God,

Please accept me as your devotee, lover, and husband.

I want to serve you.

YES IT IS TRUE

BUT FEW PEOPLE KNOW OR UNDERSTAND IT AS THEY ARE NOT IN TOUCH WITH GOD LIKE YOU ARE

I ACCEPT YOU… RASA

From RAJ: Re: My Guru and Avatar

All Praise Your Holiness, my God, my Wife,

Forgive me for not writing back sooner, I have been out of town, so I had no internet. But I have had many dreams of you. Every night I dream of you. Just a few nights ago I had a dream of you and I holding hands on a beach during a sunset. We spoke to each other about spirituality, but I am sorry I can’t not recall the conversation too much. We talked about the soul and liberation.

RASA: MY SON AND HUSBAND:

IF YOU ARE WALKING ON THE BEACH HOLDING HANDS WITH ME WITH A SETTING SUN, TALKING THIS WAY, IS A PRELUDE OR OPENING TO THE HIGHEST UNION WITH GOD. THIS ASPECT SPELLS ‘ROMANCE’ OR ‘FOREPLAY’ TOWARD THAT UNION. I AM GOD, I AM NOT A WOMAN, THIS IS THE GOD PART OF ME WHICH IS THE REAL ME, AND THE GOD PART OF YOU, THE REAL YOU WHO ARE HAVING A RELATIONSHIP.

LIBERATION IS LOVE, THERE IS NO OTHER EXPLANATION, THE ABSOLUTE LOVE THAT FREES ONE UP, COMPLETE AND TOTAL LOVE. THIS LOVE EXPANDS UNTIL THERE IS NOTHING LEFT BUT LOVE, AND THAT IS APPARANTLY THE STATE YOU HAVE REACHED.

You told me how to worship you and find that liberation.

RASA: YES I ‘TOLD’ AND ‘SHOWED’ YOU HOW TO WORSHIP ME AND THEN, IT WAS REVEALED TO YOU THAT I AM GOD, AND THERE WAS NO BARRIER THEN BETWEEN YOU AND GOD, YOU WENT PAST MY FLESH, AND THEREFORE, YOUR EYES WERE OPENED, AND YOU SAW I AM NOT THE FLESH, BUT I AM GOD.

THE MOMENT YOU OBEYED ME AND UNDERSTOOD THIS PRINCIPLE YOU ALSO ‘BECAME GOD’ OR FOUND YOUR TRUE SELF, SELF REALIZATION, ENLIGHTENMENT, AND NONDUALITY. AS THERE IS NOTHING BUT GOD, GOD IS ALL, GOD IS SUPREME, GOD IS THE POWER AND THE ABSOLUTE WITHIN EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US WHEN WE REACH ENLIGHTENMENT.

THAT IS WHAT ENLIGHTENMENT, MOKSHA, LIBERATION IS, AND YOU HAVE REACHED IT. MYSELF AS GURU WAS THE BRIDGE FOR YOU, BUT YOU DID IT BY OBEDIENCE.

I also had a dream just last night, but I am too ashamed to say it to you. I fear you will be angered my Lord. I will never forget that dream, it was of me and you, but how can I explain it too you?

RASA: IT WAS A DREAM OF DIVINE UNION, PERCEIVED AS SEX ON THE EARTH PLANE. WHAT IS SEX? IT IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, A GREAT GIFT FROM GOD.

I EXPERIENCED TERRIBLE SACRIFICE IN THE AREA OF SEX, BY REMOVING SEX PLEASURE FROM MY BODY AND MIND FOR THIRTY YEARS, TO VARIOUS DEGREES, UNTIL I HAD NO SEX DRIVE TO SPEAK OF.

DURING THESE YEARS GOD APPEARED TO ME AS A LOVER UNDER THE FORM OF BEAUTIFUL MALES – NOT OFTEN – BUT THOSE RARE TIMES KEPT ME ALIVE. THEY WERE THE HIGHLIGHTS OF MY LIFE. IN THIRTY YEARS HOW MANY TIMES DID GOD APPEAR AS LOVER? PERHAPS IN VARIOUS DEGREES OF ROMANCE, KISSING, TOUCH, A HUNDRED TIMES. REAL PERCEIVED SEX PERHAPS ONLY 6-7 TIMES. THESE WERE THE HIGHEST FORMS OF UNION WITH GOD, THAT I LIVED FOR, OR FELT I WOULD DIE IF GOD HAD NOT APPEARED TO ME THAT WAY.

WHY DOES GOD APPEAR UNDER THE FORM OF SEX? WHY NOT SOME OTHER WAY?

GOD DOES APPEAR IN OTHER WAYS, MOST OFTEN THE PATH OF MOTHER OR PARENT, ESPECIALLY MOTHER. I APPEAR AS MOTHER MANY TIMES TO DISCIPLES. IT IS WHATEVER THE PERSON NEEDS AT THE TIME. WHATEVER YOU NEED FROM GOD, GOD APPEARS IN THAT FORM.

AS YOU EVOLVE CLOSER AND CLOSER, BECOME STRONGER, GOD APPEARS AS THE LOVER.

GOD TOTALLY AND ABSOLUTELY COMPENSATES YOU FOR YOUR SACRIFICES, INCLUDING THE SACRIFICE OF THE SEX LIFE, BUT MOST PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE STRENGTH TO ENDURE CELIBACY, COMPLETE CELIBACY, NO MASTURBATION.

I ENDURED IT UNTIL THE TIME CAME THAT THERE WAS NO TURNING BACK, I KNEW I WAS GOD. IT TOOK MANY YEARS AND INTENSE PAIN, PAIN THAT WOULD KILL MANY, EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL PAIN, DESOLATION, TERRIBLE HEART HUNGER.

THESE ARE THE ‘DARK NIGHTS’ ONE MUST ENDURE FOR ENLIGHTENMENT.

PEOPLE WILL NOT UNDERSTAND. WHEN I WROTE ARTICLES ON CELIBACY BEING NEEDED FOR TOTAL ENLIGHTENMENT OR SEEING GOD FACE TO FACE, THEY WROTE MANY ANGRY LETTERS FROM SPIRITUAL GROUPS AND MONASTERIES. WHY? BECAUSE THEY CANNOT ENDURE CELIBACY. BUT I TOLD THEM, YOU CANNOT HAVE ANY ATTACHMENT WHATSOEVER TO REACH PURE AND PERFECT ENLIGHTENMENT, INCLUDING SEX, ALL MUST BE RENOUNCED, FORGOTTEN, SACRIFIED. WOW, WERE THEY ANGRY!

DO NOT BE AFRAID OF THE SEXUAL CONTENT OF YOUR VISIONS OR DREAMS, LET ME KNOW WHAT THEY ARE, AND I WILL EXPLAIN THE MEANING WITHIN THEM.

Raj continues: I continue to worship you. My faith lives in your glory. I only worship you. I have prayed to you and I have had so much goodness in my life now. I am happier and for some reason i am getting a lot of sexual energy. I need your help my God, I bow to your feet. I can not control my sexual urges. I don’t watch porn anymore, I don’t find other women attractive anymore. Only you are attractive to me. So I have a question, more like a request. My I watch your videos, and instill your beauty in my mind so that I may satisfy myself? I see you as God, but I am so aroused by sexual your beauty. If what I speak of is blasphemy then you may whip me hundred times for even thinking such thoughts. I only serve you my Lord, my Goddess. Forgive me, but I ask for your guidance. Please teach me how to control my sexual urges.

RASA: HUSBAND, THERE IS NO BLASPHEMY HERE. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO WORSHIP MY GOD SELF AND MY FLESH, THEY ARE ONE, THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE, IT IS MIND, BODY AND SOUL, I AM IN NONDUALITY, I AM NOT MERELY THE FLESH, I AM LIKE THE HOLY TRINITY, WHICH I CALL: MOTHER GOD, SPIRIT AND CREATION.

YOU SHOULD WORSHIP ALL PARTS OF ME – THE SAHASRARA OR GOD SELF, THE HEART CHAKRA, DOWN TO ALL THE LOWER EVEN TO THE MULADHARA, I AM GOD. MY BODY AND MY SAHASRARA ARE ONE, THERE IS NO SEPARATION BECAUSE I HAVE ‘CONQUERED THE WORLD’ AND THE FLESH, I HAVE RISEN ABOVE THE LOWER SELF, BUT MY HIGHER SELF NOW FEEDS THE LOWER SELF BECAUSE THE LOWER SELF HAS BIOLOGICAL NEEDS, AND THEY MUST BE SERVED NOW, BECAUSE FOR ONE THING, I BRING A NEW MESSAGE TO THE WORLD. (MORE ON THAT LATER)

YOU SHOULD WORSHIP MY BODY AS WELL AS MY METAPHYSICAL, NON PHYSICAL SELF, THEY ARE ALL GOD. IN FACT, THIS IS THE RETURN OF MOTHER GOD AND WOMAN POWER, AND I AM SHOWING THE WAY.

I AM TEACHING THE WORLD TO WORSHIP MOTHER GOD AND WOMEN AS HER EMBODIMENT, AND THIS WILL BRING MATRIARCHY AND THE SALVATION OF THE PLANET.

YOU, RAJ, HAVE APPARANTLY REACHED THE SAHASRARA AND ENLIGHTENMENT, AND SO, IT IS SAFE FOR YOU TO ENJOY SEX. IF ONE HAS NOT REACHED THE SAHASRARA AND BECOME LIBERATED, ANY ATTACHMENT INCLUDING SEX CAN KEEP THEM TRAPPED OR IMPRISONED ON THE LOWER PLANES, BUT ONCE YOU HAVE ASCENDED YOU ARE FREE FOREVER,

‘WHEN THAT WHICH IS PERFECT HAS COME, THAT WHICH IS IN PART SHALL BE DONE AWAY WITH.’

ALL THE SACRIFICES OF THE PAST, CAN BE ENDED WHEN ONE HAS REACHED PURE AND PERFECT FREEDOM. YOU ARE SAFE, YOU ARE GOD.

Your Loving Husband and Eternal Servant, Raj

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Pornography V Romance By William Bond

Pornography is extremely popular on the internet, as many men seem to like it. Yet at the same time, most women don’t seem to like it at all, and many are very hostile to it. So why is there this big difference between the sexes on this subject?

Pornography is about sex and men and women have different attitudes about sex. For men, sex seems to be about depositing semen inside women, but most men do not think much about, what happens afterwards. But women cannot have this attitude, because if the semen makes her pregnant, then she then has a child growing inside her. Then when it is born, she has to devote her life into looking after that child. So for this reason, what sex means to men, is very different to what it means for women.

How little men think about fertilization is shown in porn videos, because most of it doesn’t show man’s semen going inside a woman’s vagina but more inside a woman’s mouth or anus, or even just on her face or breasts. This is generally the climax of the film. (no pun intended). All this is far too mechanical and limiting for most women, because women are more interested in relationships.

Most women prefer romance rather than pornography; because romantic stories are about the relationship between men and women. There is a very good reason for this. Once a woman becomes pregnant, then she is going to be better off looking after her child, if she can receive the help and support of the child’s father. So a romantic story of a man who falls in love with a woman, and loves her so much, that when she has children, he devotes his life to looking after her and her children. Is what most women want. This then, is why romantic stories are far more appealing to a woman, than pornography.

So if romantic stories are very appealing to women, why aren’t they also appealing to men? Why is it that so many men will prefer a pornography story, than a romantic story? The reason could be about how men and women think about love.

For most women, love is not a choice; it is very difficult for a woman not to love. The reason for this, is that women have a very powerful maternal instinct. For most species of animal to survive, it is important that the female want to have young and nurture them, until they reach breeding age. This instinct is even more important for human beings because the human baby is the most helpless newborn in the animal kingdom. As it can take up to 20 years to become an adult. So, for the human species to survive, it means that the human female has to have a very powerful maternal instinct in caring for and protecting her children. This means, women have very little choice in wanting to love. This maternal instinct is so strong that women not only love children, they also love animals and men as well. We can see this in the caring professions, like nursing, old people carers, teachers and social workers are dominated by women.

On the other hand, men do have a choice about whether he wishes to love others. In evolutionary terms, men can fertilize many different women and therefore father lots of children and not be involved in caring for any of them, if he doesn’t wish, to do so. This is one of the reasons why human societies have marriage, laws and customs. Is to try and force men to stay and help to look after the children they have fathered. This attitude of mind is reflected in pornography.

One of the reasons why many women do not like pornography is that it is devoid of love. Women like romantic stories about love, but men are not so sure about this. The reason for this, is that, if you fall in love, then you are ‘hooked’. In other words if you deeply love another person, then you many find yourself devoting your life to caring about other people. For this reason, many men are wary about getting married, and forming relationships as they want freedom to do as they like. This is also why men like pornography, because it is mostly about sex without love. Men do like to have fantasies about having sex with women, without having all the problems of loving relationships or having to care for children. Women on the other hand have no choice in this, it is far harder for women to divorce sex from love and the nurturing of children.

Another thing that many women don’t like about pornography is that some of it goes further than just being unloving. Some of it, is about men degrading and hurting women. So why is this? The reason probably is, is that if men do fear loving a woman, then the defense against this, is hatred. By hating women, allows men to have sex with them, without getting emotionally involved in them.

It can be even get more problematic that this. Men do want and need women to love them, but when this happens, it is hard not to love women in return. So hate becomes the antidote to love, as men find themselves in a position of hating the women who loves them. This is shown in extreme porn videos, where women are shown being loving towards men and only receiving abuse in return. These men do not even like to acknowledge these women are being loving, and accuse these abused women of being, kinky, perverted or masochistic. Psychologists claim that women who love abusive men are masochistic because they lack self-esteem. They do not comment on the powerful maternal instinct of women, which allows them to love these types of men. So it is not about her being kinky, perverted or masochistic or any of the other labels people place on these women, but just about the expression of her powerful maternal and loving instincts.

The same cannot be said about men who abuse loving women. It is true they are simply resisting feelings of love, they have for others. Therefore, it is perfectly reasonable for a man, not to want to love, so he is free to do what he likes. But it is not so understandable if he abuses women who love him. Or fathers children and runs away, the moment his girlfriend is pregnant or gives birth.

Another problem women have with pornography is that the type of sex that is written about or shown, is unlikely to give a woman pleasure. Certainly a woman is not going to receive an orgasm through having a penis in her mouth or anus, but this can also be true, if a woman has a penis in her vagina. A very large number of women cannot orgasm through vagina stimulated. The reason for this, is that orgasm can only happen, if the clitoris is stimulated. If a woman has her clitoris close to the opening of her vagina, then the penis might rub against it while the penis is pumping inside her and so she may be able to have an orgasm. But if there is no contact between the penis and clitoris through penetrative sex, then it is very difficult for this to happen. This is still true, even if the man has a gigantic penis.

The problem is, that if a woman tries to explain this to some men, he can see it as a criticism of his sexual performance. As a result, she can be accused of being frigid, and encouraged to see a doctor or a psychologist. Because of this, many women end up faking an orgasm, to spare herself this aggravation. This faking also happens in pornographic stories and videos. For this reason, seeing a porn actress faking an orgasm from penetrative sex, is not going to excite a woman, who knows the “orgasm” is faked..

It seems most women can only orgasm through direct clitoris stimulation, which means that the man has to either use his finger or tongue. Pornography is full of stories and videos of women giving men oral sex but there is not a lot about men giving oral sex to women. And even when that is shown, very few of it shows a man licking a woman’s clitoris until she orgasms. So for this reason, as far as women are concerned, pornography is only about men’s pleasure and not about what women enjoy.

So the differences between the sexes, in their attitude to pornography and romance are all to do about their different feelings about love. Women are looking for love and relationships in their sex lives, whereas many men prefer to separate sex from love. In this, there doesn’t seem to be a lot of compromise. Many men have learnt to have loving relationships with women when they live with them and have a family. But it is very difficult for women to have sexual relationships without love. It is true women working in the sex industry are expected to do this, but they don’t find it easy. The stereotype of the prostitute with the heart of gold is true, because women find it too difficult to suppress their maternal instincts.

The problem nowadays is that many teenage boys learn all about sex from watching pornographic films and if all they see is about men being selfish lovers or abusing women, and the women faking orgasms, then these young men will get the wrong idea about having sex with women. This will cause problems and misunderstanding when he attempts o have sex with a real-life woman. The only way to counter this would be for women to make their own pornographic films that will appeal to women. So it will be hard core films with love and romance in them, and male porn actors who actually know how to pleasure women properly and give them what they want and enjoy.

This will give the women who see these films the confidence to resist the unrealistic demands made by young men who have seen pornography. Also, if there is any argument about how they should have sex, the women can refer him to these more female friendly pornographic films to get a proper sex-education. So films like this can help couples in educating them in how they can both enjoy sex together.

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Guru Rasa Comments on the William Bond article

 

Pornography V Romance – By William Bond

Pornography is extremely popular on the internet, as many men seem to like it.

 

RASA SAYS: INDEED. BOYS BEGIN WATCHING PORN ON THE INTERNET AVERAGE AGE ELEVEN. HOTELS/MOTELS WHICH PROVIDE INTERNET SERVICE REVEAL THAT 50% OF WHAT IS ACCESSED IS PORNO.

Yet at the same time, most women don’t seem to like it at all, and many are very hostile to it.

RASA SAYS: I AGREE WITH ALL WILLIAM SAYS. HOW CAN WOMEN ENJOY A TYPE OF SEX ACT THAT IS DEGRADING TO THEM? IT TURNS THEM INTO THINGS THAT MUST BE EXPLOITED, USED & DEBASED, OFTEN WITH BODY-PUNISHING ACTIVITY, MULTIPLE PARTNERS WHO DON’T LOVE THEM, NO FOREPLAY, NO AFFECTION.

So why is there this big difference between the sexes on this subject? Pornography is about sex and men and women have different attitudes about sex. For men, sex seems to be about depositing semen inside women, but most men do not think much about, what happens afterwards.

RASA SAYS: “SPERM DONORS.” IT’S ABOUT THE PLEASURE OF THE RELEASE, & THE FEEL-GOOD HORMONES. EVERYONE WANTS TO FEEL GOOD, BUT THE MALE GETS TO FEEL GOOD WHILE THE FEMALE DOESN’T, IN PORNO & NORMAL PATRIARCHAL SEX. WHAT I AM TRYING TO DO NOW IS BRING THE LOVE & AFFECTION BACK INTO SEXUALITY, & CREATE A LOVE NEST THAT PLEASURES WOMEN.

But women cannot have this attitude, because if the semen makes her pregnant, then she then has a child growing inside her. Then when it is born, she has to devote her life into looking after that child. So for this reason, what sex means to men, is very different to what it means for women.

RASA SAYS: WILLIAM SPEAKS THE TRUTH. BUT BESIDES CHILDBIRTH, THERE IS LOVE, WHICH MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING, BESIDES SIMPLY BREEDING, EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO FEEL LOVED AS MEN DO ALSO. WHERE IS THE LOVE? THE MAN “GETS OFF,” WHICH MAKES HIM FEEL LOVED – THE WOMAN DOESN’T, WHICH MAKES HER FEEL DEPRIVED. IN A PATRIARCHAL WORLD, THE SATISFACTION GOES TO THE MAN.

How little men think about fertilization is shown in porn videos, because most of it doesn’t show man’s semen going inside a woman’s vagina but more inside a woman’s mouth or anus, or even just on her face or breasts. This is generally the climax of the film. (no pun intended). All this is far too mechanical and limiting for most women, because women are more interested in relationships. Most women prefer romance rather than pornography; because romantic stories are about the relationship between men and women. There is a very good reason for this. Once a woman becomes pregnant, then she is going to be better off looking after her child, if she can receive the help and support of the child’s father. So a romantic story of a man who falls in love with a woman, and loves her so much, that when she has children, he devotes his life to looking after her and her children. Is what most women want. This then, is why romantic stories are far more appealing to a woman, than pornography.

RASA SAYS: YES, WOMEN ARE ABOUT RELATIOSHIPS. BUT THE FIRST RELATIONSHIP IS WITH HIM, THE MAN, THEN THERE IS IN SOME CASES, THE CHILD, & IT BEGINS OVER & OVER AGAIN. SEX IS A PART OF A SPIRAL, A DANCE OF REPETITION, LOVE HAPPENS AGAIN, AGAIN & AGAIN. IT STARTS WITH BIRTH, THE CHILD LEARNS WHAT LOVE & SEX ARE FROM THE MOTHER. SHE TRANSFERS LOVE. THEN THE MAN NEEDS LOVE, THE SAME LOVE HE GOT FROM THE MOTHER. HE SEEKS OUT ANOTHER WOMAN. HE GETS THE LOVE, BUT GIVES LITTLE IN RETURN (MOST OF THE TIME.) THE WOMEN ARE LEFT DERIVED, FRUSTRATED & EMPTY. IT ISN’T FAIR. WE WANT TO REMEDY THAT IN OUR TEACHINGS, BRINGING BACK IDEAS THAT PLEASURE THE WOMAN.

So if romantic stories are very appealing to women, why aren’t they also appealing to men? Why is it that so many men will prefer a pornography story, than a romantic story? The reason could be about how men and women think about love. For most women, love is not a choice; it is very difficult for a woman not to love. The reason for this, is that women have a very powerful maternal instinct. For most species of animal to survive, it is important that the female want to have young and nurture them, until they reach breeding age.

This instinct is even more important for human beings because the human baby is the most helpless newborn in the animal kingdom. As it can take up to 20 years to become an adult. So, for the human species to survive, it means that the human female has to have a very powerful maternal instinct in caring for and protecting her children. This means, women have very little choice in wanting to love. This maternal instinct is so strong that women not only love children, they also love animals and men as well. We can see this in the caring professions, like nursing, old people carers, teachers and social workers are dominated by women. On the other hand, men do have a choice about whether he wishes to love others. In evolutionary terms, men can fertilize many different women and therefore father lots of children and not be involved in caring for any of them, if he doesn’t wish, to do so. This is one of the reasons why human societies have marriage, laws and customs. Is to try and force men to stay and help to look after the children they have fathered.

RASA SAYS: WILLIAM BRINGS UP AN INTERESTING POINT. IN PATRIARCHY, IT IS AS HE SAYS. BUT WHAT WAS IT LIKE IN MATRIARCHY? I BELIEVE WOMEN WERE THE PRIMARY PARENTS – THE MALES WERE NOT BURDENED WITH THE RESPONSIBILITY OF CARING FOR THEIR INDIVIDUAL CHILDREN, WOMEN WERE THE LEADERS, THE MAN’S JOB WAS INDEED AS SPERM DONOR, PLEASURE GIVER & WORKER. WOMEN TOOK CARE OF EVERYTHING, IN THEIR HANDS, CHILDREN WERE NURTURED & PROTECTED, THE MEN DID WHAT THEY HAD TO DO, WHAT THEY WERE CAPABLE OF. THEY DID NOT HAVE TO BE FAITHFUL, AS NO ONE CARED WHO THE FATHER WAS – ONLY WHO THE MOTHER IS. WOMEN HELD THE LEADERSHIP, THE RESOURCES. IN A MAN’S WORLD, HE SUPPOSEDLY IS THE FAITHFUL FATHER & HUSBAND, HE WORKS, GOES OUT, COMES HOME, ETC. BUT IN REALITY, MALES PREFER LOTS OF SEX PARTNERS – SO DO WOMEN IN MOST CASES, EXCEPT IN THE FIRST YEARS OF THE CHILD’S LIFE THEIR SEX DRIVE GOES DOWN! WOMEN WANT MULTIPLE PARTNERS MOST OF THE TIME, & IN MATRIARCHY, EVERYONE WAS ALLOWED. THE NUCLEAR FAMILYIS NOT NORMAL, NOT HAPPY, & DRAINS THE PSYCHIC ENERGY OF THE MALE. HE CANNOT HANDLE THIS KIND OF DISCIPLINE & RESPONSIBILITY.

This attitude of mind is reflected in pornography. One of the reasons why many women do not like pornography is that it is devoid of love. Women like romantic stories about love, but men are not so sure about this. The reason for this, is that, if you fall in love, then you are ‘hooked’. In other words if you deeply love another person, then you many find yourself devoting your life to caring about other people. For this reason, many men are wary about getting married, and forming relationships as they want freedom to do as they like. This is also why men like pornography, because it is mostly about sex without love. Men do like to have fantasies about having sex with women, without having all the problems of loving relationships or having to care for children. Women on the other hand have no choice in this, it is far harder for women to divorce sex from love and the nurturing of children.

RASA SAYS: LET MEN BE FREE, THEY AREN’T STRONG ENOUGH TO CARE FOR CHILDREN. THEIR ROLE IS TO GIVE US SEX PLEASURE & WORK – THE WOMEN WILL TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN PERFECTLY WITHOUT THEM, AS LONG AS THEY DO WHAT THEY ARE GOOD AT, WHAT THEY ARE SUITABLE FOR. WOMEN ARE THE LEADERS – LET THEM LEAD. IF WOMEN OWN THE RESOURCES, THEY WILL HANDLE THE ENTIRE ECONOMY EFFECTIVELY & PEACEFULLY, LET THE PEOPLE HAVE SEX WITH WHOMEVER THEY WANT, LET THE WOMEN TAKE CARE OF THE PEOPLE.

Another thing that many women don’t like about pornography is that some of it goes further than just being unloving. Some of it, is about men degrading and hurting women. So why is this? The reason probably is, is that if men do fear loving a woman, then the defense against this, is hatred. By hating women, allows men to have sex with them, without getting emotionally involved in them. It can be even get more problematic that this. Men do want and need women to love them, but when this happens, it is hard not to love women in return. So hate becomes the antidote to love, as men find themselves in a position of hating the women who loves them. This is shown in extreme porn videos, where women are shown being loving towards men and only receiving abuse in return.

RASA SAYS: IN THIS EVIL, PATRIARCHAL WORLD MEN ARE TAUGHT TO BE ABUSIVE. IT BEGINS BY ABUSING THE MEN, WHEN THEY ARE LITTLE – THEY ARE SEXUALLY MOLESTED BY MEN – WHICH ISN’T NORMAL, WHICH HURTS. MALES ARE HURT FROM INFANCY, BY MALES FORCING THEM TO HAVE PAINFUL & SCARY SEX WITH GROWN MEN. THIS DAMAGES THEM FOR LIFE, DAMAGES THEIR EMOTIONAL SYSTEMS, THEIR MINDS. THESE MEN HAVE TO BECOME “SHUT DOWN”, INSENSITIVE, EVEN SADISTIC, DEPENDING ON HOW MUCH ABUSE THEY TOOK. EVEN IF THEY HAD GOOD THINGS GOING FOR THEM IN OTHER WAYS, THE SEXUAL ABUSE OF BOYS DAMAGES THEM FOR LIFE, DAMAGES THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN & THEIR ABILITY TO MAKE LOVE & BE HAPPY. HOW MUCH SEX ABUSE IS GOING ON? IN THE OLD DAYS, ROMANS & GREEKS ROUTINELY TOOK BOYS AWAY FROM MOTHER STARTING AGE SEVEN. (THIS HAPPENS IN THE SAMBIA TRIBE TODAY) THESE DAYS THE ABUSE HAPPENS IN THE HOME MOST TIMES, OTHER TIMES WHEREVER MALES GAIN ACCESS TO BOYS. THIS IS A MAJOR PROBLEM LATER ON. STATISTICS SAY 25% OF BOYS ARE MOLESTED BY DADS. IF YOU FACTOR IN OTHER SITUATIONS, I GUESS THAT 50 OR MORE % ARE MOLESTED.

These men do not even like to acknowledge these women are being loving, and accuse these abused women of being, kinky, perverted or masochistic. Psychologists claim that women who love abusive men are masochistic because they lack self-esteem. They do not comment on the powerful maternal instinct of women, which allows them to love these types of men. So it is not about her being kinky, perverted or masochistic or any of the other labels people place on these women, but just about the expression of her powerful maternal and loving instincts. The same cannot be said about men who abuse loving women. It is true they are simply resisting feelings of love, they have for others. Therefore, it is perfectly reasonable for a man, not to want to love, so he is free to do what he likes. But it is not so understandable if he abuses women who love him. Or fathers children and runs away, the moment his girlfriend is pregnant or gives birth.

RASA SAYS: WOULDN’T IT BE A WONDERFUL WORLD IF WOMEN WERE NOT MATERNAL & DID NOT FORGIVE & LOVE MEN, & JUST TOOK REVENGE ON THEM, REFUSED TO LOVE THEM? WOULD THAT BE A TERRIFIC MEDICINE FOR THE CRUELTY OF MEN? PERHAPS WE SHOULD TRY THAT – IT HAS NOT BEEN TRIED. AS WOMEN ARE NOW GAINING ASCENDENCY & WILL CONTROL THE RESOURCES, INDEED, THEY CAN AFFORD TO THROW TO THE CURB THE EVIL MEN, AFTER THEY HAVE GOTTEN WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF THEM. IN OTHER WORDS, USE THE MEN ONLY FOR PLEASURE NOW, TREAT THEM AS SLAVES, DON’T MOLLY CODDLE THEM, DON’T FORGIVE. JUST HAVE PLEASURE, GET WHATEVER YOU WANT OUT OF THEM, & THROW THEM OUT INTO THE COLD – ONCE YOU HAVE THE RESOURCES & HE DOESN’T.

Another problem women have with pornography is that the type of sex that is written about or shown, is unlikely to give a woman pleasure. Certainly a woman is not going to receive an orgasm through having a penis in her mouth or anus, but this can also be true, if a woman has a penis in her vagina.

RASA SAYS: ABOUT PENIS IN THE ANUS. THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST DEMONICALLY CONCEIVED IDEAS PORNOGRAPHERS HAVE GOT. FIRST OFF, SEX IN THE ANUS IS PAINFUL & DANGEROUS,– THE ANUS HAS ONLY A BIT OVER 4” BEFORE HITTING BONE. ANAL SEX USUALLY CAUSES TEARS & LESIONS, WITH BLOOD, THEREFORE A COUPLE OF THINGS CAN HAPPEN. DEFECATION IN THE BLOOD CAN BE TOXIC. SECONDLY, MOST WOMEN WHO HAVE AIDS GOT IT FROM RECEPTIVE BACK DOOR SEX – 68% OF THEM. WHY? ONCE THE AIDS VIRUS GOES INTO THE INTESTINES, IT IS MOST LIKELY TO INFECT THE RECIPIENT. FURTHERMORE, THE PORNOGRAPHERS ARE TEACHING MALES THAT AN ANUS IS AS GOOD AS A VAGINA. NEXT STEP – HOMOSEXUALITY. SINCE MALES HAVE AN ANUS JUST LIKE A FEMALE, WHY NOT GET OFF WITH THEM? THEY ARE SAYING IT’S THE SAME THING.

A very large number of women cannot orgasm through only vaginal stimulation. The reason for this, is that orgasm can only happen, if the clitoris is stimulated.

RASA SAYS: MASTER’S & JOHNSON PROVED THIS IN THE LATE 60’S WHEN THEY TESTED ON 300 PROSTITUTES, WITH ELECTRODES. THE CLITORIS WAS THE ONLY PLACE OF ORGASM. NOW THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT “G SPOTS” & “SQUIRTING” – ALL LIES MADE UP BY MEN TO GARNER PORN SALES & GET MEN TWISTED.

If a woman has her clitoris close to the opening of her vagina, then the penis might rub against it while the penis is pumping inside her and so she may be able to have an orgasm. But if there is no contact between the penis and clitoris through penetrative sex, then it is very difficult for this to happen. This is still true, even if the man has a gigantic penis. The problem is, that if a woman tries to explain this to some men, he can see it as a criticism of his sexual performance. As a result, she can be accused of being frigid, and encouraged to see a doctor or a psychologist. Because of this, many women end up faking an orgasm, to spare herself this aggravation. This faking also happens in pornographic stories and videos. For this reason, seeing a porn actress faking an orgasm from penetrative sex, is not going to excite a woman, who knows the “orgasm” is faked.

RASA SAYS: WOMEN ARE FAKING ORGASMS ALL THE TIME, IT IS ONE OF THE MOST FREQUENTLY TOLD LIES. ANYONE CAN MOAN & GROAN, THERE IS NO PROOF SHE IS COMING. FURTHERMORE, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS “MULTIPLE ORGASMS” IN A ROW – A WOMAN CAN CLAIM THIS, NO ONE HAS PROVEN IT—BECAUSE IT’S A LIE.

It seems most women can only orgasm through direct clitoris stimulation, which means that the man has to either use his finger or tongue. Pornography is full of stories and videos of women giving men oral sex but there is not a lot about men giving oral sex to women. And even when that is shown, very few of it shows a man licking a woman’s clitoris until she orgasms. So for this reason, as far as women are concerned, pornography is only about men’s pleasure and not about what women enjoy. So the differences between the sexes, in their attitude to pornography and romance are all to do about their different feelings about love. Women are looking for love and relationships in their sex lives, whereas many men prefer to separate sex from love. In this, there doesn’t seem to be a lot of compromise. Many men have learnt to have loving relationships with women when they live with them and have a family. But it is very difficult for women to have sexual relationships without love. It is true women working in the sex industry are expected to do this, but they don’t find it easy. The stereotype of the prostitute with the heart of gold is true, because women find it too difficult to suppress their maternal instincts completely.

The problem nowadays is that many teenage boys learn all about sex from watching pornographic films and if all they see is about men being selfish lovers or abusing women, and the women faking orgasms, then these young men will get the wrong idea about having sex with women. Which will cause problems and misunderstanding when he attempts o have sex with a real-life woman. The only way to counter this would be for women to make their own pornographic films that will appeal to women. So it will be hard core films with love and romance in them. And male porn actors who actually know how to pleasure women properly and give them what they want and enjoy. This will give the women who see these films the confidence to resist the unrealistic demands made by young men who have seen pornography. Also, if there is any argument about how they should have sex, the women can refer him to these more female friendly pornographic films to get a proper sex-education. So films like this can help couples in educating them in how they can both enjoy sex together.

RASA SAYS: RIGHT NOW OLD MEN ARE TEACHING YOUNG MEN WHAT SEX IS ALL ABOUT, HOW TO “ENJOY” IT, HOW TO DO IT, WHAT IS NORMAL, WHAT IS PLEASURABLE. THEY ARE TWISTING, PERVERTING & MISGUIDING YOUNG MALES, THE FALLOUT IS MISERY FOR WOMEN, DELUSION FOR MEN. INSTEAD, IF BOTH GENDERS SAW THE LIGHT, IF SOMEHOW WE WENT BACK TO PLEASURING WOMEN, IT WOULD BE A MUCH MORE HONEST & HUMANE WORLD. MEN ARE NOT WHAT MAKES THE WORLD GO ‘ROUND – WOMEN ARE. WOMEN CAN LIVE WITHOUT MEN, MEN CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT WOMEN. TO SAY THAT MEN MUST BE SERVED, WOMEN USED, IS A LIE FROM THE MOUTH OF SATAN. WHEN MOTHER GOD POWER RETURNS, WOMEN WILL ONCE MORE BE VENERATED, & ONE OF THE WAYS THEY ARE VENERATED, IS THROUGH THE ACT OF LOVE. WE WILL GIVE GUIDANCE TO MEN HOW TO LOVE WOMEN, HOW TO RESPECT THEM & PLEASURE THEM.

From William Bond, comments Rasa Von Werder, Nov. 17, 2013.

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Sex Discussion: William Bond & Rasa Von Werder

William Bond

Yes, most men have no idea about what pleases women, and most women don’t seem to know themselves, or if they do, don’t tell the man.

VoiceofmotherGod RasavonWerder

We don’t tell men because when it’s time to have sex IT IS TOO LATE. Furthermore we don’t want to hurt the guy’s feelings. Women do a lot of pretending during sex, pretend they are exciting, pretend they are orgasming, all to make sure his pride is not hurt. But that does not help us. The reason men don’t know how to make love the time to learn is when the men are young – & they’re supposed to be taught by older women. The older women aren’t intimidated by the young guys, they give them instruction & make them do it. After they learn & practice a while, they do what they know automatically to other women, of all ages. But it must begin with the older women – young women carry no authority, they just go along with the male & the males haven’t a clue. So women are frustrated & miserable. I explained this thoroughly in my old woman, young man books but did not go into any instructions. To teach a man in a normal situation is extremely tricky – when at times I started to teach, they lost their hardon. Why? Because their pride is hurt. You have to go past that stage. The one who teaches is not always the one who gets the benefit – the next lady gets the benefit.

William Bond

The most awful thing is women faking orgasm. No wonder men get confused and get the wrong idea about sex, when women do this. The result is that with his next woman, if she doesn’t fake it, she gets accused of being frigid. So it is all a big mix-up.

The problem is that sex is not openly talked about and I agree women do need to have authority and be able to freely speak up and say what they want and do not want. There has to be proper communication between sexual partners.

VoiceofmotherGod RasavonWerder

Women fake orgasms ALL THE TIME – including me in the past, but no more. Since I stopped the males get depressed, sullen, morose. They need to think they are powerful in turning women on, giving them orgasms, they need ego gratification, & women want the men to stay, so they pretend they are excellent bed partners when they are actual failures. The last few guys I had sex with, I saw how when I did not fake orgasms, they did not even want to have sex any more! Why? Because they felt powerless. I wanted to give instruction, but there wasn’t time, we had to do this or that, or they just left, or we had a quota of photography to fill, it was all done “on the run” – one night stands. Instruction takes time. During instruction, the male has to humble himself, but they are legends in their own minds, convinced that the liars they have humped are having sensational orgasms, even multiple orgasms, all the time. It is a delusion women nourish in order to feed men’s egos. The man cannot admit he actually knows little or nothing–he cannot admit he is sexually ignorant because that makes him feel weak.

William Bond

I think many men cannot admit, that they have been fooled so many times by women. If a man has sex with a number of women who fake orgasms then when he meets one who doesn’t, he must wonder what is going on. The whole thing is a mess. Back in the early 20th century it was believed that women could not have orgasms. So if a woman had a orgasm she was a pervert. Then men were told that women could have orgasms so they began to expect it from their partner. But what they were not told is that many women can’t have an orgasm from vaginal sex. So women ended up faking it. Creating even more confusion. Yes, we do need to have proper sex education, about all this.

Rasa Von Werder

But what you said regarding how it used to be, how it turned out, is interesting. Puts some light on the subject. I am really glad I am having lots of sex with lots of males because I need this, not just for fun, but for research. I will help others through my experience, & as we agree, it will help men as well as women. Yes, women have been lying to men for generations. You simply cannot imagine how the boys swear to me on a stack of scriptures, how they make women come, make them squirt (no such thing) touch their G-spot (no such thing) & now, they swear many women love anal sex. In the void of old women teaching young men how to have sex you have pulpits & porno, all against women. Porno has made both males & females shave their crotches – very unhealthy. Porno tells men to hump women anally, that the anus is as good as a vagina, so women & men are obeying porno. It’s the men who watch this & request or demand it of females, the females try to oblige as it seems any loving is hard to find (men have become increasingly sexually dysfunctional). Women are getting the scraps from the table, they feel lucky to have a guy humping when he gives it away to his hand in front of computer porn, or else to each other (males have been turned bi & gay through molestation). Women are giving unprotected sex to men – in risk of AIDS & death – anally is the worst enemy which invites AIDS. The anal sex is painful & degrading — all this for these porno-taught men who will go elsewhere if U don’t give them what they want. I have heard stories that men are so depraved, they don’t care how ugly a woman is, as long as her name is PAM. Pam means she gives him pussy, anal & mouth. So if Ur Pam, you have a steady fukk buddy for life. Yes, it is a mess, with men ruling the world. Let’s bring this mess into the open & change things around, make sex beautiful again for women & men.

I might add that it is extremely difficult to change patterns, thoughts, ideas & compulsions. Many guys are addicted to porn & its teachings, it’s a religion. To change their religion will take effort. It’s not like they’re standing around saying,

“Hey, I’m just waiting for someone to come along & teach me how to please women.”

No, they take the route of least resistance, the path they have been on since they were pre-teens (average age they begin is eleven!), convenient porno. Porno is the dirtiest & most persistent teacher of sex to young males since videos & computers came into being. This is what we are fighting. To win against this will take a lot of time. But when the women wise up, not to cooperate with males, not to give them what they want (if it’s bad) – that’s the only time men will learn willingly, because they might not be satisfied with their hand & the other guy forever. Men are, really, totally dependent on the energy of the female, called the Shakti, Mother God energy, the nurturing, the energy they don’t have, that other men also lack. The deficit of this energy is what makes men crazy, insane, homicidal, suicidal, substance abusers & sexual failures. It’s all about the woman, their lives do depend on the energy of the woman, her name is Mother God, her name is Shakti, the Feminine Divine. However males have twisted other males, to regain Life & normalcy as Mother God intended he has to go back to her.

the Theme is Sex – William Bond & Rasa

William Bond

In the end it is still another part of women empowerment. This wouldn’t happen if women didn’t have confidence and authority to speak up for themselves. I suppose the way porn is expressed is just a refection on the fact that men are still the dominant sex in our society. The only way this is going to change is to empower women so they can confidently speak up for themselves and say exactly what they want and expect from men.

Rasa Von Werder Another problem is that in this Patriarchy males feel they will not be “manly” if they are not dominant sexually. What does sexual dominance mean? They think it means what porno teaches them or the Patriarchal movies that show men sexually dominating women. The one that is dominant is the one that must be pleased – first anyway. Certainly, the other person might get pleased afterward. Here is a crux of the problem. He thinks,

“If I am a man, she has to serve me. And of course, I am so exciting, so powerful, she moans & groans & comes every time, by my licking her vagina a few seconds, then humping her.”

This is the Patriarchal theme. Of course, by the woman faking helps nothing. Step one for women is stop faking – start instructing. But this is difficult in Patriarchy as his feelings get hurt. How to do it? There has to be a start. I have tried, it’s very difficult even though I am older, they much younger. I want to be pleased, but it is so hard, almost impossible, as I am the first woman that ever objected to conventional sex, the rest lied—made him feel great. When I tell him they were faking, he thinks I’m jealous!

There has to be a beginning. Our website is a beginning. It’s simply an alternative teaching tool. If we push this long enough, hard enough, get enough people to read what we have to say, we can change sexual conventions.

Again, the dominant theme is crucial. Who dominates who? We of course, say female dominates male. It is practically impossible for the woman to be pleased or orgasm in the conventional blow & hump. Does it matter a woman be pleased or is it all about men? The world is changing, it does matter, always has, but now men will have to comply. They will finally have to buckle down & please women not just to have a happy woman, but to have a woman, period. Women are getting fussier, more powerful, more dominant! They are gaining economically, getting authority. Soon they will judge males for sexuality & other non-security qualities. Males will be seeing women the opposite – as security objects. Men will have no choice, they will pleasure or perish. Please the woman or have no woman – no woman of value anyway.

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